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10 biggest gripes!

November 09 2013

1) 'Looks not important'. Why? Are you so unappealing you will take anyone? Even if that is the case, please don't declare it! 2) Men who lie about their cock size. If we become intimate and there is a large disparity between advertised size and real size, I will get dressed and leave with a few nasty words thrown in your direction. 3) Couples seeking a unicorn who only advertise what THEY want. They haven't considered that an attractive bi woman is hot property and why should she choose them. 4) Profiles with very little information and no photos. Um, do you really want to meet someone? 5) Men who don't seem to understand what 'no single guys' means! 6) People who read a profile and are NOTHING like what the advertiser wants, but message anyway. Really? I want to meet couples 25 - 40 years and you're a 57 year old single guy. Why waste both our time? 7) Sending a very polite 'no thanks' note and receiving abuse in return. 8) The overly generous use of the word 'attractive'. 9) One word / sentence messages. 10) Text speak and poor English. Arrrgghhhhh!! What are other people's pet peeves? :)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    1. Cock pics as profile picture. I'm telling ALL you men now, it's a turnoff and not at all alluring. Are you so in love with your own cock you think it's your best selling point? AND if you carry of picture of it around in your wallet cos it's so special you seriously need help! Show us your BIG head first then if things progress maybe your little head will get some airplay. It's just downright tacky in my honest, uncensored opinion and I don't think I'm alone. Look at the men of the forums, they aren't exhibiting their penises but their other intensely more attractive traits; like personality, maturity and dare I say, trickiness. 2. People who you've never had any contact or meaningful interaction with who decide they like you and send you a friend request. FFS a) this isn't FB and b) FFS!! 3. Profiles that state "no strings attached" or "NSA" translated in fact = No Satisfaction Assured. Next! 4. Again with the OP and this can't be said often enough. Age preferences are there for a reason, if you don't fall within the preference DON'T bother, I'm not changing my preferences just to give you the benefit of the doubt. Equally disturbing are men's profiles seeking women 18-99? I can see you failing miserably in the 18-99 age bracket.....which doesn't leave you alot does it? And lucky last 5. The same topics over and over and over and over again in the forums. There's a Newbies section there for a reason children, please peruse those topics and if you don't find what you're looking for THEN post a question to the masses. We're a friendly bunch really we are....much love Indy.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Men of the Forums: If you DO want to share your cock pics with the girls as profile pictures I'm sure that'll answer a few of the Regular Ladies questions 😈- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Welcome Lisa!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The word "BUSY" used as an excuse!GRRRRRRRRRRRR gets up my goat.If the United States of America can run a country and make time for his family, then he really is not that busy!It's a poor excuse - you are not that busy or important as the President of the USA!!It gets under my skin when I hear it.Anyways I am to "busy" to hear about other peoples "too busy's excuses"FOXYFOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    @Indy - yes, agree about the cock shot as profile pic. I like to see private pics, but only once I've established an interest in the guy. Or if he's over 10 inches :) @mesmerised - LOL....and hello!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    LOL @ Foxy. Yes, people make time for things they perceive as important!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Is those who think they need to pick at someone's insecurities like a crow on a corpse.....I just wonder if they think they're helping, because they don't. It becomes an interaction that revolves around what that person points out all the bad stuff about a person. Hardly sexy, hardly attractive at all. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hating everything u guy's hatexknots

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    super super attractive.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Flies are getting smarter, or I am getting slower.Spiders are doing fuck allAnd mozzies are on the way.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    self aggrandising bores of any gender...I lapse into a coma

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My biggest peeve is not getting any.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yeah fuck them spiders off....they must've formed a union :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My top ten grabs: 1. My hair, by a man's hands 2. His butt, by mine 3. A condom from my drawers, bag, bathroom cabinet... 4. Beer from the fridge 5. Your attention 6. Coffee on my way to work 7. A bull by the horns 8. My lover's hand 9. The remote 10. Shut-eye

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' My top ten grabs: 1. My hair, by a man's hands 2. His butt, by mine 3. A condom from my drawers, bag, bathroom cabinet... 4. Beer from the fridge 5. Your attention 6. Coffee on my way to work 7. A bull by the horns 8. My lover's hand 9. The remote 10. Shut-eye You have a good grip on those grabs Mes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ask me GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I forgot the biggest one! :) 11) Men who complain about using condoms. What is that about??!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'd like 2 offer u my deepest apologies on behalf of all the selfish single guys out there who have expressed their interest in u via a msg and wasted your time... I'm sure they weren't aware they were dealing with royalty... Good luck in your search, i'm sure from up there on your high horse u won't miss a thing..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Those couples profiles with the "he describes her" & "she describes him".... when it's pretty easy to read the language and decipher that the glowing reference of how hot he is, and how much stamina and how you won't regret it ..... was written by the guy. LOL- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Teachers who hand out assessments like there freakn napkins with no real purpose. Then they ignore the fact that the entire class is lost and bewildered as to what theyre meant to do with this 79 page assessment on service requirements and gap analysis, the osi model etc ..Then they expect us to finish the damn thing in 3 weeks but in reality its 3 months worth of research and work lol Fark these teachers .. All they do is sit in front of their laptops trolling facbook while we struggle our asses off trying to work out where to even begin lol   ok that's my gripe for today , now its back to studying..lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And your funny DG, love your input mate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    @searching1985 - LOL...apology accepted ;) Maybe I should change my username to Queen Lisa? You are perfectly correct, single guys may indeed have not realised I'm royalty. Must update my profile. @mischeviouslad, yes, the 'she describes him' ones are embarassing. Always, always written by the guy!!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and go crying like a baby when they get bitten.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Is when people think the space you leave between you and the car in front is for them.... I know, i know.... I need to move on....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    is when someone tells porky pies on public forums.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    First world problems huh?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    paint_mePossibly some would say that post is as bad as what you stated, or does the In Crowd know, btw great song by Ferry that 1

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To the person who complained about someone saying they were "busy". I do. I don't see the point in kicking a guy and saying "you're too ugly, there is no chemistry and I can't believe you have contacted me". I don't like profile that are too demanding. I can't believe people write on regular dating sites..."no players please". If someone is in fact a player would they look at that and actually not respond. It probably seems like a challenge. A gripe is that when I make paragraphs on the forum it doesn't work. Am I doing something wrong. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm fairly new, so trawling through hundreds of 'hey how are you' messages. Or 'want to have fun times with me', then there's no unlocked pictures, looks:see picture, no info blah blah. These guys really expect a reply? Do they ever get any women?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi Ladies, Just having a read and thought I would provide my perspective on the respective issues. In no particular order... 1. Women please provide correct information. VERY often information of peoples profiles in conflicting, mostly in the 'seeking' and 'age range' areas. If you have seeking Man 18-40 on your profile then have somewhere in your novel of a profile "no single guys", don't have a go at me when I message you. If you have "no single guys" at the top of your profile or somewhere before I have to place a bookmark in my reading of your profile, then I won't message you! And similarly on age ranges, so many times I see women with two different age ranges on their profile and it makes it confusing. Of course the written word always goes over and above the prefilled part at the top, but still, don't complain when we message you if you can't provide accurate information. 2. Courtesy. I believe this is covered under #7 on your list LisaisLooking. I understand your frustration there and personally I would never reply like that, I usually thank them for the reply because it is a courtesy that I find is not extended anywhere near as often as I believe it should be. It's not hard, RHP give you the tools to create a generic "thanks, but no thanks" message, be polite and reply with one sometimes! 3. Generic messages. Yes, I use them, not always, but I do. If you have been on RHP for a year and can't be bothered and keep all the generic fields and "ask me" under every other field, then if I am messaging you don't expect a customised heart-felt message, what are you giving me to go on? And even if you haven't been on for so long, you want a customised message even though we aren't looking to get married, just have a bit of fun, then give me something to go on!!! I send my generic message to start a line of communication with the person who has no picture, no words, nothing. Anyway that's my RHP vent over for a year or so I think!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It seems quite a common complaint from the ladies that they are extremely put off by a guy not showing his face, and only showing body parts. And yet do you not notice that the vast majority of female profiles do not show a face either, and are usually just boob or ass shots..? Maybe that doesn't annoy so many men? (I certainly enjoy many of those pics myself...but they always lead me to ask for a face shot fairly soon in the conversation.) Why the double-standard? You can't complain about men not showing faces unless you lead by example. And you know, when I see a face I like, it isn't because it's a ravishing supermodel airbrushed beauty. It's because a face pic shows confidence, which is sexy; it shows an attitude, which is sexy; and it shows whether you care about your appearance, which is sexy! Most of it is in your eyes. And the rest is in whether you've taken the time to make an attractive, interesting photo. I had a disappointing reaction to one conversation recently along the lines of 'I don't need to show you my face, honey, I've never been knocked back before'. Well, this arrogance may have just earned you a knock back.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    When BS eats the last TimTam but leaves the empty packet in the fridge. Oh, and he hates it when I make him lie in the wet spot K xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I hate being led on and when the moment comes to meet it's cancelled, it does annoy me a little bit. Expected to do all the work, as in starting conversations and trying to get to know someone and getting little information back. People who state they are looking for someone but then tell you they are only on here to chat. People who like twilight!!!!

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    12 years ago

    We could go on an on about these gripes in the forums, but I daresay the ones that commit these profile faux-pas aren't forum goers, otherwise they'd probably be a bit more savvy. I find the profiles with a huuuuge list of must-haves and must-not-bes get on my nerves. Sure, if you're Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, you have every right to demand perfection, but it really seems like they're chasing the impossible. Jess xx

  • playfulfunwa

    playfulfunwa

    12 years ago

    We so agree with jessica rabbit on the profiles with such a huge list of must and mustnt be's .Quite sure out there is a somewhat 1%er philosiphy lol, the self crowned elite that can ask for and only receive the "best" ; at least what the "best" being" in their linear view,And I suppose that is fine and their perogitive, though we do feel for them though,this lifestyle we have found to be liberating we chose to enter with a view to meeting others similar and disimilar to ourselves. By automatically removing people exactly meeting your idea of physical perfection you are also removing those that could be potentially be the most compatible sexually and emotionally. As a couple inviting another woman to join us is a complete afirmation of our own trust in eachother and hopefully trust in that person too. For them joining us it has to feel the same, as though for that night she is part of us..not a third wheel or plaything( although lol). For that reason we have tried in so far as we can to be open to different ages ,sizes etc, and some of the best experiences we have had have been because of it.After the first couple of times in an evening its so much more fun to be able to have a break and a few drinks and jump back into bed with someone that yiu feel connected with as opposed to the outright stunner looks only.don't think we have ever had a thresome where someone hasn't stayed the night and wanted too.if we wanted to screw a carbon copy of ourselves we could use a mirror lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Men who have their own definition of the word "single". Oh, you're separated but still living in the same house? You have an "arrangement"? NEXT! Oh, you say you're single but your better half also has a profile on here, and you're "friends". Am I that stupid? NEXT! ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That time is so cruel. That the moon is nowhere big enough to mach my expectations of a romantic night. There is not such thing as heaven. That my left nut is smaller than the right. That only crazy people are interesting. That love is so easy to find but so hard to hold. That I can never seem to guess the correct lotto numbers. Water saving shower heads. People who drive massive 4WD, live in 7 bedroom castles with central heating, and a fully stocked wine cellar, have a giant screen TV in every room, complain to me for not throwing a lowly coke can into the recycle bin. People that think drugs are dangerous. Guys with small dicks that go on and on about, its not size that matters its how you use it. What!!! you think you're the only ones that know how to fuck. Girls that go on about their no taboo's kinky side, actually mean they occasional leave the light on while they do their best starfish on barbiturates impression. Those that have to use the line, "You wont regret it." Too late I already do. Monkeys in the zoo. Those that can't understand the hint, "I'm busy." actually means "NO! not interested I would rather die of boredom, but I m too polite to tell you."

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    MonitorLizard, here's the scenario: You read my profile. You like my profile. My profile pic is not of my face. Your profile pic is not of your face. You send me a message saying "Hi". Your profile either has zero further photos or you don't give me access not your face shot in your PG. That's the gripe. If you initiate contact, include a face shot from the get-go.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'BS_KS' When BS eats the last TimTam but leaves the empty packet in the fridge. Oh, and he hates it when I make him lie in the wet spot K xx - Posted from rhpmobile but in my case its the magnum ice cream. I don't let any of my friends near the fridge now

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Love your work! Totally agree (except the left/right nut bit). It also pisses me off when people tell me how to use this website or how to behave or assume they know what I want and what I'm going to find from being here.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Apparently, If a bloke only has an average to small cock, it is well worth his while being good with his hands or mouth or something good, if he hasn't got a big cock she may want. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The largest sex organ is the brain, you seem to have an above average sized one so doubt you would every have any problems in the bedroom.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Tara just pointed out your a arse, while I was pointing out her arse, my arse is sitting in a nice comfortable large single seat sofa. Sink nicely into it. I am layed back, keyboard resting on a cushion on my stomach, mouse and pad (mouse pad) if not buff on the old computers he he. Just finished work, and for the visuals , laid back looking slightly up to the monitor in my big soft cushion, single lounge comfy for single things to the left of me.... and single things to the right, keyboard snug ,cushioned at centre body, just right incline, to have elbows resting on lounge each side to me, palms of hands neatly resting on the typewriter, tapping this tune out. which brings to mind a peeve I have and it does not seem to warrant a matter worth to it from Tara's point of view. Which brings a further part for the peeve, the perk of a peeve. The actual peeve is to the visuals above not is pending to next. I did not have the right light for this comfortable played back cruisin with you feel. No feel no story, no story what strengths of the meanings. Small talk has it's meanings, more is less sort of insights. A classic example, and reason for pulling an ace out of the deck is consistency and age to times a fine artist to celebrate, that being DG and Mesmerised. Rude it would be to say she when it comes to he, The lady has been given proper title therefore a little swoosh to the stroke with grammer, her (she) Mesmerised perk for her peeve, maybe pending to this thread, though we have had the pleasures occasional yet the intensities recieved are orgasmic to the person, and a little intense to hold any particular thought other than the intimate intensions one can have with themselves, which indeed gives reason to have a meaningful orgasmic vission. we own our vissions and "don't use it you lose it". as said to the categories entail to Wanking or er's. To the Vissions, DG and his weight fully lite, vernacular loaded with reason and riddled for intent. his lttle puffs of gold dust to shower Mesmerised and intented to the riddle be relected upon and become to the oposing vission to she to both vissions loaded to target he (she) Mesmerised to the perks from peeve to the form of returned venacular's (confidant context) the peeve of her to him is utters with passion sang from the roof tops to the lovers ( for the love of wankers) A pussy twinge, is a perk of the considerate author of tossing out some notations as pussy twinging notions, and it happens all the time. Well my peeve is Tara climbing all over me while writing this, as she (Tara) sets a much better (hindsight) light stand behind my little cosy lounge layed back and slightly looking up and at towards the monitor, in this instance, your arse we had been looking at, while Tara was (my perk for peeve) climbing and bending even some leaning with stretch. wearing a fitting little cotton thigh high knockover dress. ( note was there a mention of uderware?) So here is the thing Blindman. laying back and while looking at your arse a perk of a peeve gave the sex while we fuck tonight to the fantasies (led to realities of meaning for fantasy) because as I tapped out the lightest parrididdles accented with a double stroke to the clitorus on the sixteent beat. seems to twinge tara's nice cosy little spot as we wondered at the fantasy and Tara said hmmmmmmm as she pointed at your arse, while I was telling her (Tara) That she has the best of both worlds. A nice cock perfect for her (Tara's) pussy and a little later your arse is going to be at the expense of us fucking to the thought's with it, and the big cock. The brain thing comes to mind when purchasing and proud to they.( Who gives a fuck who are they anyway sorts of they) A dirty purple pussy beater ribbed and dragonised perfect fitting penis extension!!! you are right she her (Tara likes it, when I fuck her with it she loves it) other times she her not the other Tara occasionally dirty fucker pussy bashing dirty girl. drive a bus into her pussy those times. hope you enjoy the thouhhts Blindman. But tonight we all will be famous for the perks to being other times part of those things that and with others those, can call a thing. It's a thing for DG and Mesmerised as well. Less is more, he uses it all the time because he gets results., typically DG would leave thins at that. Memerised can't help for the perks, and layed back is DG when she (her) Mesmerised has an involuntary pussy twinge, all of them Mes's voluntarily murmur an acknowledgement and who seems to smile at the pleasure of a pussy twinge and context to what owns the art. If you ever for the journey to "a" taken to meet the Guru. Drink it and close your eyes Blindman, it's a thing. "a" once and the only life experience for the meaning of meanings from the Meaning.....nothing but a very meaningful journey and to how spectacular can truly be when searching to to the meanings. The meaning it's elf just that meaning But the Guru. Nothing close to begin considering, larger than life. and I am one of many who have been taken to meet the Guru. The story won't be different, just the same every time with every one. No one to it matters, it wasn't meant to. Riffing Blind man, an open and truly adventurous brain, the mind is within the sprit in us. that's a thing. We shall drift in and admire your beautiful arse soon.Though Tara (we) would rather play with your cock, and smack your arse, I would be expected to fuck hers. The rest hasn't happened so only what we know to know means anything. That know is only meaning our spirits are one, for the introductions and we behave. The rest is covered respectfully. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Mado what annoys me is the way you high light others behaviour on the forums like that. If you did that to me I would be pretty peeved. What are you even trying to say? That was a rhetorical question by the way. My biggest gripe is people writing a book whenever they answer. I for one rarely read them. To me short and concise is much better.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Totally agree! I don't have the time or patience to read War & Peace answers. And besides, 99% of the time I have no idea what Mado is saying, so I don't even try to comprehend it any more! Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Totally agree! I don't have the time or patience to read War & Peace answers. And besides, 99% of the time I have no idea what Mado is saying, so I don't even try to comprehend it any more! Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' Small talk has it's meanings, more is less sort of insights. A classic example, and reason for pulling an ace out of the deck is consistency and age to times a fine artist to celebrate, that being DG and Mesmerised. Rude it would be to say she when it comes to he, The lady has been given proper title therefore a little swoosh to the stroke with grammer, her (she) Mesmerised perk for her peeve, maybe pending to this thread, though we have had the pleasures occasional yet the intensities recieved are orgasmic to the person, and a little intense to hold any particular thought other than the intimate intensions one can have with themselves, which indeed gives reason to have a meaningful orgasmic vission. we own our vissions and "don't use it you lose it". as said to the categories entail to Wanking or er's. To the Vissions, DG and his weight fully lite, vernacular loaded with reason and riddled for intent. his lttle puffs of gold dust to shower Mesmerised and intented to the riddle be relected upon and become to the oposing vission to she to both vissions loaded to target he (she) Mesmerised to the perks from peeve to the form of returned venacular's (confidant context) the peeve of her to him is utters with passion sang from the roof tops to the lovers ( for the love of wankers) But tonight we all will be famous for the perks to being other times part of those things that and with others those, can call a thing. It's a thing for DG and Mesmerised as well. Less is more, he uses it all the time because he gets results., typically DG would leave thins at that. Memerised can't help for the perks, and layed back is DG when she (her) Mesmerised has an involuntary pussy twinge, all of them Mes's voluntarily murmur an acknowledgement and who seems to smile at the pleasure of a pussy twinge and context to what owns the art. I have no idea what you're trying to convey about me, but I take it as a compliment that you went through all this effort to do so. . But Meeks has a point, I'd rather be spoken to in second person then about in third.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I cannot stand people who insist on posting the same comment twice!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Me too! Drives me insane! Bloody iPad!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Being rather simple, and often suffering blood drainage from the brain when Im on here, if comments are concise I sometimes understand them....and if I read them twice it doubles my chances of comprehension

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    After reading some very long posts (I'm talking you Luckdragon and Halcyon). . Unless you're typing on an iPhone or iPad, there is no excuse for not using paragraphs! .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'lovman8' Being rather simple, and often suffering blood drainage from the brain when Im on here, if comments are concise I sometimes understand them....and if I read them twice it doubles my chances of comprehension Happy to do you the favour, Lovman8!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Pot calling the kettle black Meeka and her strap- on, perhaps. I just reckon DG and Mesmerised are in a loving relationship, and they court to each other like lovebirds. Memerised "said her pussy twinged", lots of times, when DG was around. Tell me I am wrong, for a better idea to all the romantic notions, on a love to love site where friends are welcome to the love too. Further more where is DG? Obvious , he knows it. And I am like a spoilt kiddie, plus a rivalled figure within a movement to stick it to the MAN and also a story teller, Tell me to use restraint for writing long posts, , I'll stick it up your bum, of cause for reason. hmmm Why does one bother? oh well Stick that in your funcen wagnal Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' I just reckon DG and Mesmerised are in a loving relationship, and they court to each other like lovebirds. Memerised "said her pussy twinged", lots of times, when DG was around. Tell me I am wrong You're wrong. WTF? . Mado, bring me some of those mushrooms you're brewing tea from, they must be awesome!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' I just reckon DG and Mesmerised are in a loving relationship, and they court to each other like lovebirds. Memerised "said her pussy twinged", lots of times, when DG was around. Tell me I am wrong Mado, you are way out of line with this comment. I'd be most upset if I was written about in this way. Mes, your restraint is a credit to the person that you are. You used to write such cool stuff. Funny and poignant stuff. What's happened?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think Mado has been having a crack at writing The Adventures of Zealous in Ponderland, with us as the main characters. . Good effort Mado, but it seems it's not really reaching your target audience. I too must say I prefer to hear you riff, that's where your true talent lies. .

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    I can keep up a little better now that typing the words is not such a mission. Reading and writing the words is always going to be a mission Biggest gripe? I see the people in here first, then the topics. You are all different, you are all beautiful, you are all special, you all have a natural gift that is the individual, the character and your meanings. You all and myself included at times and it appears more often than not, are not the true people that I find as the best in people, Defensive is holding all that back. Defensive is not who you are first, not why you are, and not the point. The Topics get to that. Words it seems is all important to everyone here, as many are read and have a defensive default, an automatic conceived meaning, an idea of a particular story each have given them. So it appears and has not changed that many choose to see what is written, read the words and stumble on the trigger ones that set off an automatic response, given what has been written a meaning without a thought for what and "importantly who" each the "individual person is" and means to those words. What I said that seems to have hit some triggers, given them the idea and here we are, was a compliment with some pizzang and marvel, the sexyness and class, to recognise and appreciate these gifts in people. Mesmerised and DG, truly have a gift with words, gramma and context. So I see the compliments passed to each as to why these gifts are important and "that" the effort and persistence "that" is important for each to their own "that" reason for the parts of all gifts shared. You lot seem a little defensive and have chosen to see my limited knowledge of constructive words and the gramma, as a form of insult. that peeves me, I do it myself and conclude it is the nature in the air during those moments that everyone is all a little defensive first, and meaning to it is that defensive is about someone else. They (someone else) have dicided how you see who that person writing the words is. If and when you meet me, you will see that it is you the person and to what gifts are sought to find the best in you, no defensive precursors for to entertain the thoughts I would disrespect and have you feeling defensive, more it to be encouraging. So again these two lovebirds, I see that confidence and the meanings and respect the acknowledgements. The best in people. Yes I will write dribble, yes I am not gifted with everything. I only am gifted to see meanings and there is always a meaning to what I write, those who do not see it, will one day, the dribble means nothing much, just good typing practice and learning this reason of some gifts I see reason to have a go. Cheer up, I am a friend and you have a gift I will see. Shudup paint me, different canvases, different ideas, awesome people you all are. It be a body of work, nothing so simple to people, though they are. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' I just reckon DG and Mesmerised are in a loving relationship, and they court to each other like lovebirds. Memerised "said her pussy twinged", lots of times, when DG was around. Quoting 'madotara69'You lot seem a little defensive and have chosen to see my limited knowledge of constructive words and the gramma, as a form of insult. (...) So again these two lovebirds, I see that confidence and the meanings and respect the acknowledgements. The best in people. Saying DG and I are love birds and that my pussy twinges when he is around has nothing to do with a limited use of constructive words or grammar. I know you mean well, but I'm not really liking this anymore.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    I am truly, and if yo are offended then I am wrong. I have read wrong, and believed pussy twinge meant things you like and agree to. Not the sexual side as a physical meaning, and sure you would know the word that describes the difference. I stumble with that. Please see it as a harmless suggestion, only to the persons not to do with sex, other than what has been said many times the beauty of peoples minds. I would never intentionally express you to any as an object. It is an expression mistaken in it's context. I miss at the moment, the words of context to what context means, it is getting me into trouble again. I apologise to something I am not fully understanding why. I will think and understand in good time. Please accept this as a misunderstanding with best intentions.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    lovebirds was meant as love for the words, to show the gamma as you and context DG. nothing of a sexual sort. It was to show how the two compliment each other yet completely differant. The individuals that find comfort for thier meanings to be recognised as meaning something. I don't really think you are in love with each other, just what your passions are. You two have passions for the use of words and their meanings and compliment each other to give it meaning. Together throughout the time in the forums, I have learnt more from the shots you and DG have fired ocross the room as a combination of two meanings that come together for understang many more things. Your persons as persons is a privacy not for me to express. I am talking about you and the meanings of passions to language that is the compliment. Things learnt better to understand through the combination of two parts to meanings. Language birds sort of thing. Two very different things that bring some things together as common. You both have helped me on many occasions to understand differences to the reasons being something that works together. opposites attracting opposites sort of thing. Sorry it is a physical matter as the difference to this. I will not make this mistake again, be rested assure. That would make me the fool.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ok. That I will.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's a good thing that the M&G is soon. I think a few drinks are in order. Patron seems to help clear the air a bit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    All good, as long as you never ever tell my friend to shudup again, ever, ebven though I know that's not how you meant it. Deal? . Back on topic: Another gripe is ehh... hmm. That I'm lost for words. I'll get back to this after a Patron. An RHP'er got me a bottle for Christmas!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think I'll join you in having a Patron Unpleasant acidic people who never have anything nice to say really gives me the shits, and even more so when they add smiley faces

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The hell is a spiteful bippy? . Wait, I have one. Peeps using big words that I dunno.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Deal. It was meant as a cuddly sort of shudup

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My biggest gripe is people that seem to always make everything about them and take stuff too personally or say offensive stuff just for the hell of it esp here on the forums and end up ruining the whole thread for the rest of us.......just like if it was at a pub I'd say 'take it outside' If you think someone is a douche, what makes you think arguing with them will change it? Can't we all just get along, despite our differences? Puts me right off (sorry for the rant) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' After reading some very long posts (I'm talking you Luckdragon and Halcyon). . Unless you're typing on an iPhone or iPad, there is no excuse for not using paragraphs! . Believe it or not I'm a lot better at using paragraphs than I used to be!! I think I need to find out what Patron is....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    When you Pat Ron :) he's such a good boy :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Luckdragon23' I think I need to find out what Patron is.... Asked a lovely lady about this last night... apparently coffee flavoured tequila... will be tracking this down on Friday. . .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Amicus75' Asked a lovely lady about this last night... apparently coffee flavoured tequila... will be tracking this down on Friday. . . That sounds deliciously decadent!!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'paint_me' Ok. That I will. wish you would stop looking at me like that, it's freak'n me out. shudup is not even a word it's just a thing that means it's not what you are thinking. Never be rude to you. Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Having to pay for those little soy sauce single use fish at my local sushi bar! There is only so much soy sauce for half my sushi in one container.Yoshi's double view!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Nat27' My biggest gripe is people that seem to always make everything about them and take stuff too personally or say offensive stuff just for the hell of it esp here on the forums and end up ruining the whole thread for the rest of us.......just like if it was at a pub I'd say 'take it outside' If you think someone is a douche, what makes you think arguing with them will change it? Can't we all just get along, despite our differences? Puts me right off (sorry for the rant) - Posted from rhpmobile Not so much a gripe, but a slight annoyance. There is no need to apologize at all, your opinion is as valid as anyone's. Sorry is a sacred word and to over use it diminishes its healing power. As for your question. Can't we all just get along... I would love to say yes, but humanity has been struggling with that since we climbed out of the trees. Debate is healthy, differences also and personally with out a little friction to keep us on our toes we would be just domesticated contentment, happy to stagnate, and easy to be lead.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So many people look familiar and yet I can't remember who anyone was or whether I've met them or talked to them. Bad form on my part, I know, but I have a memory like an overstimulated retrograde amnesiac

  • ontheflipside

    ontheflipside

    12 years ago

    The O.P. is a deliberate post to start a shit fight, congrats it has succeed well. Shame there is lack of moderation to stop such non-sense.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'ontheflipside'The O.P. is a deliberate post to start a shit fight, congrats it has succeed well. Shame there is lack of moderation to stop such non-sense. Must disagree with you there. The OP was a simple vent while asking other to contribute. The few unhappy faces were caused by a completely different subject which didn't relate to the OP in any way. . The mods have actually been a bit overzealous recently, it must have been all the Christmas stress. .

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    discussions lead to better understanding each other, what benefits come from saying nothing Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Much like your comment as well yeah?? :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • ontheflipside

    ontheflipside

    12 years ago

    shit.... must.....run.....away... stirred up the clicky locals with an opinion they don't like.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Come on and stir it up, little darling, stir it up Come on baby, come on and stir it up, little darling, stir it up Don't go run a long long way Stay and play wit thee That ain't no no shit fight Oh ontheflipside it's alright And you sure can stir your pot Come on and stir it up, little darling, stir it up Come on baby, come on and stir it up, little darling, stir it up (you're in the sand pit) Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It takes a lot more to stir up Stir (ha) and me. :-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Actually I'd go further by saying it's just some of us are used to baby sitting :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' Actually I'd go further by saying it's just some of us are used to baby sitting :) - Posted from rhpmobile (peering out from behind stir it's leg, giving you the tough guy intimidation look)