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Addicted To Sex!!!
August 01 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well, it might explain the withdrawal symptoms I sufer whenever Jennylee is away.
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RHP User
13 years ago
A distraction maybe, but to be an addiction it needs to interfere with your day to day functioning in your work or home life, i.e. skipping work regularly for the afternoon to have sex with someone. If it's affecting your ability to hold down a job or keep a relationship for instance, then you may consider it a problem and possible addiction. A little day dreaming about a future party is normal, just shows you're excited for what's to come.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'll be able to make an accurate assessment of this topic..BUT.. Is it bad? Here's a few addictions I think may be worse..Television,Tobacco,Self Obsession,Snacks after dinner,Alcohol,The family car.Anyone want to add a few?Does lots of sex bother other aspects of your life? If not, carry on please..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Otori'A distraction maybe, but to be an addiction it needs to interfere with your day to day functioning in your work or home life, i.e. skipping work regularly for the afternoon to have sex with someone. If it's affecting your ability to hold down a job or keep a relationship for instance, then you may consider it a problem and possible addiction. A little day dreaming about a future party is normal, just shows you're excited for what's to come. Spot on, I skip most friday afternoons but not lucky enough to be for sex i wish!!. Wow what an addiction to have !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'Is it bad? Here's a few addictions I think may be worse..Television,Tobacco,Self Obsession,Snacks after dinner,Alcohol,The family car.Anyone want to add a few?Does lots of sex bother other aspects of your life? If not, carry on please..What about... Red Hot Pie Forums???
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RHP User
13 years ago
noway !! i think about sex almost all day ... i know how u feel though .. ive had some prudish religious types tell me im a sex addict but then i go to work and talk the blokes there.. my god , if im a sex addict then those blokes need to be locked up lol .even gys that are so well behaved in front of there wives , when there alone with me all they talk about sex lol gys will always think about sex its just how we are... i say f@#* it and f@#* them.. sex is awsome we should celebrate it and enjoy it as much as possible...if only there was a religion based on celebrating sex rather than repressing it...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'I'll be able to make an accurate assessment of this topic..BUT.. Is it bad? Here's a few addictions I think may be worse..Television,Tobacco,Self Obsession,Snacks after dinner,Alcohol,The family car.Anyone want to add a few?Does lots of sex bother other aspects of your life? If not, carry on please..Great point no one gets hurt its all good!!Yer not addicted to sex i can stop long enough to play the pokies have a smoke and scull a bear haha just kiding but the women weight lifters shore took my mind of it
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RHP User
13 years ago
LOL..I guess someone had to say it :-)though occasionally people get hurt.. ~rolls eyes~ Quoting 'jensman1903' What about... Red Hot Pie Forums???
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exploringfun
13 years ago
Every Friday I too must leave as the excitement and thoughts of starting to have sex This addiction of mine has been going for months effecting every single weekend But I love my sex!!!!!!Sex is precious My precious
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think it is an addiction to think of sex all the time or to have loads of sex. Hell, I think about sex all day and night lol I agree with otori if it interferes with your normal life, then it might be, but otherwise just enjoy!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nope, I am not addicted. Addicts go to meetings.
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
I agree with LRE. Would love the chance to find out if i was addicted.Can you be addicted to something you aren't getting? Would have thought it natural to fantasize about upcoming meetings.AAhh memories.
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
Oh yes probally am adicted.. fun though I guess its more then sex; meeting new people and bonking them Hmm ok its the sex and the fantasy and the dressing up and the ....bugger better go and see someone for help hmmm hope we can have sex
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'exploringfun'Every Friday I too must leave as the excitement and thoughts of starting to have sex This addiction of mine has been going for months effecting every single weekend But I love my sex!!!!!!Sex is precious My precious Yes we could start a sex addicts anonymous group imagine the after sesion chats mmm dont see how that could help haha!
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RHP User
13 years ago
2 girls and 4 guys since Saturday. Thats just a regular week isnt it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You beat me to the chase. Quite right Otori, the definition of an addiction is that it's out of balance and other things suffer as a result. A pre-occupation with something that most people in society don't pay as much attention to does not necessarily make one an addict. For example, a lot of people enjoy watching sport on TV. My parents, bless their souls, can watch two games of AFL back to back and then switch to North American sport/the Olympics/whatever else is on. It drives me UP THE WALL. I have trouble sitting through a single "quarter" in AFL. But that doesn't necessarily make them sport addicts. If they started skipping work to watch sport, another story. If they laid in bed at night unable to sleep for thinking of it, problem. If their interpersonal relationships suffered, if they spent more money than they could comfortably afford, if they wanted to stop or cut down but couldn't, etc etc, all hallmarks of addiction. Now some people are addicted to sex and do have honest-to-goodness sincere recovery groups, forums, therapists and the like. I feel sorry for people who have such a destructive addiction, just as I'd feel sorry for someone addicted to alcohol, gambling, shopping or illicit drugs. They do exist and I think making a tongue-in-cheek forum topic about being "addicted" is disrespectful to what is actually a life-destroying problem for some people. I suppose it would be the equivalent of pulling out your credit card in Myer and saying to everyone around, "So I'm addicted to Italian shoes! Whatever, am I right? Who's with me?" or saying to your parole officer: "So I have a nostrilfull of snow? Who made YOU God?" If you really are addicted to sex, for goodness sake, get some help. If you're not, for goodness sake, stop having a laugh at the expense of people who are, please.
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RHP User
13 years ago
@Slippery_halo Hey i think you might be taking things a bit too serious this post was ment to be a dig at my own personal short comings, Shit i shouldnt say that next you will be saying im insulting short people. I realise there are people out there with this real condition but if we had to go through a list of people not to insult before listing a post up there wouldnt be many on here and how boring would they be . Maybee you should look elsewhere for an argument you wont get one from me im here to escape the real word and have fun and a bit of a laugh, if there is any real addicts on here im sure they might get some help from this topic one way or another.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah okay, I'll lighten up and am generally never looking for an argument on the forums but do blunder my way into them on occasion. An intelligent response and a very good point that there are always groups of somehow marginalised, somewhere, who might be offended by anything fun or funny. *shrug* I'll save my crusader cape for when people actually have malice behind what they say. Have fun, ya filthy addicts.
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RHP User
13 years ago
can you be a sex addict if you are not having sex
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' Yeah okay, I'll lighten up and am generally never looking for an argument on the forums but do blunder my way into them on occasion. An intelligent response and a very good point that there are always groups of somehow marginalised, somewhere, who might be offended by anything fun or funny. *shrug* I'll save my crusader cape for when people actually have malice behind what they say. Have fun, ya filthy addicts. Thanks as you mentioned there was no malice intended im not here to insult or hurt peoples feelings very much the opposite!! Now back on topic to my real addiction friday is nearly here look out babe im coming well not literally i wish
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'can you be a sex addict if you are not having sex Hi freya as my mind has been taken of the origanal essence of this topic i shall first answer in real world terms yes a addict remains a addict allways even when not paticapating in there addiction. For example an alcoholic is still clased as a recovering alcoholic even if they havnt had a drink for 20 years . Now back to my origanal train of thought lets hook you up with a few people and we might find out mmmmm
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was worried about the same thing (but with 1 of the medications I was given for pain) so I asked my Doctor. He asked me a few questions and informed me that I'm not so much addicted , but more so depandant. What's the difference I hear you ask? The difference is, as someone explained earlier "addicts' let their habit interfere with their day to day living, their relationships suffer, you can't hold a job, you become dishonest with people close to you etc etc. whereas dependancy - you depend on it to have a normal life. Still not sold? Ok, we depend on our cars, we depend on our fridge. Does this mean we should throw them out? No. They make our lives easier and more manageable, so why would we.
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