M113 F114
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January 18 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well, my real age is also showing. I once set my age at 36 because Sal.. from (Sal and Andy) has an established an upper age limit... configured by Andy... because she said at that time Sal considered that Andy needed a lower age limit. I mean poor lad. So I reduced my age to 36 just to get within Andy's stated age range. Everyone new about it... or so I thought and I made a bit of a game out of it in the forums.... and I posted all kinds of photos in my PG including pics of when I was 18.. right through to 48 as I was at that time. Soon after I started getting all kinds of propositions, to which am not accustomed, from people who I hardly even knew. One day someone questioned the photos and I realised they weren't savvy to my forum games and so I changed it back.Now... what have we learnt from this experience? Firstly, if I put my age as 38 instead of 48 all kinds of people want to get my skinny arse into their cot. Secondly, don't put photos of you when you were younger as it only confuses the hell out of people who are already on tender hooks worrying about whether you are real or fake.Thirdly, some people have no idea what a healthy 48 year old man looks like.Fouthly, some thirty eight year old men look older than they really are.Fifth and finally, always mention that both Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp are about the same age as you are.. and who wouldn't want to root one or both of them... and therefore age is of little consequence when it comes to having a shag... HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Met a couple for a drink from here "41(her) 44(him)" was actually just supposed to be her but that's another story.. stated there profile. It was more like 49 Her 60-??? him. Seriously people are deluding themselves if they think that ole carrot will work. That iniated my golden rule of seeing couples on cam first. I was polite nice smiled etc..but was thinking "no waaaaaaaaay".I'll admit Ive stopped our clock because Im awaiting other peeps/couples to catch up to us re their real ages..Tho the 65 in our profile is a bit of a giveaway lol. I dont think we look our ages but in the end its attratctiveness which is what gets us and Im sure others as well.For the record tho all our pics are as recent as 2 weeks to a year and a half. So whilst a couple may state xx ages in there profile , once they have cammed we will be a lot more aware of if we are attracted to them. It seriously irks me tho along with deceptive pics. Im not good at covering my emotions and hate for people to see a "holy shit" look come across my face when I was to meet them again like I hope that couple I mentioned I m sure saw..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ive met you at a meet and greet and I still think your the sexiest 49 y.old Ive seen on here.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Damn, maybe I need to lower my age. Gosh I would be even closer to the age of Focus then. But hey, it wont be my issue. Nobody thinks they look thier age. I know my mother constantly looks at her younger sisters and says they look old and I wonder what she sees when she looks in the mirror. Of course people are not going to be fooled...especially when they meet.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE'I've looked at pics and though, that 44 year old must have had a hard life I've looked at pics and thought, "That 35yo must have had a hard life". I'm honest about my age and i expect others to be honest also. I just really don't like liars tho.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The problem we see is, we are open to establishing a friendship but thats not the driver. Once you tell lies you have to remember what you have said and there is a good chance of being caught out in time. Yes the polite thinking is they have had a hard life, a lot of people have.??? Bad Luck Fiona you cant drop your age, How old were you when you had Focus? wow only 6 or7 lol so you have to be good and tell the truth, not unless Focus drops hers too??? Saturn , Understand what you are saying seems like 5 years might be the normal standard to reduce by, there is also if you do get caught out, the other couple might not be telling the truth either pretty well gauranteed dont you think? But 40 odd to 65 thats b/s. On the cams ....Have you ever been setting them up with a couple, intial reactions you and your partner are chatting, then 5 minutes later the other couple says audio is good they can hear every word!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ok, We have noticed that all of you have commented on that people lower there age to be more appealing, what about for a young couple? As we find we are usually under other peoples age choices, even though Mr wagga_pair looks older then he is but Mrs wagga_pair looks her age.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to confess when I first joined up I used to lie about my age....in fact I knocked a good 10 years off, and it was at that time that I met Mrs O. I did it because I could and get away with it, but I always told the truth before I ever got intimate with anyone, so I didn't feel as if I was being too deceptive. I put it on a par with people who would mislead others by a few kilos over their weight, and seeing as I wasn't looking for a life partner (even though I ended up with one :) ) I didn't really see what the harm was and I still don't as long as you look like you do in your pics. I find it strange that a field on a database can be so emotive. We haven't been to a swingers club very often, but the times we have been, no-one has ever asked me how old I was, they based their opinion on what they saw (and also the fact that they fancied Mrs O....lol). I guess some people are more sensitive over the issue of "trust" - but it's all a matter of degrees. Who hasn't told a "white lie" at some point in their lives??? "No officer I wasn't speeding".."of course I'm old enough to drink"..."I'd love to see your parents this weekend"....lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Bad Luck Fiona you cant drop your age, How old were you when you had Focus? wow only 6 or7 lol so you have to be good and tell the truth, not unless Focus drops hers too??? I was too young when I had her anyway. If anyone has an issue with my age...it is thier issue and not mine. LOL. I just wont let them make it my issue. ha ha ha
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hmm lets see now I did stay 25 for a number of years (I liked have quarter life crisis parties for my birthday) so yeah I could do that...lol . Actually we were just discussing this topic at a family gathering on the weekend and it was decided by a great aunt of mine (who refuses to be any older than 37) that if you have a problem with her 'age' then thats your problem not hers..she quite likes being 37...lol...and as its your issue dont make it hers....guess that could be said the same of some RHP members who have shave a decader off their own ages . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I was chatting with a guy tonight and after seeing a face pic of me he said, "you only look about 30" ! Mmmm.... cool pick up line ! I think he wants to get laid ! I know I look younger than I am AND I have to admit (but don't tell anyone) that I'm actually a little older than my listed age. I attribute it to avoiding the sun, smoking and the "herbs and spices" I put on my skin. I don't envisage I'm going to find the guy of my life on here.... although that would be great. I'm here to find fun guys and I prefer the ones in their 30s. Age doesn't make any difference to my capacity to "out play, out last, out wit" so why not have fun with it ? Hugs, Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'wagga_pair' Ok, We have noticed that all of you have commented on that people lower there age to be more appealing, what about for a young couple? As we find we are usually under other peoples age choices, even though Mr wagga_pair looks older then he is but Mrs wagga_pair looks her age. We remember where you are at , being in business and no one would give me decent contracts because it was percieved I didnt have the experiance and I wished for grey hair. Remeber my 1st real big contract being awarded ....hangover the next day. I would imagine swinging the same ? Or is there enough couples out there you age to give you the variety you want? Guess put your age up to 25 -30?
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RHP User
15 years ago
That was all for us.....aww shucks :) xx Salina
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65'Ive met you at a meet and greet and I still think your the sexiest 49 y.old Ive seen on here. you didnt look too bad yourself that night Mrs Sat roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am 50 and that has never been a problem for me...granted an update of some of the photos are need but the tooshie one is less than a year old. . Some might think that cribbing their age will improve their chance a little but my age has never been a problem for me :) . LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' I was chatting with a guy tonight and after seeing a face pic of me he said, "you only look about 30" ! Mmmm.... cool pick up line ! I think he wants to get laid ! I know I look younger than I am AND I have to admit (but don't tell anyone) that I'm actually a little older than my listed age. I attribute it to avoiding the sun, smoking and the "herbs and spices" I put on my skin. I don't envisage I'm going to find the guy of my life on here.... although that would be great. I'm here to find fun guys and I prefer the ones in their 30s. Age doesn't make any difference to my capacity to "out play, out last, out wit" so why not have fun with it ? Hugs, Saturn Ditto. I've whipped a few years off so that my years match my face and to duck under the search limits of men much older than me. My photos are all current (as recent as this month) and photos don't lie. Nor does cam. I tell people my real age when chatting or when meeting. \ Adjusting an age by 10 years is pretty extreme and in most cases self defeating (except for the very lucky few who don't age). I have chatted to many men in their late 40's claiming to be in their late 30's and using old pics. Sometimes VERY old pics. I've also chatted to some really young guys who have upped their age a fair bit to appeal to older women. I see the listed age as a guideline. It all comes down to photos, cam and actual face-to-face meeting. \ I like what Fiona says too. I'm quite fond of 37. I think I'll stay here for the moment. \
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks, I can scrub up ok when I have to lol.xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' Ive met you at a meet and greet and I still think your the sexiest 49 y.old Ive seen on here. Awwhh you're such a tease... I was the oldest man there I'm sure... but.... you're a couple now with a couple's profile??? Damn. I'm out of the information loop with no membership and no access to the chat rooms! When did this take place? More importantly now that you're a verified couple... can I flirt with both of you at the next Meet and Greet? :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'Saturn65' Ive met you at a meet and greet and I still think your the sexiest 49 y.old Ive seen on here. Awwhh you're such a tease... I was the oldest man there I'm sure... but.... you're a couple now with a couple's profile??? Damn. I'm out of the information loop with no membership and no access to the chat rooms! When did this take place? More importantly now that you're a verified couple... can I flirt with both of you at the next Meet and Greet? :pHugsStalky Stalky you big dag!!! You are getting me confused with Divine and Sexy Miss_Saturn..gees Louise. Have been a couple on here foreverrrrrrrrrrr....well since we joined anyways. Yes you were a sexy thang with your gaggle of forum women around you. You need to chk out my friends list..may ring a bell for you!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
In our case our ages are real. Although I have a birthday real soon (sob). The following might appear a little shallow but it's the honest truth.... With regard to attraction to the younger players this is complicated for me (Mr) by the fact that we have a child in their late teens. Age shouldn't be a barrier I know, and the thought of being with a younger person / couple is a very nice turn on in many many respects, not to mention flattering for being accepted by said younger people. But couter that with the thought that said younger people are more likely to be in similar age / social groups to our child, or even the multitude of young people (over 18) I am responsible for at work every day, it sort of crosses some self imposed moral boundaries. (Mind you it doesn't bother some others in the workplace who seem to take advantage of the situation). It's the same mindset with people around my parents age, which is a bit limiting since they had me when they were very young! I know it shouldn't matter..... In many respects I'd rather not know te age, and thus not base any decisions on it at all - rather than on attraction and connection. I have to ask though, what is the turn on for younger people to seek out older people? Is it simply looking for experience? Or a different experience? I do think back on our younger days of rampant fucking like bunnies and think "if only we knew then what we do now". So in that respect, I take my hat off to you and other like you (eg Taby) for broadening your horizons at a young age. Sorry for the essay :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Has anyone been able to update (hehehe) their ages on here, keep getting error messages for two days now
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RHP User
15 years ago
In responce to your essay (lol), We have never really looked at the age as being a problem, being here and doing what we do is all an expirence and one that we enjoy. Don't get us wrong it was a shock one day when a couple we had been talking to for sometime we found to be friends of Mrs Wagga parents but we think they were just as shocked. We are not saying in anyway that we only go for older couples but we believe that older couples are more mature about having someone sleep with there wife/partner and also show respect aswell, example, We met with a coupe a while back (around the same age as us) after thing got hot and heavy the male of the other couple tried to do deep throat on Mrs Wagga and after that she said "no i'm not into that" but he still continued to do so. To us that came down to a lack of respect for us as a couple as well as lack of respect for a women's wishes in general, We hope this answered you in some way as to why we dont feel uncomfortable in seeking older people.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for your response Wagga_pair! I'm glad that you feel that older people have both experience and respect to share, and I'd like to think that would fairly well ring true. Certainly the situation you describe - pushing past someones expressed boundaries is something we wouldn't care to do. Particularly as we would expect the same respect in return. This makes a nice change from the usual "you're so old - you dont know anything" attitude we sometimes encounter. I guess the age / mid life crisis thing is more in our heads than anything else :) Guess it doesn't help us being newbies! I guess the last thing I have to offer is that you are a gorgeous couple with a mature take on life!
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RHP User
15 years ago
i dont know how it happened, But my wife is 43 our profile says she's 45 but then in the ''in your own words'' bit she's 44...its not my fault, she let me type. but when she found out, oh boy! you would think 2 years was 10 years, i just said well you will be that old one day. boy when will i learn to keep my mouth shut!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' Stalky you big dag!!! You are getting me confused with Divine and Sexy Miss_Saturn..gees Louise. Have been a couple on here foreverrrrrrrrrrr....well since we joined anyways. Yes you were a sexy thang with your gaggle of forum women around you. You need to chk out my friends list..may ring a bell for you!! lolz.... I've seen your contacts list and I know exactly who you are, mutual friend and all.... but I'm clearly in denial. Can I please keep dreaming of you as single? Pretty please? I mean.. that threesome is getting pretty bloody crowded and although it comes as no surprise to you, it's apparent to me that I'm the odd man out in this naughty sortie! :p Psshht.. couple's profile... you must be pulling my leg!HugsStalky
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Our ages are as they appear! We have been rejected a few times cos "We're too old" , we can live with that even though one or two years outside of someone's search range seems a bit petty. We have a ball park figure of course of what we're looking for but we will certainly go outside of that if the people have a good attitude and take care of themselves. There are some really old fuddy duddy, boring, broken down 30 year olds out there LOL. Youth doesn't guarantee attractiveness.Our photos are as we look now, of course there are a mixture taken over a few years but there are always current ones in our public gallery. We truly believe that honesty is the best policy. If you lie, eventually you'll be caught out, as in people who put up pics taken ten years & 20kgs ago. Do these people really think potential playmates won't notice on the first meeting or are they just hoping to be able to charm their way out of their fibs?Just remember all these folk are aging as well so it won't be long before they feel the sting of "You're too old for us" LOL
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