rupamohan

rupamohan

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Bi Male- How does it works?

April 09 2016

What does Bi male in general means? Top/Bottom/both?Why is it seldom given in profile? What do you assume or do you ask? I guess I will like to also know same for a Bi-girl. I am bi -girl. I enjoy giving and receiving.

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  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    10 years ago

    If it actually states Bi on there profile they like both, I too am Bi and love both with all of me. I have noticed a lot of guy's on here will not put even curious or experimental on their profile for fear of being judged. Or they may be willing to try something new. Never assume. Personally I always ask and like to have an honest chat of what to expect so we are all on the same page. Mrs Horney

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have learnt from my boyfriend and our play that bi men are all different. Some tops, some bottoms, some switches. Some bottoms are very submissive with men and will not get hard at all. Not all men like all sexual activities either. Like everyone else, some do anal some don't. Some will do one on one, and others are only interested in bi play in groups. Like anything else you have to ask somebodies likes and dislikes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    but.. just the other day..his fella was sucking my dick....He was doing a good job.. so.. I let him go awhile.. then.. I said to him.."get out of here you gay fck..."He just kept sucking awhile longer.. then stopped and said..."I am NOT Gay.. I am Bi.. why.. just last night.. I was giving your girlfriend some face....."

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think a lot of guys these days are keen to try certain things with other guys but maybe not as confident making it public. I myself could never kiss or have feelings for a guy but in a three some situation I would be turned on by his hard cock and would wanna touch. I guess that makes me bi curious ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    danny where'd you go?

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    10 years ago

    I think that's called bi-lingual.......

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Everyones interpretation is different. Bi-curious for instance. Once you try bi play isnt the curiosity addressed? I'm a bi bottom-versatile. Can be with a guy but could not do a relationship. I dont find men attractjve in the relationship sfakes so technically hetro-flexible. But the term bi-curious sounds so much more bi than hetroflexible Easier to say i love cock.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've been with guys but never give anal always receive. Give head n receive head. Love the pussy too. So guess I prefer to be bottom - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' danny where'd you go? ...isn't that about the third or fourth person you've made disappear in the last couple of days, ITM? So... what's it like working for the Godfather?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What's with all this top and bottom stuff?? With all due respects.....as far as I knew, if you are bisexual you invite both genders into your sexuality.....if you're hetrosexual, you only invite opposite genders.....if you're hetroflexible, then you just go with the flow and are a swinging voter depending on the election lol.... I had no idea there was some kind of leaderboard.....if there is, what happens to those who get the wooden spoon?? Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'MidnightCruisin' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' danny where'd you go? ...isn't that about the third or fourth person you've made disappear in the last couple of days, ITM? So... what's it like working for the Godfather? godammit, I have needs they could at the very least leave their pictures up

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Those that get the wooden spoon usually end up with bruises. Which flow do you go with?

  • dnmcruising

    dnmcruising

    10 years ago

    I (male half) love to give and receive but not attracted to males so I guess am heteroflexible. Dnm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'll be hangin on to the spoon :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    10 years ago

    So if we ignore what everyone decides it means and go for the simple definition, Bisexual, is that you like sexual contact with someone of the same sex...how you like your sexual contact well that is just the bits you find out, but I agree it does help if you know whether a guy is a top, bottom or even it is only oral they like. We all have our preferences on nice hard cock.... B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You be the little spoon and I will be the big spoon... Wearing a strappon. 😆

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Ok major newbie here - but I thought if you said you were a bi woman then you did everything? So - I love kissing and fondling women, haven't given or received oral, but would happily receive it from a woman. Just not sure if I would enjoy giving oral to a woman (yeh I know only one way to know). So does that mean I'm heteroflexible or bi? Not that I need a label, but I'm confused?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Bottoms are always the receiver. They are often submissive to other men - even though they may be dominant when it comes to sex with women. They like being on the bottom, that's what really excites them. Do you get my meaning? Bottom up and face down in the pillow... Perhaps. Tops are men that are the givers, for instance their bum could still very well be a Virgin bum and that is the way they like it to remain. So they prefer to be more dominate in the male on male play. Switches are men who can play either role. They can be submissive or dominant depending on the situation. I am sure there is a myriad of variances In between. But I think it is a quick easy way to know what a guy is mainly into. And then there are the guys looking for bears and daddies. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Maybe I'm selfish bi then? Lol love to receive but maybe not give haha! I'm sexually attracted to women but not like I am to men. It takes a really special women to spark anything with me. But then I've never really entertained the idea until now either. Maybe my preferences will change more once I've been open to it 😉 And that's an offer I might not be able to refuse 😍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You will be surprised where your journey takes you. What you think you know about yourself can be turned upside down in an instant when you meet a person/s that you totally connect with. They can open your mind to so many new levels of eroticism and self discoveries..... 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Gotchya.....much appreciated thank you :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Youre a bottom then? Or just be a versatile and live on the edge. 😆

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I identify as heteroflexible, I adore men, everything about a man and if they are bi (don't mind if they are a top, a bottom or a switch) well thats icing on the cake so to speak, but now and again along comes an extremely alluring woman that I want to touch, kiss and play with. Could I be with a woman only, NO. Could I play with a woman by myself, NO. Am I attracted to women as much as men, NO. So now I'm more than happy to label myself heteroflexible.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovinit28' I identify as heteroflexible, I adore men, everything about a man and if they are bi (don't mind if they are a top, a bottom or a switch) well thats icing on the cake so to speak, but now and again along comes an extremely alluring woman that I want to touch, kiss and play with. Could I be with a woman only, NO. Could I play with a woman by myself, NO. Am I attracted to women as much as men, NO. So now I'm more than happy to label myself heteroflexible. I find I have similar feelings from the opposite side of the fence.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Do lesbians and bi-woman have similar terminology? Or is a male thing and a male way of looking at things? I have met women who prefer to give but are not too fussed about receiving and described themselves as tops in a joking way. SandC question has made me wonder? Is it offensive the butch and feminine stereotypical assumptions about female couples?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I gotta say....I'm about as straight as Elton John is gay lol Maybe one day, and a LOT of alcohol I may situationally change, but at this stage it's not quite even an itch on my fantasy radar lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    situational only for me. Received from a woman before, she gave me oral and made me squirt, did me over good and proper, while her hubby was sucking my tits and eventually me giving him oral. Switched it up a bit through this but ended with me swallowing his load and his wife doing a mighty fine job I have to say but that's the only 'situation' I've been in, don't go looking for bi women, do sometimes check out sexy women in public, but don't lust after them the way I do men. For the above mentioned encounter, I wasn't prepared, it was random, but VERY happy to be part of what went on, up until she moved towards my face, I couldn't do the kissing thing. Same for lots of men, I believe, from what I've read in here, that was too intimate and the attraction isn't there, or wasn't at the time. And that wasn't a reflection of the woman, just where I was at the time. I do think I'd be different now, more open to kissing etc, even giving oral, but only with someone that I was really turned on by. I don't go looking for it and mostly straight, so if it never happens again, all good. I just do what makes me happy at the time, I'm open and don't limit myself. Definitely would define myself as situational Interesting after the event, the couple invited me back to their hotel room. I declined because I was happy to leave it at that. She then asked if I wanted to play just with her hubby, without her there now that's what I call caring and sharing. No jealous wife hang ups, she was awesome