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Anal owch factor

March 11 2013

I don't know if this topic has been brooched before, so excuse me if it has. I understand that A LOT of people enjoy both giving and receiving anal and how people enjoy it varies greatly, but why for the love of God do men think it's ok to just ram their cocks up there? No warm up (maybe a little lube if you're lucky), just *BAM* Hello Brown Town! Gentlemen, while this may seem to be erotic and pleasurable the reality of it is that it's just plain PAINFUL amd also likely to cause damage. We're not pornstars, we haven't been warming ourselves up for hours before you come over. Take it easy! Ease it in there, don't just ram it on in and hope she squeals with delight. Anal isn't something I take part in often, especially when I'm in a ton of pain as a result of it but there seems to be a recurring theme (for me at least anyway). So ladies (and of course gents), do you have any tips for those who are wanting to venture down this road or for those who just need a good lesson in anal etiquette. Some dos and donts perhaps?- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Seems pretty obvious but gently does it is the only real tip we could offer. Just common sense really. A well lubed finger or two, or even a toy is best to "massage" and relax the muscles somewhat before penetration. And that should be slow and steady, just a little more depth at a time. A lot of guys probably figure that lots of lube means "great, less/no foreplay" and think it works the same for anal. So so wrong boys. If you ever want to tap that ass again you'd better learn to be slow and gentle. Open your eyes and ears - and use that sense of touch! Feel your way in...- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Tip....... make sure the guy knows what the hell he's doing in the front 9............ before he decides to play the back.That'll give you some idea of what to expect.DG

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Oh honey. Lol. I hear you. I used to hate it. Now I love it. And yes it depends on the partner your with as to if he knows what he is doing. Put your hands just behind your arse and push back on his hips and only let him in at your rate and that should help you greatly. I am guessing that they are getting over excited and rushing in when a little time is needed with you to get you to relax a little and Open Up so to speak. It all has to do with how relaxed you are and how ready and the fact that it has hurt greatly means that you are probably never as relaxed as you should be at that time. Once it's done right and the fear disappears you will be OK. Done the right way by the right person it should not hurt at all. When you feel it about to bring on pain push back on his hips with your hands to let him know to back out a little and go slower. If there's no lube available then use saliva or pass some of your wetness from your vag on to that area. As grose as that may sound to some, it's only normal and you swap spit when you kiss anyway. Hope this helps.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Agreed, some guys just don't get it. I am a bi bottom, but with guys like that I ask if they would like the favour returned.... Anal etiquette is simple, receiver dictates the depth and pace. When doing anal for the first time, or when warming up, lots of Rimming and teasing is always good, then rub the head around the ass and tease the hole, when he or she is ready the hole will open and engulf your cock. With a novice who trys to just force in, I either stop the action and take control or leave. Always remind these guys that you could bust their ass with a fist or toys, and they should stay still and let you slide on.....happy tails.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Anal can be so hot with the right person and preparation. Anyone in my life that's been granted the priviledge, knows to pour a decent amount of wine in me first. That's in my mouth, you sickos!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Every time I see your thumbnail I think you're Lost_Focus!

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  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Every time I see your thumbnail I think you're Lost_Focus! I thought the same thing before I looked t the profile.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'cbdlivin' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Every time I see your thumbnail I think you're Lost_Focus! I thought the same thing before I looked t the profile. Seeing as I have no idea who that is (I'm fairly new to the forums), is that a good thing or a bad thing? :P

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's a good thing, Lost_Focus is much liked on here. And even hotter in real life!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you poor possum.My Norm used to give me a bit of a prod in his sleep,he was a bit thick my Norm and not a good golfer either.Always was confused by holes,or so he said.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'EdnaAverage' you poor possum.My Norm used to give me a bit of a prod in his sleep,he was a bit thick my Norm and not a good golfer either.Always was confused by holes,or so he said. You only need worry dear when he pops it in your ear

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Norm has passed over now but he only tried that once,he got a bit stuck on my grommits ,poor possum.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    First time with someone, going hard at it, he accidentally ended up there by misjudgment. He felt horrible at first, but before he could pull out I asked him to stay there and keep going. He had me so turned on we kept going and it was amazing. And it still is. Usually though, I need a little time adjusting and prefer him to stand still while i control control the pace at first. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'wiccan_beltane'First time with someone, going hard at it, he accidentally ended up there by misjudgment. He felt horrible at first, but before he could pull out I asked him to stay there and keep going. He had me so turned on we kept going and it was amazing. And it still is. Usually though, I need a little time adjusting and prefer him to stand still while i control control the pace at first. - Posted from rhpmobile Sounds like it went from an accident to a mind-blowing experience, wiccan? Anal can be such a hot part of love-making or sex for two people, especially when toys are involved too.................

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    And toys enhance the experience from mind blowing to a place I can't even find the right words to describe - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Always found that just placing your thumb on the anus and intermittant circular squishy pressure as you say doggie style funky like with other free hand/fingers stroking/massaging her back sides hips/thighs etcetc that it relaxes/warms without hardy any thought and just occasion dribbling of salvia , starts to dilate so easily second sumthing soft&warm rests on it. :P

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