M35 F36

Finding a women for my husband

June 16 2020

Hi
I am interested in the idea of watching another women with my husband! I have always had a thrill for the chase and wanting someone others want too. My husband is very sexual and I have always wanted to take a step back and watch him in action. Where do you even begin to find another women we both like and trust? What if we get started and it’s a huge mistake? We have a solid trusting understanding that we love each other and have built and life and family that no one can replace but the mind plays games!

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RHP User
4 years ago
She is not a gift for your husband!
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teamaj2
4 years ago
Exploration couple -
You won’t know unless you dip your toes into those exciting waters.
It’s okay to feel apprehensive and unsure . No one knows how it will play out . It will also be different with different partners that join you .
Firstly , meeting someone you are both comfortable with - RHP is a great start . You can chat and go at whatever pace you find comfortable to you both . This is your journey and there is no right or wrong way to go about things . Talking tells you a lot about a person in regards to respect , boundaries , expectations etc etc
We find after a time , meeting for a drink in a public place to see if there is attraction mentally and physically , for us is the way to go . Personally I think there shouldn’t be any pressure on anyone for anything to happen .
You can also frequent a party or meet and greet . That is often an easier way to ease into things by socialising first and seeing if you meet someone that perhaps gives you the sense you can trust them .
As for not knowing how you will react , have boundaries in place with your husband . You can even have a safe word if you don’t want the play to proceed .
Open honest conversations with your husband prior in regards your fears and especially afterwards will see you both, I hope continue to explore further .
Good luck
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jandv
4 years ago
What a hot fantasy. One that we have carried out a few times. You have to put in your mind that sex is just sex. He obviously loves you BUT if you have any doubt and can't treat it as sex only then maybe this should stay a fantasy. If your not sure then wait until you guys are ready. Have fun.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Alright I’m in for it
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550MAL
4 years ago
I love watching my husband preform. It’s such a turn on!!
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550MAL
4 years ago
I would love to find 2 women to give my husband a full treat. It’s his fantasy.. now that would be good to watch
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2EssesExploring
4 years ago
We started our exploration for Mrs S to satiate her bi side but a few couples experiences under our belts and we have both found we love to watch each other really enjoy sex with someone else. The more the other party is into it the hotter we find it and surprisingly no jealousy!
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RHP User
4 years ago
Good luck with that.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Hi. I'm extremely interested. This exact scenario is a major fantasy of mine!
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RHP User
4 years ago
Thankyou all for your response i think i will love it ... i can be pretty lazy so this suits me 😛 what search criteria do you look at to find other women who may be interested ... we have a weekend booked at crown towers in october so would love to do a pool hang with other couples and maybe a night solely focused on hubby
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RHP User
4 years ago
Did u do it yet?
He shares me but I can’t stand the thought of sharing him.. I go all green eyed monster lol
I also don’t care if I don’t have other men. It’s not a necessity, he loves to watch and it’s a kink for him.
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Coolc72
4 years ago
Quoting 'exploration_cpl'
Thankyou all for your response i think i will love it ... i can be pretty lazy so this suits me 😛 what search criteria do you look at to find other women who may be interested ... we have a weekend booked at crown towers in october so would love to do a pool hang with other couples and maybe a night solely focused on hubby
Ask my gal I’d love to see pics texts etc of her exploits and if you’d like to watch with me mrs that’d be fun too
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RHP User
4 years ago
Maybe if your worried how it will go, do a full swap with another couple to start with and watch him with another woman while your having fun as well. This might give you an idea how you will feel watching him with another woman. If you don’t like it you can go back to enjoying the other male without having to watch him with another woman
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