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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Control freak.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  ''Let'',it reminds me of jensmans thread,''is marriage ownership''....has the dynamic in your relationship recently changed to include a third person? Sex is rarely ever just about sex particularly if this person is someone you are seeing on a regular basis. I imagine that you and your wife would have had numerous discussions about this, but OP you don't give a hint as to how you arrived at this decision,is it recent or has this been a long term arrangement.You also don't say if your wife has a regular same sex fb too. To answer your question would I let my partner have a same sex fb,if I truly loved someone and I knew that would make them happy of course,but the devil is in the detail me thinks.x R

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  However   Whenever a third person is brought into the frey, well it changes the dynamics of the major relationship - sometimes for the best (it can be successful) but often for the worse...so it depends if you really are keeping the third person for who/what they really are...a fuck puppet...for your amusement - and make sure the boundary/line is made very clear to them   Some will be fine with that, but human nature being what it is, always seems to want more............we are rarely satisfied with what we have...and only realise how good/wonderful etc it all was, when its gone.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  ABSOLUTLY NOT !!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I'd have the conversation with my husband as to what he needed emotionally and sexually. I would ask him what he feels he can get from a male that he couldn't get from me. If, after we talked about it in depth, it was obvious that he needed something I couldn't offer and he still wanted and needed me as his number one then I would definitely be open to him having a boyfriend. I love my husband and want him to enjoy his life. Just because I am not capable of giving him something doesn't mean he should go without, especially if it is important to himMrs Splicey

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  Playful2looking

  13 years ago

  cool answers thanks guys..with most couples the woman is generally bi or bi curious. It seems ok even if she has a regular girl friend and or fuck buddy I was just curious if the girls were ok if the guy had the same. if he was bisexual or bi curious cheers thanks. Yes she knows and loves to watch us play.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Why do they have to be a fuck puppet? That is an awful way to put it.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  its a fair question.... we've encountered copuples where 'she' has a regular playmate.....male or female, and it seems to be no biggie for them.... so if the shoe were on the other foot, and the couple felt the same way about male bisexuality as many feel about female bisexuality, then yea...it wouldnt be an issue. its the same isnt it? its not for us, as we dont feel the need to do repeats with anyone....but others may see it as fitting their circumstances...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  typo's............copuples? lol

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  My wife is straight and I am bisexual and she does not mind me having a boyfriend as she likes to play with him too.....   I dont see what the probelem is, as its up to the couples to decide what they like and what they are going to do. It not up to other to judge...   We all do things others will not like or does not meet their standeds...   Just go for it and enjoy life your way......

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