M42
Tits, Arse and Legs?
April 06 2024
Are guys genuinely interested in profiles with the above as the only photos?
What's a leg or a piece of tit / butt got to do with understanding her personality and drive?
Comments
Tyler_9
17 days ago
I don’t particularly like the idea of unknown people recognising me as I head to the car park at the local shops.
Some guys will decide that’s their one chance to be noticed.
Sawadee
17 days ago
Look at the person first, if she has personality a great smile and is well groomed then she has my interest...
If she has other assets ' thats a bonus but not a requirement.. Plenty of glamours around that are that and that only..
Much prefer someone l can relax and communicate with ...
MsSuperFoxy
17 days ago
I'm sure you are aware; Men are visual creatures. Their desires are purely driven by what they see.
Yes, there is more to women than her body parts. Sadly, some (not all) males have no idea what a woman's biggest sex organ is. The key is fucking it like no tomorrow.
You'll also find there's plenty of pic collectors on here, who are solely driven by their keyboards, hands and boxes of tissues. W⚓️ers!
Ms Foxy
Kokoflamingo
17 days ago
The chat room is a good example of this, When a woman is on cam showing off nice lingerie or generally chatting, the amount of comments from guys is overwhelming. Some are appreciative but some are awful, "Get the titties out". "This is boring, lets see the vag" and much worse. ( I wouldnt repeat it on here ). These are grown men who are seemingly on there to meet women, their profiles stating they are respectful guys. But then, they make it easy for women to filter out the men you would never want to meet. As one former forum member once said, there could be a profile with a photo of a naked corpse and men would send a message. There are many, many lovely guys on here, but a few men who, frankly, are plain sleazy.
Yellowpenguins
17 days ago
Whoa 🤯 we have personalities and brains? To answer your question,I once was looking at tinder just to see what it was all about when I first heard of it. I literally set my photo to be of a basketball and got inundated with messages.
A lot simply do not care 🤷
No_probLlama68
17 days ago
What would you like to see for the profile pic? How could someone show personality or drive in a profile pic? I think many women build their profiles depending on what they are looking for, for example it may be too much effort for some to get to know someone deeply when life is generally fine the way it is, they are time-poor, and all they really need is a good scratch when they’re itchy.
A boob/leg or blurry toilet pic may reflect that.
It could also be the case that regardless of the profile pic the messages are still the same.
Flirty2020
17 days ago
Unfortunately a high % of the males on here are photo hunters. I doubt that there would be a porn industry if there were no males to fund it. This site would probably not be financially viable (for the owners) without the paying males.
Most males are attracted to photos of female body parts. It is what it is. Just like so many males on here send out unsolicited penis photos. And even more males swarm to the nude beaches in the hopes of seeing an uncovered pair of breasts or a vagina ….
😂MsSuperFoxy
17 days ago
Lol! I just got asked yesterday (in a 2nd message), if I have fucked on the motorbike I’m sitting on, in one of my profile pics. His excuse, “I’m curious”. Fuck me, what a stupid question!
MrandMrsEss
17 days ago
You would think all this access to everyone from around the globe would make finding people you're compatible with so much easier but I think more choice has just confused us and we can't make up our minds and end up chasing our own tails not the tails we should be.
Now personally, I remember starting on a new non-naughty chat site, I put up one photo of my puppy (was my world at the time) as I wasn't sure about the site. One of the first women I chatted with had a photo taken with a crap webcam that wasn't at all flattering. We hit it off from the first line and fast forward a decade and we are 2 happy little vegemites.
I think the photo based swipe culture which has come about makes it impossible to show any more than you best and often unreal side as you'll be judged in 2 seconds. I have watched friends who complain they can't find a partner while they swipe left on all but the most beautiful people stating "well I have to be attracted to them", it's just insane and unrealistic.
Also here it is hard for most to put up realistic happy snaps as it's a sex site with it's over abundant share of creeps so as Opal said, you don't want to be recognised on the street.
EarthQueen
17 days ago
I think it's 50:50 . There's a number of men who have never thought about or cared about understanding her personality and drive. They are just hoping for a one night stand or quick fuck.
Theres plenty of reasons why people can't or won't show their faces as well. Small conservative community, job, abusive ex , upstanding members of their church or just wanting privacy.
countrytouch82
17 days ago
A woman asked me if I prefer legs, breasts or thighs. Apparently my alternative suggestion was not acceptable at KFC...
Felicitous
17 days ago
I'm sure there are many men that are genuinely only interested in that.
Just as there are some women that want to be valued only for that....🤷🏻♀️
I have scantily clad pictures - but when I was actively 'looking', I'd always gravitate towards those that appreciated or resonated with the wording of my profile.
Still I'm proud of my body and haven't always felt sexy so the pictures (for me) are an extension of that.
I'll not share my face without the genuine intent of potentially meeting up. I'm a married woman and our family and friends know nothing about this world we are consensually in.
Of course there's more to women than that...
just as there is more to a man...
I feel like this is a rhetorical question!?!
nightingale8
16 days ago
A reflection of a sexually repressed culture. Go nuts, so long as it’s a secret. There are a radical few who buck the trend and live openly but usually stay in their own pocket of society, certainly not accepted in a public position or one in power. Just look at those cultures more sexually repressed than ours - those living in it don’t believe their own cultures are sexually repressed, just moral or respectful.
All said I don’t have too much a problem with the way things are.
Andrea_Sydney
16 days ago
You are seriously asking why most women don’t show their faces in the profile pics? Or you are just posting a provocative question to get a good chat going? In that case - agreed, it’s a good question to ask!
Dan Savage said if men want women to be sexually available in the same way that men are, men have to create an environment in which that is completely save to do.
The societal repercussions a woman can face if it becomes known she’s doing this here are much harsher than for men. No woman wants this info out at her workplace, in her extended family or other places. For men, in most circumstances the consequences are not that dire and don’t go beyond some chuckles.
So - to your question!
I will turn it around and ask - is there more to men than a torso? Because the vast majority of profile pics is a torso only.
The men who understand the game and understand they will have to be the ones showing their face first either have a face shot in their profile or send access to their gallery in the first message.
It is what it is.
FeistyFatty
16 days ago
You're overthinking a very simple thing.
Its a profile picture.... Designed to entice contact. Once contact is initiated, if one is inclined.... They can delve into a person's personality and what drives them...... And not everyone is interested in all that fluff anyway.
I display face pics, always have. I also expect them in return. I personally dont really care what drives a person or what their entire personality is like because I'm simply here for group sex. Initial attraction, a baseline clicking of personalities and general interest in each other etc and I'm ok with that. More meaningful friendship and connections will come later..... Or not..... Either way its not essential.
Lullah
13 days ago
Speaking of arses, it can be a real pain in one whilst doing a selfie for a profile pic.
Obi1kenietzsche
12 days ago
My default position:
A single pic (of anything in particular does not necessarily equate to a fake or scammy profile.
BUT a single pic (of anything) in CONJUNCTION with a combination of any the following:
*An age range of 18 to 99
*Only sugar dating in the seeking section
*Generic wording inserted in the general section (or nothing at all)
Well… then in my books it’s a fake or scam profile and unless proven otherwise they can go get fucked.
SexRookie4U
2 days ago
Mate that's cute but yes absolutely there is plenty about a woman that is very much separate from her image her legs her breasts her ass her face.. I'm new to this scene and I'm still finding my feet after a few weeks and I have to say my whole Outlook on sex and connecting with women has changed dramatically. I am with you in the sense that to find what it is that truly makes a woman tik in the bedroom is the real challenge. Reading her cues, having the ability to really listen to her. I mean, to be honest there's a majority of men on this site that are 1000% all about that penetration. Myself I have a deep level of respect for women in genera,l I find them to be fascinating creatures and the more I can experience with them the happier we both will be.
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