Am I doing something wrong?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Not all women are going to be into a married man no matter how transparent things are..... So perhaps it's not you, perhaps it's just that you're choosing the wrong women?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Yeah possibly. I just find it ironic that I've had more success through chat sites and Kik than somewhere like rhp. Oh well. 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  4 weeks for a single guy here is a short time. Especially for a married one. Nothing wrong with your profile but we dont know what your messages are like. And as you say you are height challenged. Women have so many choices with hundreds of messages a month with tall gents getting extra points. Its not easy. But stick with it. Every day is a new one. Goid luck

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  Good luck.....sorrg about the irish accent there laddie....

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  The tone of your profile seems to read- I'm busy with my life and if you're lucky I might be able to spare a little of my time every once in awhile. I'm not saying that's what you mean by your comments, but women who have the choice of a lot of attention from a prospective playmate ......versus time when you can cram it in.... Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  But it's hard to pin point without knowing how you're wording the initial messages you send or which flirts you send. Most women won't reply if there's no interest. It's not intentional rudeness, but we often find a polite "thanks it no thanks" often triggers an annoying message back, arguing why we should give them a chance or an insulting message about our looks, figure or anything else they can find to insult. So most women choose not to reply to avoid the retaliating messages that may come back. Four weeks isn't really a long time to be in here. Keep at it and welcome to the forums. Hope you stay and frolick with us. 😉

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  No And yes Now I haven't looked at your profile but as you've said you've sent plenty of messages my answer is based around that aspect IF you expect everyone you choose to message by whatever selection process you're using, to reply when clearly your messages are not compelling a reply... then yes you're doing it wrong. IF you accept that nonevof us is everyone else's cup of tea and Visa versa and therefore things may take time, then no, you're not doing it wrong But as you're apparently married, and by you're own admission you've had s reply which wasn't a 'no' in the last 4 weeks, how many connections are you looking for right now - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Thanks for the input everyone! I'll maybe change my profile a bit. And yes I know being a short arse works against me lol. At least I know I'm not coming across weird or offensive. I'll sit here and grab some popcorn. Which way to the arguments room? They're always good for a giggle. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Thanks, that's a good idea. I like that. Now where did I chain my Mrs up? Relax, she likes it! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  The changes you made to your profile are much better!!! Good job and good luck :)

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Thank you for all your help. I'll buy you both a coffee one day ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Another suggestion that hasn't been mentioned yet, why not enter the chat room in the evening and you can let people see who you are that way than through a simple message that clearly isnt working for you. We all try and have a laugh in there and sometimes sparks can take place when you least expect it. I think that people are forgetting the chat room is there and it's an untapped area to meet new people no matter what you are looking for... a perve, chat, laugh, or even someone to talk to to further arrange a hook up. Sometimes its a little dead but seems to pick up more in the evenings so worth a shot - nothing to lose.

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  Machariel

  9 years ago

  I have been here for about 2 months and no replies. I do not exactly live in a city so my choices are small and most ppl will not reply if they are to far away. That saying, even Though I have no issues with other apps, I find rhp a less toxic, more informative and less fakes Other things I have found out in my short stay. Woman can not seem to remove there profile which in turn keep the profile numbers inflated. At least you can see the last time their profile has logged in. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  skyhightypeofguy

  9 years ago

  how bout you tell the rhp chatroom you are locked out of yourhome and ask for any advice on how to break in. that should get the crazy conversations going on a late night/morning thread...?

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