RHP

RHP User

M40

Age difference

September 22 2015

There seems to be a lot more women say 35 - 50 than as to say 20 - 35. I'm not calling this a dating site but it is somewhere there about in a sense and it seems I am either too young or to old. Any remedies? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Depends who is taking your fancy, without needing to search for that age bracket myself I would have thought plenty of women on here that age - Posted from rhpmobile

  • N4November

    N4November

    10 years ago

    There are more older women than young because we simply know what we want! Maybe we have the confidence to be a single girl and being assertive ;-) As for your age. 29 is perfect! But age is irrelevant. I've found some seriously immature arrogant dick heads who were in their 40's as well as some in their 20's. Meh. Like attracts like so if you're a good bloke, you'll be fine! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Get out in the real world and meet girls your age.You are young. Use these sites as just a small part of finding people socially. Keep it in perspective and you should have a positive experience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I though you liked older ladies? : ) But I've noticed that too, there are a lot more younger guys than girls. As Willow says, out with the site would be your best option. You're a lovely looking lad, you should have no problems xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Definitely agree with you ladies. I'm fairly social and this isn't my hunting hole for women. To an extent though it narrows it down looking on here though. And Koko there is certainly no issue for myself with older ladies. Thanks for your input though :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    what you are looking for? Plenty of people 35-50 looking for people your age. Great here to get experience of the wilder side of things with slightly older folk. Downside is once some of these things are experienced, depending upon your view, it can be difficult to go back to a straight vanilla existence. But nothing wrong using this site to tick a few things of the fuckit list while you search for mrs vanilla in the outside world Annie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    your profile reads as very fuck'em and leave'em, most here want a little bit more at least genuine FWB.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Younger women are probably still looking for the dream: meeting someone who is going to love them and want to have babies etc Older women have done that and woken to reality. However young man. There are many other sites out there. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When I read the OP, I interpreted it as saying it seems there are more women looking for 35-50 yr old men than women who are looking for 20-35 yr old men. But reading the responses I think my assumption was wrong, and the OP is actually wondering why there aren't more 20-35yr old women on the site? Can you clarify Bx2795? Sorry, it's been a long day :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    yes I'm saying there are more women from 35-50 than 20-35. But in my view I'm at an age where I'm too young for the older ladies and too old for the younger group. Treat yourself to something for your long day too :) I hope that clears things up - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    more young men on here seeking Cougars like a stifflers mum type of fantasy..... The younger women are married in a relationship they don't know they hate yet..... Those that are 35-50 have usually not long come out of a relationship that they woke up one day to hate and are finding themselves again and wanting to be desired like they were in their 20's....it's probably why they left their relationship too...if they were able to survive it given some recent disturbing DV figures.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You have hit the nail on the head. Exactly how it is with me and close group of gfs. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    To stirrys comment... Loss of talk intimacy: a lack of effort in contributing to relationship work. it's called taking the relationship for granted. I'm sure many men feel the same. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have noticed quite a number of couples where one partner (often the male) is quite a bit older than the female by 15-20 years & they are either attached or married. I wonder how they will perform when the male is in his 60's, the female in her 40's!Will one be past it & looking for a rest, while the other wants to keep on shagging?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Stir.... how dod you grow up to become so wise?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    enjoy this moment cos I got nuthin lol :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Stir.... how dod you grow up to become so wise? all the exposure to the older women here who know what they want. I gather from comments made over the time I've been here that Stirry's part of the rhp "furniture" now he's been here so long!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Over the last 5 years I have been looking for love but sex has been 19 to 45 year olds.I found love in a 21 year old a year ago and was on top of the worldtill she was stupid to take ice, LOL. I was more worried about losing her to a younger man.Long story short , forget the age gap just try to be happy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    On the maturity of the younger guy... I'm open to guys younger or older than me, however recent experiences with a young male have made me inclined to begin to prefer an older man. Provided your not immature and just looking to notch up numbers then I don't feel that age should be an issue for you.. For myself I guess I know what I want and I'm not afraid anymore to show that. I don't have to hide it I don't have to be ashamed of it. I'm owning my sxuality and learning to flaunt that sexuality in a alluring and provocative manner. (Well hopefully) - Posted from rhpmobile