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Bisexual's Taking Over?

October 09 2009

Is it just me or is every other girl on rhp Bisexual? My best friend is bi and so are many of the girls I work with and it just seems to me they are taking over the world lol. I dont have a problem with it but is there actually any other straight girls on here? Iv never tried anything with a girl nor been tempted to I love men way to much.   But why are guys so drawn the bisexual and bi curious chicks?   And has anyone had an exsperince with people not telling the truth about their sexual preferences on their profile?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Its pretty simple ..why guys liek it .. a) looks hot b) always a possibility of 3somesc) can discuss how hot a girl looks together rather than a discrete perve  I think most women just pretend to be bi .. as its a tick in mens books ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think as a community we've become more accepting of bisexuality so more people are willing to explore their inclinations. But if you put a few bi guys for instance in a room with a couple of hetero guys, mostly they become outwardly "straight"... so there's still plenty of stigma associated with being bi so far as guys are concerned. For plenty of guys the difference between being bi or straight is maybe four beers and a private opportunity... for sure sexuality is a complicated thing so i decided to just follow my erection and see where it leads me. That's been as good a guide as any other. Lolz. It seems much more acceptable for women to be bisexual.... to the point that sometimes it seems women are declaring their bisexuality for no other reason than being fashionable.... lolz hugs Gazza

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Yes i'm also going to agree with the " it's fashionable to be a bi girl " theory well at least for the curious ones anyway !.......I seem to get on realy well with Girls that are %100 bi.....both sexually and otherwise, I'm also not sure what that tells me.....maybee nothing ?.But i do think a lot of guys fantasise about ffm threesomes, and the idea probably attracts them to girls that say they are bi, which would be the same reason some girls say they are bi, to attract more guys !   Manly handshakes ...tam

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i like the sound of that! a  army of bisexual woman storming the world each wearing deadly strap-ons and clutching a fist full of silver bullets. NOW THERES A MOVIE   it needs is a name. But you are right there seems to be alot of bi woman,and some didnt start out that way, maybe they will come for you one day? if they do, dont fight it resistance is useless.Thats why you have men dressing up as woman,their not gay their just waiting for the bi army to come calling.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    1st Many women may have become that way so to speak...may be by choice or due couriousity or even under other circumstances .ive only recently stated that i was bi on my profile...as that was a part of my sexual life that i put aside n forgot about..till recently...This was due to the time i grew up in..i was bi from an very early age.Thus due to change of circumstances eg ppl move away etc and peoples sexuallity among other things werent talked about or as openly talked freely. in this day n age....hence it seems the situation that you've mentioned appears to has arisen..so i thinks its fair to say there's been many bi women around for a long time...only they're more open about it.2 nd.We can satisfy each other,in ways some men cant give in a few areas and not just speaking about the sex part...at times.with out them running for the hills thinking that we might want a full on commitment as such when maybe its not the case with all women..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sorrento - it wold make a great movie lol.. agree on a name

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I dunno if its an age thing or what... could just be a tag or label thing.... but i can tell you ...if i was a chick...id want to be bi... at minimum... lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    plus +____ on the bi curious front everyones on a journey in rhp ... hey???? and if i was bi chick id be hitting on you lol - pity i'm over 35 :) lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've been bi since I was just a wee teenager and I LOVE that being bi is in fashion for girls LOL.... lots more fun for me ;-) I hope it stays in fashion for a bit longer yet!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    My wife and I both though she was bi. She was turned on by the thought and wanted to try some day. As the years went by and we did finally start swinging, despite some very hot encounters, she has realised that she is not bi at all. She has no problem with women, isn't turned off by them, just doesn't get turned on by them. There is a great amount of societal pressure to be bi on women, be it song or print or movie. Bisexual is certainly in the scope of normal, but so are gay and straight. My feeling is that the most important thing is to be true to yourself and honest with yourself. If it works for you, great, if it doesn't, then great too. Eric

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I love being with girls especially ones that are really bi ....the thing that gets me are the girls who love having things done to them and when its their turn to do me they like dont want to.....seeing 2 girls together is hot and i love seeing 2 guys as well.You should try it sometime taby you might like it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am extremely bi and love being with girls who are bi...but what gets me are the girls who say they are bi and they let you play with them but when its time for them to do you they change their mind.....taby you should try being with a girl,i love my mans cock but also love pussy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    At one stage in my life I thought I was a lesbian but now its simply bi. Mars

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I wouldnt label myself as bi.....I just like people....and it matters little to me what their gender is.I do love the cock though....hehehehe!Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • kassmebits

    kassmebits

    16 years ago

    I have been Bi since i was 15, have always leaned more to the ladies, but sometimes when the mood hits me, dont mind the odd male companion!! Does seem to be a lot more Bi girls around than 10 years ago tho!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm not really into label eithers.. its all about the chemistry for me.. Its actually a bit frustrating to have all the 'bi' girls about.. As when it comes to the crunch.. they arent really.. its just that its so accepted and popular now, that girls seem to be jumping on the bandwagon..People should be honest with themselves. If you are attracted to both genders, whether male or female, good on ya. If you are attracted to only one gender, thats awesome too.Dont do something cos you think it makes you appear cooler or more popular, its just frustrates the people who really feel that way. Just my two cents! lolMajick.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lol bj, i completely agree. i can't stand labels and having to explain my sexuality, and he he i love cocks too!   sorrento, you should make a film!   sydney bi, mrs dms has the same problem aswell!   one problem i've faced as being a genuine practicing "bi" sexual person is that i am faced with predjudice from the straight and the gay community... apparently people of my sexual inclination don't really exist, apparently we just haven't decided yet. mmmm, not so sure 'bout that, i've decided i love my "bi"sexual wife, i love being a father and i love to have amazing and adventurously sexy encounters with women and men.   great thread, close to our hearts, we feel that in one way it's great that it's so fashionable to be bi right now as we feel we are a bit more accepted by people (especially the young and deliscious ones!) but on the other hand it's a bit cheapening to see a real and genuine element of your identity imitated and commercialised in a kate perry video.   stay sexy, mr dms

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Thanks for that Sophie....I'l have that warm Fuzzy feeling for the rest of the day now !   Also, I can understand the logic in being a  bisexual woman....The sesual softness of a womans touch.....and the raw testosterone of a man......!   muahhs Tam.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have gone through phases myself...sometimes i am more attracted to girls than guys, and then sometimes its only a cock that can ease my need...But at the end of the day I class myself as bi-selective. I don't play with just any girls but indeed there are a lot out there that I do like....But at the end of the day I do love cock the most otherwise I wouldn't be in a MF relationship eitherOh Eric Christine.....*pouts and stamps away* so so sad i am to hear that :(PRINCESS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    but I'm not bi. Tried it a couple of times more than 10 years ago before it was fashionable, out of curiousity, but it just didn't feel right for me and it didn't turn me on.   I get mistaken for being bi or a lesbian often enough at work after I went from having very long, long hair to super short. Funny how people are taken with appearances and stereotypes. Just a simple change and suddenly my sexuality is in question reinforced with the fact that I never got drunk at staff parties and allowed myself to be picked up by a male colleague, or never had a token man bag in tow.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i've been bisexual for as long as i can remember... its not something i feel like i can choose or control, it is simply a part of who i am. as far back as primary school i can remember being attracted to other girls and women, before i even noticed any of the boys around me! i thought i might have been a lesbian for a while when i didnt understand my feelings toward other girls and i didnt know it was possible to be attracted to both sexes, i thought you had to choose one... thank god thats not the case though.... or else i would have had a major dilemma on my hands LOL. i consider myself to be a pretty open person with my sexuality, and over the years have talked to many of my girl friends about bisexuality and it seems that most women have bisexual tendancies or are curious if not raging bisexual like me LOL... even the straight ones tend to have their extremely secret fantasies of being with another woman. i know that is a very general statement, and certainly not true for everyone, i understand that. but thats just what i have found in my experience and people that have been in my life. i think its great, and perhaps there are the SAME number of bisexual or bi-curious women out there now than there always has been??? perhaps they are just more open about it these days? now a lot of the stigmatism has been lifted from it and it is no longer seen as wrong or a dirty thing to do, more people are comfortable to express and explore these feelings they have? i think that goes for guys as well...GO BISEXUALITY!!!love jemma

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Lol Jemma! I remember thinking that I had to choose one team or the other too... Lolz. What a waste of time... hehe ... if only Id known then that I could be ac/dc. Hehe. Tammy you silly bugga! What do you mean by "sensual softness of a woman's touch"?? Miss honey keeps trying to spank my butt with a ruler and gawd... Jemma and sweet wanna pound me to within an inch of breathlessness with a double ended dildo named Big Daddy that people have been using to chock their rear wheels... Thank goodness Sister Sophia is around the loosen my gaffs tape every so often! When you say sensual softness, exactly which part of that have I missed? :p hugs Gazza

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Gazz.....Uhh ohh !!....you nearly got me there.......I should have been more specific....I should have said " the sensual softness of a woman, When they are not being violent sodomising sadistic bitches" Lol.......no offence ladies !......but gaz wanted me to be specific.......   Ps...FFS gaz ....you know what i meant ?...lmfao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Don't worry, Christine still has a special place for you, you remain her exception. Patience my princess, patience . . . . GRIN

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey guys, Andy here. I had an epithany last night.  I thought perhaps I was bi social, last night cause I'm the BEST boyfriend ever I arranged a staggered MMMF.      But I changed it around I had one guy come and we went at it for at least an hour and forty mins (I know this because I started playing my Sexy playlist on the PS3) and it goes for that long ... the guy was great, and kept up with me we even did a mini hi 5 (as a joke) when we got sal off :P   Then when he left the other guy turned up and we went off again.    So i had a chance to try out some boy on boy stuff as both guys were bi - ish.  Without going into to much detail I did a couple of Sal's fantasys ... not kissing or bumming but ... well doesn't leave many options. And in no way a reflection on the guys, i just didn't feel anything.   So today after some soul searching I think I'll have to come out and say I Andy am straight.  I thought perhaps it would be abit exotic to be bi , and that if i did something I would get hard and have this WOW moment of 'this is what was missing' but it's not that at all. I just love being with women.    Lots and lots and lots of women... if they'll have me :)   andy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Us Andy.....if they will have us! :P   xxxxx Sal

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Too many girls flaunt the bisexual tag for attention, and wouldn't go through with it.Hooking up with your friend at the pub does not count girls.

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    16 years ago

    not sure what is meant by truly bi, does that mean if its a mates cock at a pub im not bi, but if its a strangers at the beach i am?? LOLjust thought i would share my experience,...had my first bi gf in year 9....once i hit uni, right up until now, which is sadly thirty years i have only ever had two girlfriends who werent bi... and obviously we all know the percentage of bi chicks on the swing scene as well..Paul

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lol hotozcouple, do you mean 'barsexual'?   I am not bi, though I can roll in a situation no worries.  To me a truly bi person is someone who is able to carry on an actual relationship with someone of the same sex?   Trixie.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think many people would give it a go, and hence list themselves as bi/ bi-curious. Ala myself :)And on an entirely off-topic note, is it just me or does taby have possibly the best bikini body you have ever seen?Maybe its just my thing for curves, but seriously!!