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Are we that ugly?
November 12 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you are both attractive, and the race thing is irrelevant to me. I very much liked your profile too. The only turn-off for me is the smoking, and I'm not a great fan of your mandatory prerequisites. I believe in keeping a profile free from any negative terms. I don't think you're looking for me though, as I don't think I've been inside a gym for twenty years. Good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
"We believe physical appearance is key. So in that very spirit, we hit the gym on a regular basis and prefer that you do too. Although its not impossible that we are interested in those who dont, it is quite likely that we wont be."Enough said! Pusscat xxx
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madotara69
12 years ago
spend our money on sex toys and sexercise Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Physically, the two of you are lovely. There is absolutely nothing wrong with interracial relationships, it comes down to your own shallow views of potential partners. I wouldn't match up to your expectations, even though I know I'd rock both your worlds...good luck though!
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RHP User
12 years ago
No crime in wanting someone who shares your own interests. If its gym junkies, or people who play poker or checkers, so be it. Surely there are parties exclusive to the body beautiful, perhaps you could check out couples clubs or something along those lines if RHP is slow for you. Just watch out for all the maneating poisonous creatures we have Down Under, and love telling tourists about ad nauseum. :-D
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rupamohan
12 years ago
a) You get old options can go down, b) Your profile has changed since last visit? and it doesn't fit that well with Aussie spirit?c) It may also depend on time of your travel pland) Local produce has increased, demand of imported stuff is dn?I think you have too much useless info in profile. OK some is meaningful but I won't put it in profile. I will meet and judge.
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RHP User
12 years ago
that you will be in Brisbane in a few weeks......when is a few weeks?? Anyone interested does not know when that was written...no dates are specified
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RHP User
12 years ago
We've asked the same question..As we get lots of lookers, but minimal takers..Oh well, we're not out to notch it up..Quality is the main thing, not quantity..
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luvnya69'Quality is the main thing, not quantity.. Probably not a bad attitude to have!
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
But like jay-jay said the profile's noncommittal about timing so we weren't sure what was going on especially as you first blipped our radar months and months ago...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Welcome back!As some of the other posters have suggested, there are always other explanations. Allow me to add another one: finding a partner or partners online can be difficult. I'd suggest that your experience of not yet finding anything of interest, OP, could also be that absolutely everyone has difficulties. Sure, some have better odds than others, but no matter who y'are: making a profile doesn't guarantee success.I'd suggest that instead of things being harder 8 years on, maybe you just had some really good fortune 8 years ago that's skewed your expectations?Please, for the sake of your self-esteem, don't be so quick to assume it's to do with appearance. Eight years is a while, sure, but it's not three decades. If you both were attractive and personable enough last time, it doesn't make much sense that it'd be drastically different 8 years later. If race wasn't a total barrier last time, why would it be all of a sudden? (In fact, it could be a draw-card for many.)Good luck, hang in there, perseverance is often rewarded. Even if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen for a lot of people. There's no reason to take a blow to self-esteem as a result.
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Tall74nHard9
12 years ago
has been said above, things have changed in the past 8 years. The membership mix is also different to who and what you may have known since last time - previous members have gone, new ones in the mix. Tall
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Likely", not impossible, Mesmerised. YOU, are right up our alley!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's a shame you're not coming to Melbourne. We're an interracial couple ourselves (he's dark, she's white) and she'd love to try a black guy :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Pussycat: We are who we are and we like what we like, and we make no apologies for it. Thanks for your input though!MadoTara: Rather save my money, and use sex as my exercise. :)4saparty: Thanks for the kind words. "Shallow" is what you may call it, but some would refer to it as "preference". When it comes to physical attraction, it's just that "physical". Thanks for your input.rupamohan:a) You get old options can go down, truthb) Your profile has changed since last visit? uh, no. first profile and it doesn't fit that well with Aussie spirit? you may have a point herec) It may also depend on time of your travel plan pointd) Local produce has increased, demand of imported stuff is dn? LOL, love your analogy here.I think you have too much useless info in profile. notedOK some is meaningful but I won't put it in profile. I will meet and judge.Thanks for your input!JayJay_66: Sexy and savvy, a killer combo! Noted. Thanks for your input!Lovenya69: Indeed our pain is the same. The beauty of quantity (onnline) is the ability to chose quality. We're not picky about the people we party with, but the people we play with is a different story. Paradisepair: We just finalized our dates, will email you details. ;)
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QLDtwo4fun
12 years ago
We like more flavours than just vanilla. Try the Qld party scene, I'm sure you'll be welcomed with open arms.....and legs.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You instantly judged yourself physically. Hmmmm.....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
not that anything is wrong with that :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
with your profile. I wouldn't respond though, as I'm not attracted to blondes. Even super hot ones :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'needagirltojoin'"Likely", not impossible, Mesmerised. YOU, are right up our alley!!!! You said: "We believe physical appearance is key. So in that very spirit, we hit the gym on a regular basis and prefer that you do too. Although its not impossible that we are interested in those who dont, it is quite likely that we wont be...." You saying I'm up your alley makes me feel I'm the exception to your rule, not something I want to be, really. I did note you have now added: "Ladies, you're all beautiful so come as you are!" This confuses me, as it seems to contradict your earlier statement. If physical appearance key or not?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not if.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The answer is, "it is key". Physical preferences are generally different from person to person. Only one of us likes guys, and is VERY picky when it comes to guys. Likes them fit, well equip, articulate, well mannered, cultured and charming. We both love women, and with that comes our combined preferences and varying taste. In short, women are inherently more sexy and appealing than men.
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RHP User
12 years ago
My opinion.... The smoking would stop me from contacting you The fact that you are not in Australia would stop me contacting you. I would when you get here. The fact that you talk about being gym fanatics makes me concerned that I would not be good enough for you. With all those on my mind, I guess I would move on to the next profile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That put me right off. Yes, sure physical attraction is important but I wouldn't want to feel like I'm entering a beauty contest to just meet someone. Screw that for a joke, I'd rather meet nice people who are interested in more than my meat suit. I dunno, maybe that's a cultural difference but I don't think Aussies would take the physical attractiveness criteria the way you mean it. It sounds like you view everyone as pieces of meat.
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RHP User
12 years ago
And you can call me yoplait :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Because I don't meet your requirements but then what does that matter because I am not what you want anyway... lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are many ways to be ugly, just as there are many ways to be beautiful. Think on that one for a while.
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