RHP

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Affection

February 03 2014

May not be the right sub-forum, but it seemed a toss-up between this and "Off Topic". Also probably been done before, but anyways... Who here loves affection? I mean it's probably a stupid question as most people enjoy being made to feel good, but I guess I mean who here REALLY likes it? Who would consider themselves a cuddle whore? I probably fit this bill. I really enjoy all kinds of affection - kissing, touching, flirting, cuddling, spooning, nice words - and I like it just in and of itself. It doesn't need to lead to sex (though I don't turn my nose up at the idea) - it's just something I really like engaging in, and I'm probably more affectionate with my friends than the average person. Anyway, post your appreciation for affection here!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    See my profile ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A completely certifiable cuddle...touching...kissing..SLUT!! Simply interlocking hands with some one I care for sends a buzz through me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    a good scratch behind the ears and a slap on the butt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm not a touchy-feely person. I like my own space! I'm not a hugger and I can't sleep if anyone is touching me. Guess I'm the odd one out here.....

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    If I like you, you will know....if I don't like you, you get nothing! ;) Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I like to cuddle, and touch and kiss, and dry hump their butts. :p Although I do like my own space when it comes to sleeping.... Holding their dick during the night doesn't count right? :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Meander - That was a fun read ;) JayJay_66 - I was hesitant to use the word slut, but since you went there :P Also I'm the same, a simple stroke of the hair can be really arousing in the right context Funlover71 - Who's a good boy?! :P MsElle72 - I'm sure there are plenty of people who are the same. I didn't start the topic to be all like "if you don't like affection you're weird" or anything. Open discussion is good. One of my uni friends is like you - she hates people being up in her personal space. She's still an awesome person though, she just expresses intimacy differently. SuperFoxxxy - Hah! Meeka100 - Lol. I think that can pass as acceptable :P I prefer my own space when sleeping too. Love some spooning/cuddling/etc before bed, but when it's actual sleeping time, get the fuck off me haha.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'gungho999' Meander - That was a fun read ;) Also, only got stubble and Cons :( I guess 2/3 ain't bad :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Funlover71' a good scratch behind the ears and a slap on the butt. your leg then start to spasm???

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    I love affection, cuddles, kisses, touching, eye contact, flirting, but kissing would be my favourite...💋 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'JayJay_66' Quoting 'Funlover71' a good scratch behind the ears and a slap on the butt. your leg then start to spasm??? Would you like to explore?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and the more the merrier. I usually find myself playing with women's hair and I don't even know I'm doing it. I do a good ole grope from time to time too ... (sorry Honky)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    that I grope in an affectionate way ...

  • Taby_DK

    Taby_DK

    12 years ago

    I have always been an affectionate person and I can happily say when I met Mr I was in heaven as he is just as affectionate as me. We love to cuddle each other in bed, on the lounge or random cuddles all over the house.This is similar with kissing and when we are out in public we almost always hold hands or Mr puts his arms around me. He tells me that this is how he shows me he loves me and by how much. Taby xx

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    And being made to feel......cherished, adored, wanted, cared for. Wrapped up in that coccoon of comfort.....i think it's a basic human need to feel sheltered by another human beings warmth. Of course I've had fuckbuddys who simply prefer cuddling up to a nice warm feminine body as opposed to their pillows. I also like to cup an arse cheek and have feet touching when I settle down for slumber, JayJay I love your new arse shot but next time kick my arse out of bed for snoring!!! Lol and spooning you was done in my sleep, I can't be held accountable for what I do in my sleep.....you're just lucky I didn't dry hump you!! ~ Oops!! Funlover Horsey's like the same treatment ;-) xx

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    Give me a good FORKING over a spoon any day. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Cuddling, touching, kissing, hugging, spooning which hopefully leads to forking ......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Every time you mention forking........ I think of two girls scissoring. Don't ask me why, cause I don't know. hehe.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Affection is cool tho smothering is yuk. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E'I also like to cup an arse cheek and have feet touching when I settle down for slumberI find I have trouble sleeping if someone is on me. I like my space when I sleep. I love cuddling etc. before bed, but once it's sleep time I just need to have my own personal space. When sleeping is an example of when I would feel "smothered" as opposed to being affectionate. Quoting 'inspirit' Affection is cool tho smothering is yuk. - Posted from rhpmobile Absolutely agree with this. While I do love affection, obviously there are times you need your own space as well. And having those times to yourself makes the affection nicer when you get it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'paint_me' that I grope in an affectionate way ... Hah! A good grope is always fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I love a affectionate woman who loves to be nice because thats just the way she is. Specially if the feeling is mutual.. I had a GF who ' when Id go to pick her up, she would always greet me with a running jump. The first time we ended up sprawled on the grass laughing after that I was prepared and caught her.. lol. Nothing put on,,, just genuine and affectionate, even when we were out... That was nice...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A male friend and I cuddle every time we see each other. No subtext, no sexual innuendo, just comforting basic cuddling. And we both agree that it's just........ Nice!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Kissing, snuggling, touching, stroking, holding hands and falling asleep wrapped in my mans arms, just love the feel of his body next to mine

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    12 years ago

    Only if it is accompanied by rampant armpit licking or something.... It's the only way to keep me still long enough to get a cuddle out of me. HugsGazpacho

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There is nothing better then a mutual affection :) I love a car cuddle (just resting a hand on the persons leg with soft tender strokes now n then :)) or the slight arse touch (no not grop) as u motion the person around ;),, But nothing beats the long slow (and I mean long) lingering soft kisses as the sun sets behind you both ur hands simply locked into each other's n the eye contact as u both come up for air :)) Fuk I miss that those real kisses that just leave you speechless

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm a toucher, I hug my friends & family. And there is nothing better than having that affectionate contact with a lover and it doesn't have or need to be sexual. Hug someone today, with no expectation of anything else :) it is the best thing in the world to bring a smile to your face ! Xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm a toucher, I hug my friends & family. And there is nothing better than having that affectionate contact with a lover and it doesn't have or need to be sexual. Hug someone today, with no expectation of anything else :) it is the best thing in the world to bring a smile to your face ! Xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    touching...kissing...tasting...stroking...hugging...holding hands...spooning...forking...showers together... S'nP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I am definitely an affectionate person & enjoy it being returned, in fact I need it to be returned. Every little bit of affection spoken about in the posts before mine are a necessary part of the intimacy I enjoy giving as well as crave receiving. Luckily for me Mrs fun shares my enjoyment of intimacy & affection. Mr fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I love it sooo much. I love to snuggle in--- yes.And to get attention. But I need lots of space at times as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    How weird that we share the same username .. is that even allowed .. lol ? Curiously .. are you new to this site ? Just seems a bit too much of a coincidence .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ok .. i stand corrected lol your passion8_I aha :D still a bit freaky .. lol .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Love it in every form especially playful affection . Not if it's too much though .. then i just go this way ----->> lol coz i start to feel smothered .. i very much also appreciate my space & alone time :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Been on here for about 18 months now but just recently changed my name to one that reflected my personality more. I didn't realise there was someone with a similar name until I saw a post from you on another topic and since then I've seen someone with passion8_one. Mine is with an "l" as in the initial of my first name

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm with you, and it seems so are the majority here. I love feeling connected and like to manifest that physically, so when out in public, I like simple gestures like leaning a leg on him gently, or resting a hand on his thigh. When I'm sleeping I love having at least one tiny part of our skin in contact somewhere, even just a foot or calf. It's funny because my childhood and family life was lacking in physical affection, and now I can't get enough of it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There's a famous book that breaks down the different ways that people show love and affection in their lives. Most of us use a combination of all of these, but we'll often have one or two that are dominant. The lightbulb moment for many with this material was that we were sometimes oblivious to the ways that our partners/family were showing us their affection. Touch/Sex/Physical expression Verbal expressionCreative expression (making things, writing songs or poetry)Giving of your time (always coming straight home from work, spending hours just hanging out)Helping (fixing things around the house, doing chores, making a sammich, giving advice) It's those last three that aren't always recognised and appreciated as expressions of love and affection, but they are just as valid :)

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    12 years ago

    I'd rather cuddle then have a root. Hugs Gazpacho