M51
Body type
March 23 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
on the heavier side and I am not attracted to bigger men either. Don't know why, maybe there is some correlation between guys with beer guts being alcoholics, not an ideal trait, having inactive pen pushing jobs, a lot of women tend to prefer more outdoorsy blue collar worker types. I think the attractions tend to be more primal than shallow. Personally I prefer a man who who comes across as masculine and strong, and bigger guys don't come across like that. It could be the way they carry themselves too, low self esteem which often comes with having weight on is not sexy unfortunately. Life inside the computer is also vastly different to the real world, on here apparently I am really hot and sexy, probably because the likelihood of sex is so much greater but in reality, I don't get a second glance walking down the street. ...also having a vagina makes it easy to get sex, we can afford to be fussy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't like slim guys for the same reasons in that they don't look strong and masculine. I would prefer a larger guy to a skinny one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Would anyone else like to go first?!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Correct me if I am wrong, but because a woman may be on the larger side, she therefore must accept any offer that comes her way? She is not allowed to have an attraction to someone before meeting them / having sex with them? I am sure there are women in WA who appreciate a larger man. (Why are you looking in Perth though, when you are in Kalgoorlie?) But maybe they are after someone whose profile is a little more appealing and who has a better attitude towards women? Just a thought!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly,why the negative profile name.....yes I understand a double entendre..... But if you want to set up a low expectation,that will do it....why say,"not for the faint hearted".....who are you expecting to be interested in you,Buffy the Vampire slayer?.......most women just don't believe the I can go all night,lick you til the cows come home ....yadda...statements and finally Monsieur Suck.....you is attached xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe it's not your body type but the fact that you are attached! Did you ever think about that? Plus the profile is appalling. Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
what they want. I'm average height and average build with proportions that are a bit askew - large boobs, large belly, broad shoulders etc. Like Ralf I don't get a second glance on the street. I don't even quite fit the curvy type loved by so many men - given I have good boobs and hips but no waist. So by your theory OP I should like doughy men with pot bellies. But I'm afraid I don't. It's a little bit of a curse given the attraction is often not reciprocated, but I'm strongly attracted to tall, lean, muscly men. Big shoulders, chest and arms, narrow hips, strong hands etc. And to make matters worse he needs to be super smart with a big social conscience. No easy task finding my (next) superman. So as I said, the heart and loins want what they want and the best chance we all have of meeting those desires is to make the most of our our assets. Good luck x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'woody_pusscat' Maybe it's not your body type but the fact that you are attached! Did you ever think about that? Plus the profile is appalling. Pusscat xxx Apparently now he's separated Doesn't change the fact that the profile needs a lot of work. And sorry, that profile pic...*shudder*
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lol really what part of no personal attacks was misunderstood? My profile was changed from ask me to separated, it has never been down as attached. I never said larger women should only like large men read my first post again properly. And maybe also take note that I asked and was told because I'm to big please do not make up reasons based on what you think. What I did ask was are there any women in perth who like larger men? Not please dismantle my profile and tell me how fucked I am. Thanks.
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RHP User
12 years ago
At the moment I feel like I'm the king of rejections. And I don't care. I ask the question and for what ever reason they say no, has nothing to do with me in RHP, they have their reasons and that's good enough for me. I'll keep trying and get luck one day. The fact that they had the common courtesy to reply to my message is good enough for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'isuck' Lol really what part of no personal attacks was misunderstood? My profile was changed from ask me to separated, it has never been down as attached. I never said larger women should only like large men read my first post again properly. And maybe also take note that I asked and was told because I'm to big please do not make up reasons based on what you think. What I did ask was are there any women in perth who like larger men? Not please dismantle my profile and tell me how fucked I am. Thanks. I nearly said as much on your behalf :) I thought your original post was pretty clear. On the other hand, when you ask for opinions, you're inviting people to say what's on their mind. It won't always be what you want to hear.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I did mean to thank the people who actually answered my question properly. I have read other post so knew there are a few spiteful vindictive women on here that love ripping men apart. Which is why I put no hate or personal attacks. But I guess they don't like missing a chance.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'lilmiss_fussy' Quoting 'isuck' Lol really what part of no personal attacks was misunderstood? My profile was changed from ask me to separated, it has never been down as attached. I never said larger women should only like large men read my first post again properly. And maybe also take note that I asked and was told because I'm to big please do not make up reasons based on what you think. What I did ask was are there any women in perth who like larger men? Not please dismantle my profile and tell me how fucked I am. Thanks. I nearly said as much on your behalf :) I thought your original post was pretty clear. On the other hand, when you ask for opinions, you're inviting people to say what's on their mind. It won't always be what you want to hear. I agree with lill miss here. people will post their opinions as they read it and sometimes, their opinions will be misunderstood. You have a choice to accept it at face value, ignore it or counter argue. But latter sometimes is nto worth it, I find. So let it go and move on your merry ways. I am quite athletic and presentable and I prefer someone similar. HOWEVER, I personally dont mind men on the 'meaty' side, but not obese. I prefer them to the 'slim' or 'fit' men without personality and manners. I have also found myself attracted to men who you would say are not 'pretty' but really drawn in by the sheer personality, charm and kindness (and hygiene, lol). DON'T DESPAIR. There will be women out there who will accept you for what you are if you turn on the charm and wit. We are not everybody's cup of tea so we accept this and move on to the lovelies waiting for us with with open arms. It is a numbers game and statistically, the more we weed thru the list of undesirables, the closer with are to finding the ones we are compatible with. I wish you well. Hang in there. x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Exactly what my thoughts are as well. For myself and what I may or may not be attracted to in others. Quoting 'lilyorchid' We are not everybody's cup of tea so we accept this and move on to the lovelies waiting for us with with open arms. It is a numbers game and statistically, the more we weed thru the list of undesirables, the closer with are to finding the ones we are compatible with.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'isuck' Yes I did mean to thank the people who actually answered my question properly. I have read other post so knew there are a few spiteful vindictive women on here that love ripping men apart. Which is why I put no hate or personal attacks. But I guess they don't like missing a chance. I was being courteous but now you've just painted yourself as an asshole. Perhaps remember that you get back what you put out there and think about being a little less nasty yourself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'isuck' Yes I did mean to thank the people who actually answered my question properly. I have read other post so knew there are a few spiteful vindictive women on here that love ripping men apart. Which is why I put no hate or personal attacks. But I guess they don't like missing a chance. I was being courteous but now you've just painted yourself as an asshole. Perhaps remember that you get back what you put out there and think about being a little less nasty yourself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't really mind what the body type is, its really the person within....however I am initially attracted to tall, solid, brown hair, brown eyes, beautiful smile.... and good attitude
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RHP User
12 years ago
I apologize miss fussy. Maybe I should have worded my reply a bit better . Or maybe not after all isn't posting on here inviting people to say what's on there mind whether you want to hear it or not. So once again I apologize for coming across as an asshole.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would have loved to be able to have compared this post with a woman"s post asking a question along the same lines, there would have pity not spite, that much I am sure off.... Durty
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can you start a topic asking for opinions on your profile?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lol my profile is the least of my problems. I'm not an idiot but I like my profile it's funny.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Can you start a topic asking for opinions on your profile? There is about a post a week asking for profile opinions mate, wouldn't do you any harm I spos
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RHP User
12 years ago
I answered your question properly. Your profile, and not just your body type, likely also has a lot to do with the rejections you've been receiving.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Never asked for reasons why I am being rejected on here I already know. Never asked for opinions about my profile I already know. The only question I asked is 'Are there any women in perth you like larger guys?' That's it thats all I asked. So please explain your reasoning as I am confused?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I actually posted about a profile review the other day on the perth forums, found the responses to be very helpful! everyone should consider it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have no problem with big guys. I do however have an issue with guys with liw self esteem. Perhaps a name change and an awesome new attitude would do you the world of good. Think positive and act positive. Them positive things will come your way - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry dude, online as in the physical world the ladies hold the keys to the kingdom and although you may be an attractive male and still be on the bigger side yourself you still have competition from men who keep a better physique. Putting your best side forward might be the best bet. Although this site might not be 100% about looks, it is the case 99.99% of the time. Which sounds more appetizing to you: a well garnished Torte or half eaten Pavlova? Keep in mind that the ratios of men to women on the forum are also unbalanced. What is it about you that women may find attractive? Why not ask that question rather than why bigger women don't find you attractive? I don't say this to berate as I don't think your intention was to insult the Voluptuous members of the forum, but perhaps you need to ask the right questions.
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RHP User
12 years ago
OP,you are right,your profile is funny,and I am sure many women....those with a sense I of humour and irony of course,will think so xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you to many people on here are way too serious.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A few lovely ladies have said im not ripped and shredded enough. Matter of fact is I train competitively and my body changes through out the year from huge bulk and solid to shredded vascular and ripped. Luckily I dont hold it against them if they reject me during my bulking stage. I simply live my life and when im shredded and ready for comps I might try again. Lol. Life is too short so if someone wants something specific thats their choice. As long as theyre not rude about it and for what its given ladies, im about 4 to 6 weeks away from being ripped with washboard abs again. So be nice :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is what everyone (myself included) calls my husband. I am also a larger woman (thanks kidlets), but would honestly not look sideways at a skinny man. If I had to put a number on it, I wouldn't be attracted to a Man that was taller than me and over 100kgs. There is a big Difference between being a big fella and overweight and sloppy though. It all comes down to how a man carries himself, his confidence and personality. Good luck💖 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm fucking awesome....and I still get rejected.... But never once by mrs Palmer ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
isuck in here its a numbers game that was pointed out to me in my post asking about my profile not every ones going to like your profile every one will read it differently. The thing is in these sites not just this one its like window shopping if they don't like what they see they wont go into the shop.for me I'm attracted to the physical type more because I like to run, mountain bike ride and kayak and would appreciate their company outside the bedroom as well as in.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like the new nick and profile....and who doesn't love a bit of python:-) :-) :-) :-) xx Q
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