RHP

RHP User

M60

After Separation

April 02 2011

Hi all, Having once been part of a couple on this site and now back to being single after a good 5 years meeting great people on here, I am aware that many couples have gone their separate ways over the years. I am wondering how many people after separation have remained on here as singles? How they have found the change in experience and is the site still a good connection to others for them? I would also be interested to see if there are many in this situation if they would like to organise a get together. Cheers RealFriends

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Count me in on that group but I didnt become as active on here until I was single (hmmm go figure)..back then I left it top him - was more interested in my own pursuits - gee now why id that relationship fail again???? lol . Its now time to be selfish...find who you are a as single person...its time to think about your wants and needs...enjoy yourself...take the time required to really figure yourself out...dont rush it... . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thats me to a tee. The timing and everything. Bizarre! 5 yrs as a cple and now been here single 5 yrs and have some great friends and realistic low expectations of anything else, after all a single white male is in common oversupply and the lowest form of life relatively speaking. I have a great time nevertheless on the forums and amused by the action that goes on here that you hear about endlessly. We all share a common trait unique to this genre of site, and that is we have a deviance about our attitude/experience sexually. Past or Present or presently developing we can admit and explore our enlightened way of thinking where that is not available on common dating sites. This is nothing new but always on my mind that anyone on here knows what its about. Sure I would like to associate with people in our boat, why not? We are a niche minority lot who are here for one reason or another?.