Be honest: Has a dick pic ever actually convinced you to meet?

February 21 2026

Has a dick pic alone ever been enough to make you decide to meet someone? Not asking if you like receiving them, more curious if there have been cases where you’ve received one and decided to meet. I ask because it’s surprisingly common for guys to jump straight into chat saying they’ve got a “special talent,” they’re “huge,” or they have some magic feature, often relating directly to their 🍆 that they seem to think will instantly convince a woman to meet or play. It’s often presented like a mic-drop moment that should seal the deal.

Comments

  • selfless__lover

    selfless__lover

    3 months ago

    I've got my popcorn ready for the comments 😂 I'm just glad that RHP changed the system so that you least have to exchange messages before you can send explicit photos. My ex and I saw so many unsolicited peens that you become numb to it. A dick never factored in our decision to meet or not meet someone, it was more about whether they were a dick themselves 😜

  • OpalRose

    OpalRose

    3 months ago

    No I have not instantly changed my mind after seeing any dick at any time ever in the past. However, that’s probably because I just need a good hard fucking to sort me out and then I’ll be ok. I just don’t know what I’m missing out on. 🫢

  • seekandplay

    seekandplay

    3 months ago

    Nope! I had a lovely connection with a man just via chat, we swapped numbers, planned to meet. Every single message, even if it was about him having a coffee, he would then send a dic pick to remind me of what it looked like. Definitely didn’t make me want to meet him more, it did the exact opposite as he was OBSESSED with his dick!! I’d rather see pics of their big man hands to see what their magical fingers can do or biceps to see how they’re going to throw me from the kitchen bench to my lounge 😏

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    3 months ago

    NEVER instant BLOCK!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 months ago

    Dammit I can't comment as a single male but I can certainly laugh

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    3 months ago

    No, absolutely NO !! Not ever. In fact receiving an unsolicited penis photo (we have never asked to see a penis photo) has the opposite effect, and generally results in us reporting the offender to admin, followed by us blocking the offender. Some males need to wake up and realise that their penis is NOT their most important asset.

  • TristansDelight

    TristansDelight

    3 months ago

    Nope, but they keep doing it haha :) These days we just laugh when someone sends us dick pic before face photos, as there is no way we would fuck someone, if we didn't like that person's face.

  • Notice_Me

    Notice_Me

    3 months ago

    Posting a pic of your crotch is the international sign for I have no idea what to do with this.

  • Monnnn

    Monnnn

    3 months ago

    Absolutely not. It's quite strange, isn't it? I'm yet to see a profile stating that sending dick pics is specifically what will get them in with a chance of meeting.. always the opposite in fact, and yet some just don't seem to believe that 🤨

  • Newbietwosome

    Newbietwosome

    3 months ago

    A 🍆 pic is never going to be the deciding factor at least never in a positive way!!

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    3 months ago

    LOL! Yes, I have. 🫣 I have met many elegant cocks, with substance. In saying that presentation matters, but so does the mind attached to it. Ms Foxy 😇

  • sublime

    sublime

    3 months ago

    Dick pics or any form of nudity means nothing to me without a prior connection, or extremely good sexual banter initially. When I get messages of how hung or thick guys are , honestly save your messages, they go straight to ignored.

  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    3 months ago

    Nope, MrsS usually has funny responses to them though but not the responses the senders hope for. The only time we have jumped in just on something we have seen was a guy who flashed us his big smile.

  • Jane195

    Jane195

    3 months ago

    I must be a minority, Yes. Chatting to a guy for awhile, consenting exchanged some pics. Was very very impressed with what was to look forward too. Skip forward to the first hook up. Bitter bitter disappointment. Still wondering where the dick from the pics is cause it wasn't in his pants.

  • Screamqueen

    Screamqueen

    3 months ago

    No

  • Kinda_Exotic

    Kinda_Exotic

    3 months ago

    Connected with a guy who at first I was not too certain about and I was pleasantly surprised we had things in common. Also the conversation flowed well between us. The next day he suggested that we exchanged pics, I agreed and went first (I know silly me should have let him go first). So instead of a face pic like I provided, he sends me a dick pic. I didn't wait and blocked him there and then. Like I'm curious to see what he is packing but at the same time I wanted to see if there was an attraction..as we do 😆 Now I'm a bit more guarded.

  • BarberBoss1981

    BarberBoss1981

    3 months ago

    Haha its a yes from me...was chatting to a guy once and I was somewhat on the fence and then a dick pic came through and I was like sweet baby jesus ok lets lock in a meet up hahaha

  • Nic11

    Nic11

    3 months ago

    I never say no to receiving a dick pic but caveat that they will not receive anything from me. I am happy to appreciate a nice dick but if they go on about it I let them know that it 100% matters the human it is attached to.

  • Liz1487

    Liz1487

    3 months ago

    No for me. My profile says no dick pics, so it’s also an indicator that my request has not been seen or if it has, my wishes have not been respected. So thanks for showing your character right up front. Blocked and reported. Hopefully with admin removing RHPs who don’t understand the basics of consent allows the lovely men to shine through a bit more and be seen.

  • Temptress_T

    Temptress_T

    3 months ago

    I like to see what i am getting myself into so a dick pick is not unappreciated. A dick pic has not ever 'won me over' I have however seen a dick pic and thought nope this guy is not what I am looking for. A unsolicited dick pic is a straight up no and send to ignore.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 months ago

    Absolutely not! If I don't enjoy their personality or face, sure as hell not going to enjoy their dick, no matter what it looks like

  • Smutlover

    Smutlover

    3 months ago

    Definitely not the unwanted 🍆 pic is a one-way ticket to the bin regardless. I feel pity for men that think that's all they have to offer.

  • Deviant_Hotwife

    Deviant_Hotwife

    3 months ago

    Haha …. Guilty 😆🙋‍♀️ Yes a dick pic is usually the deciding factor on if I want to play or not. I do prefer if men ask me if I want to see prior to them sending. If it’s an intro and a dick pic straight up, it’s usually a block - unless it’s a very appealing photo and the guy ticks what I like. Just being honest 😇🤣

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    3 months ago

    Mrs S dropped out of our shared profile a few years back. Mainly because of the amount of unsolicited dic pic's . The only play date she indulged in since was because the guy was mannered and clean in his appearance with no mention at all about his dick or size. However ' when the time come ' he didn't disappoint and no dic pic needed... So for Mrs S.. it's about the person , not what they think of thier dick ..

  • Restlessgirl46

    Restlessgirl46

    3 months ago

    No never…I often ask this question myself after being on the end of a “ last ditch cock shot” and yes apparently some women do in fact change their minds. But for me it’s further evidence that they are not a match as consent is key

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    3 months ago

    No ,exactly opposite , dick pics will convince us to not meet ,every single time Mr b

  • bootyDD

    bootyDD

    3 months ago

    No if a guy sends a dick pic before asking my permission i find it a bit disrespectful. Im not offended, but not the sort of guy i want to meet. Im actually not that turned on my a dick pic anyway. Sexy words, and a sexy smile suck me in much more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 months ago

    Nope

  • Lakesidecpl

    Lakesidecpl

    3 months ago

    I actually find them so funny. I will mention that I am the make of the couple and she won't talk till we are off RHP or further then the first 5 interactions and I get sent dick pics seriously wrong crowd man lol

  • carol18

    carol18

    3 months ago

    On a similar note... Do you like receiving pics of the guy fucking someone else? Especially when the main character in the pic is the lady? Was told by many men that ladies ask for this type of pics, but I am not convinced....

  • Passionatedom69

    Passionatedom69

    3 months ago

    I just got asked for one from a lady

  • HappyHedonist

    HappyHedonist

    2 months ago

    Size Queens appreciate and want dick pics, a lot of fellas overstate their statistics, so they need to be sighted to work out if its worth pursuing.

  • CHHCCH

    CHHCCH

    2 months ago

    Yep it’s actually important for me to see before play. I know that’s kind of shallow but I’m after a certain kind of guy, it’s not the only thing that matters obviously but you can’t go past a good looking one some times.

  • MsPeachass

    MsPeachass

    2 months ago

    No not really.. I prefer a face picture to be honest

  • MissExotic

    MissExotic

    2 months ago

    Hell no!!

  • What_will_be

    What_will_be

    2 months ago

    Hmmm…maybe not convinced to meet, but definitely given a second chance at chatting if I’d already decided no. Kind of like ‘no thanks, all the best’ … to … ‘hmmm, so tell me more about yourself’. In saying that, we did meet up. Many times. And it was epic each time.

  • Livinfun

    Livinfun

    2 months ago

    Only once - trouble was he turned out his attitude turned out to be on par with his dick‼️

  • eli_zap

    eli_zap

    2 months ago

    One time, mid winter, Friday evening, cosy in front of the fire, flirty banter with a Tinder match, 30mins drive away. I was adamant I wasn’t moving from the fireside… he sent me a video, nek minnit, I am driving to town to get fucked by the biggest dick I’ve seen outside of porn.

  • Cheekyshaven

    Cheekyshaven

    2 months ago

    Hey so what if it’s a major kink for the bloke and he’s pretty respectable an always asks b4 sending…

  • BugsandBunny

    BugsandBunny

    2 months ago

    Dick pics are the best way to join our blocklist

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 months ago

    I always asked if they would like to see it, or give some warning especially sending access to private folders they may see it in one or 2 of the images. Never had a bad encounter as a result.

  • Havinfunoutdoors

    Havinfunoutdoors

    2 months ago

    I can handle a dick pic, it won’t make me jump out of my seat that second but it does help me decide. Like it’s been said before, too big, too small. But when that pic includes another woman it does the exact opposite of helping them. I will block and run. I don’t want to know where it’s been. Especially if it’s been there raw. I want to know it’s clean, sometimes that means landscaping but most definitely for STI’s even to the point of asking for very recent test results if they want raw. And I want cock and mouth samples covered in those tests. I test between partners at my own expense. It’s only fair that I do have to go get treated for something I didn’t have before an encounter

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 months ago

    I have never been moved by a dick pic. For me getting to know how fun and sweet the person is is the important thing. I get wet through chats that is if it is a fun chat that is going on the right direction but the moment you send a dick pic I lose all interest. I honestly believe I should be allowed to unzip the large file myself

  • Tantalisingpeak

    Tantalisingpeak

    2 months ago

    I believe a dick pic on its own is boring it should be paired with penetrating or bj or some other body part encompassing the penis in order to give it two things, firstly perspective and secondly to create a reall want for that dick

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 months ago

    Yeah nah... gotta be honest, they don't have a positive impact on me - not that I've received many... I did run a dicpic business for a while but it was a cockup... great way to blow money... the voice said, "if you built it they will cum"...

  • Annalynnx

    Annalynnx

    2 months ago

    Absolutely has!

  • MasterBigCcock

    MasterBigCcock

    2 months ago

    I appreciate that there are some many Dicks/fakes on here that they should be blocked and reported immediately and th Adminstartors suspend them with a msg to Validated/Verifiy before they are back on line I always ask first (after chatting and establishing rapport) if they would like to see explicit pics or Vids (PGs) Sometimes people ask me straight out to show my explicit vision but it shows respect and decency if you do ask permission

  • happy2smile

    happy2smile

    2 months ago

    No very turned off.

  • Calimom

    Calimom

    2 months ago

    Yes!!

  • PandaAndBri

    PandaAndBri

    29 days ago

    A dick pic hasn’t convinced me to meet, but a guy was so respectful of my consent in a chat, after we had been chatting for a while to double check before sending it to me, after I had asked. That convinced me to go for a meet and greet that then fell through when he disappeared off the app after nearly 4 weeks of chatting. It was the consideration of consent that ticked the box for me not the actual package. Although I must say it was impressive.

  • Shaks

    Shaks

    26 days ago

    No. I try to remain polite, solicited or other wise however I wonder if some men mistake us for cats and think we too work off of the "if it fits, I sits" box reward.

  • zigmundfrode

    zigmundfrode

    25 days ago

    A guy sending a dick pick is just letting you know that he knows nothing about anything to do with women or sex. Sorry to be blunt but I think most women know this.

  • GChotwife

    GChotwife

    23 days ago

    Nope - however I was keen to meet a guy then after he sent me a🍆Pic it was a no for me….. It just wasn’t my preference ….. if we had met and vibed I would have gone through with it ….sometimes less is more

  • PrivatelifeMrs

    PrivatelifeMrs

    yesterday

    Convinced me... definetly not! Got me curious absolutely! But its not about size for me, thats never been a deciding factor. Men tend to have wide range of skills. Im in the minoritity though i love a good dick pic or cum shot. But id never choose someone over another by size. Just be yourselves, NEVER send someone elses pic 🤕, dont lie about it we can tell the differance between 2 & 10 inches😅🤣🤣. I have absolutely rejected guys who carry on about how big they are & act like a bigger knob.