All these are great but let's face it, anyone can slap on some latex and wave a dildo around and in my books, its all a bit of a yawn!

If you really want to get your juices not just flowing again but really reconnecting, then there is only ONE SURE FIRE WAY!

Abandonment. Utter unbridled, uncompromising, submission to the moment.



A lack of sex drive with your partner comes down purely and simply to two things

Distraction and familiarity

Both learnt patterns within your brain.

So the only way to circumvent these libido lowering habits is to shut them off.

How? Completely abandon yourself to the moment. Absolutely absorb yourself in what you are doing. Unbridled and fully connected, just as you did when love was fresh.

When your brain re connects, tiredness and boredom will disappear, your humdrum routine dissolve and you will re discover you are a tiger in the bedroom.

It is really quite astounding. But it takes commitment at first.

The brain is lazy and would prefer you to believe that it needs to be stimulated by something outside of its control, rather than the truth.

Your passion is caused by you being passionate!! You are the spark that lights the fires of your own stimulation.

The great news is if you really give it your all, you will be rewarded with a whole new sexy emotional connection with your partner and the realisation that sex is only as good as you can be bothered to make it.