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A question about abuse?
January 04 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have only come across a few angry men on RHP but it is always shocking when it happens. The last couple that had a go at me told me to grow up and that they suggest I get married and have kids so I could learn that life is not all fun and games. WTF? Plus I shouldn't post anymore on the forums as my contributions were shit. This was their first message to me! Totally unprovoked attack. They didn't like my profile pic. It was a message that said " Love sucks, True love swallows" Some people have a lot of anger and bitterness, and no sense of humour. I feel sorry for them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry to hear of your experience OP and yes can relate...I do empathise with your last sentence and basically in answer to your questions yes there are trolls but in relative low numbers when you compare with how many genuine people are onsite. Sadly those are the ones you tend to remember cause they are such tossers. All you can do is pity people - that have no manners, breeding, empathy or understanding............and lets face it so much better to know this now than ...god forbid you get to the play situation with them... The world is so full of anger and bitterness. Not much you can do - you cant control their actions only your reaction to the given situation Shake your head, move on knowing that someone worth your while is just a few clicks away
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I have only come across a few angry men on RHP but it is always shocking when it happens. The last couple that had a go at me told me to grow up and that they suggest I get married and have kids so I could learn that life is not all fun and games. WTF? Plus I shouldn't post anymore on the forums as my contributions were shit. This was their first message to me! Totally unprovoked attack. They didn't like my profile pic. It was a message that said " Love sucks, True love swallows" Some people have a lot of anger and bitterness, and no sense of humour. I feel sorry for them. yep I feel sorry for them as well anger directed at anyone let alone people you have never met is a tad odd to me, but I also fire up sometimes on here and in life the down side of a bad day is your emotion takes over logic
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh the wonderful work of online meeting sites. I have totally made up my mind that it's Russian roulette playing this game. I have been fortunate to meet some wonderful people in here, beautiful gentle souls like Meeka, Roxy, Polarbeargirl and some other wonderful people I consider it a privilege to have hung out with. Then there's the other kinds..... Some others I've met seemed every bit as nice as those mentioned only to turn out to be narcissistic asses with no manners, hidden agendas and lifestyles no better than homeless people. Anyone who gets shitty because you're slow to respond to a message should be avoided at all costs, anyone who immediately thinks they are entitled to undivided attention are likely to turn out to be narcissists and we all know those types can also be sociopaths if you believe the documentaries on murders. Personally I'm grateful if they show themselves to be psychos before I meet them, it's much safer and less time consuming.
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RHP User
13 years ago
unfortunately there are a few on this planet
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' You have stirred my anger with your spelling mistake, and I now feel obliged to hurl abuse at you. However, it's hot, the cricket's on, and I have ironing to do, so please feel free to send yourself a vitriolic message on my behalf. Thanks!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I recently had a man start a chat with me on another site,the torrent of nasty abuse had me reeling...I do think that sometimes alcohol is involved and that they don't even see you as a person...certainly not a person with feelings...thank goodness their true colours showed before you met them... And Meeka, I remember that tirade directed towards you and I am sure so do many others ...when people are so abusive here they often harm themselves much more than the intended target of their nastiness..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some people are just bitter in life.Let them hate and hurl abuse.I have been blocked in chat rooms by a few people,not for being abusive but for laughing and enjoying chat with others.Some people just have issues ,and when they block you it shows they are insecure.Surround yourself with happy and positive people not negative lemons.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I reckon most of the genuine people on here would be fairly relaxed, sometimes it is a real surprise to find that people who are capable of being so open in one part of their lives (ie their sexuality) can be so judgemental. Some of the threads make me shake my heads, but at least most of the opinions expressed are honest and earnestly held. My experience this morning was very much the exception. I have met some truly wonderful people on here, some playmates, some friends, some both. I guess after a couple of years of people at least being pleasant in the main, it was a shock to feel like I had a brick hurled in my face lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
True justforfun, but it does upset me when people do that. I am often stunned and feel quite upset for at least 5 minutes. Damn it that is 5 minutes I won't get back. Obviously not everyone is going to like you. I am sure my sense of humour probably does offend some people but I mean no harm (usually :p )
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' True justforfun, but it does upset me when people do that. I am often stunned and feel quite upset for at least 5 minutes. Damn it that is 5 minutes I won't get back. Obviously not everyone is going to like you. I am sure my sense of humour probably does offend some people but I mean no harm (usually :p ) ..when you're wearing your strapon....then all bets are off!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some people would be offended. Cool people just go "What ever".Keepin' it real man."Not especially offended, just stunned".
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' it was u before me. Yes, even I think that's a bad joke.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Manly_McHardon' Quoting 'inspirit' You have stirred my anger with your spelling mistake, and I now feel obliged to hurl abuse at you. However, it's hot, the cricket's on, and I have ironing to do, so please feel free to send yourself a vitriolic message on my behalf. Thanks!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'inspirit' it was u before me. Yes, even I think that's a bad joke.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...if I can kiss the front of your ass ;)...... Or should that be :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
It always surprises me when anyone on here gets bothered or upset by what others do on RHP, assuming the others are strangers to you. Who cares? What harm can they really do to you? How hard is it to block, ignore, delete ... move on? Their bitterness, anger and bad behaviour is already eating them up, don't let it eat you up too :) I'm with you OP, no point being offended. I do agree that sometimes, some people can behave in ways that are breath-takingly ugly. When they do I don't believe they deserve even a moment of your attention.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do not have a font bum, I feel this task may be difficult for you... oh... i don't negotiate
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'll just have to give it my best shot :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some people just aren't equipped mentally or emotionally to accept a declined offer with grace. That's why some girls and I (on another site) came up with a fun game we like to call Butthurt Bingo. The scorecard consists of all the classic comebacks we all get when we don't fall naked at the feet of every would-be suitor, for example: *you're all FAKES on here! ('cos some faceless wonder thinking I'm a bot is such a challenge to my artificial ego I'll HAVE to fuck you to prove otherwise!) *you're too fat to fuck anyway! (Why yes, my pic that you called 'fukn hot' in your first message DID just put on 10kg when I said no thanks, I'm going to go cry in my WeightBuster shake right now!) *yeah right you're really a dude on a chicks profile anyway (because you're so irresistible to women, this is the only plausible reason I'm not begging to suck your dick right now, of course. Flawless logic, I commend you sir) *dumb slut you prolly got aids anyway (a slut too dumb to realise I'm supposed to fuck anyone who offers, my bad. An despite my probable infection you would've given it a shot anyway, given the chance) *and many moooooooooooore....... Anyways, get any 3 in a row and that's bingo, baby! xx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd like to add."You're not a man until you know how to accept a knock back".Mind you, there are plenty of ways of saying "NO" too.. Some a little easier to swallow than others.
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RHP User
13 years ago
In my experience, it's better to just message back and forth over RHP itself, very rarely do we actually meet anyone who gives us their MSN details. They are either never on at the same time as you, or they don't reply to your hello. I dunno if they chicken out at that point or what. Have copped some abuse before over MSN in the distant past but I just don't bother to add people on anymore. If they need umpteen dozen ways of contacting you to make sure you're real and worth meeting, well, what's the point of meeting at all? I say stick to the site itself or phone contact, less trolls, more genuine interest.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Manly_McHardon' I'll just have to give it my best shot :) to that upside down in your cock pit
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