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Are pics essential??

January 14 2018

Online comes with imagery, tasteful and then some and then some more which can leave little to engage the imagination, is it essential? Could it be detrimental? In a real life atmosphere the senses take note of the 3 dimensional and then some, yet a much is left to the imagination, that imagination be it for the physical, exploration of the mind or a combination of both. That be often the driver that brings about that next level of intimacy, or chaotic storm of lust...pick one. I get the not wanting to rock up and find the opposite of anything remotely imagined (cyclops), that blind date with an edgy twist.....however is it not the case of if an image is shared online it’s going to be the best image possible? Thus creating an illusion?? The above rambling aside, photos images pics etc.....essential, helpful or superfluous? My opinion: Helpful for distinguishing in a crowd!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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technologic

8 years ago

Especially for single men. And a bunch of face photos with different expressions and angles (no sunnies/caps please). Totally fine if they're in a private album but definitely yes. MsT - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

We have no need for pics that leave nothing to the imagination. But no pics at all mean we probably won't look twice at a profile. A profile is what gains your attention and makes you want to make contact. Some choice pics and a a write up that makes people sound like those we would like to meet, are what will make us reach out. Mrs A x - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Pictures of body parts and taken at the best angles. What could go wrong? Lol

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gazpacho

8 years ago

The avatar image is your shopfront. For active participants these become instantly recognisable over a period of time, for people to ignore or seek out, whatever the case may be. I think a unique profile pic is useful. My further observations reveal that a dick pic is mandatory, even if it is a picture of somone else's dick.Import your facebook profile. Thast's a new thing! Well done RHP. HugsGaz

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RHP User

8 years ago

they are essential, but even with them, the deception continues, so I do my own checks

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RHP User

8 years ago

Essential Don't even read a profile no matter how good it is unless I can see a pic.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Agreed I have had a few older pics shown and yes pics / research are essential. I have also had flirts that say so what do you think of me - but the don’t have pics - not sure what that’s all about perhaps I need to learn to be less superficial mmmm tomorrow. 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

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Sawadee

8 years ago

including both face and body. Theses are the 2 things that attracts you to each other or not ? What if someone shows a nice body pic but refuses to show thier face , not even in their private gallery ? For me ' the alarm bells start ringing to wether the person is who they say they are ? If someone rejects me because they don't like my face pic ( how could you lol ) then so be it and we all move right along knowing it's not a goer .. You wouldn't buy a lounge suite if you couldn't see it with your own eyes , so why ' would you do that with another human being ?

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RHP User

8 years ago

Tip of the day - Google Image Reverse Search 👍👍 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Only serious people who want to meet me in person get to see the real me. It helps against the pic collectors and people who make no effort to delve into things further. If they want to meet somewhere they get to know me. Of course I show my private album.. And no forumites the first Pic is NOT of A Richard. The second one is bahahah

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MissRedFox

8 years ago

Of someone with a full inbox. When I'm going through mine I want efficiency. Will look at the profile if the message if it's longer than one line and is tailored to my profile When looking at profile, face pic, location then what's written. If I like all of them I'll make further contact. If there's no pics everything else must be spot on XX - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

lol I get those too, a mystery isn't it? Midnightblue, I'm the same, no pictures, that's it, that's where it stops. Zero interest in having my time wasted on someone who looks like they've run into the back of a bus 😂

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RHP User

8 years ago

How many messages I get, lol, considering I'm lucky to get 1 a week, then would be hard to delete based on a no photo. But in saying that if the profile is basic or lacks any substance then sadly that delete button is pressed. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Yessss - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Now that's the kind of vision that makes me a little weak at the knees 😍

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