All Talk No Action

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  This happens right across the board. Many people are just here for the on line tease and back out before any meeting. Some make all the plans and just dont show up which is even more annoying. Men, women and couples alike, There are time watsers in every group. It is just a matter of trying to sift through the chaff to find the wheat (so to speak) and if you do find the answer to your question....please let the rest of us know.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Don't take anything personally - it's all just profiles and dreams. It's not meant to be hard work, but rather a place of opportunity...and with patience, every now and then, the dreams come true..... . Sex is an invitation - not a job interview . Goodluck :)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  it depends on couple to couple. Some jump into to the sack but most responsible couples talk to each other(a lot) on what their expectations are out of this site and in one of the previous threads, I had even come across a couple that took years to loosen up to full swapping.We have a feeling that it is better to go out with the couples who are cautious and cognizant of each other's feelings than to go with the "jumpers". Just our four(two+two) cents. No offense. :)

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  Innercircle

  15 years ago

  if the online thing isnt working for you, go to some meet and greets!!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  rockercouple80 we have been toa few private house parties & swinger parties and have found unless you go regularly or know someone , they have the purple circle club if you don't fit their criteria then you have no chance of being included , ok for some who can go every week or you know someone whom is going that you don't get on with we won't go , we have done in the past and we were treated rudely by all who knew them regular goers , so we decide to meet couples as couple meets only .

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  They can't all be winners but every now and then you meet someone thats serious and exactly what you're looking for!

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  wombat13at

  15 years ago

  Hi all we have been onlots of sites tried all forms of meets to see what we liked and they all the same male, female couple some are genuine and most unfortunatly are all talkno show get their kiks from chat and some not sure and chicken out because nerves get in way and we understand that first time out but its just polite to say why. The other thing that pisses us off is wgen you go to the trouble to pay for membership and send messages they cant even say no thanks we answer all winks and messages its just polite they went to trouble writing and send so its just fairto reply. Hopfull we will find a nice genuine Female to meet form a friendship with and play with one day it looks like 1 in 100 genuine lol A & R

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Sometimes, life just gets in the way. Don't get me wrong, I agree - probably 90% of the people on here are fake or time wasters... But for us - we're 100% commited to playing and will try everything we can to make sure we don't leave our "date/s" hanging... and sometimes, even then - it's just impossible and there is nothing you can do but say "Sorry!"... We have children and careers and life in general against us. Keep on trudging through - you'll find someone eventually... it might just take you some time. GL!

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