Interestingly I get a stack of emails from girls saying almost exactly the same thing! It baffles me that there are so many single girls desperate for men, yet so many single men desperate for women.

So what’s going on?

Well after much research I have come to the conclusion that 3 problems are causing this

1) The numbers game:-
Most guys don’t realise how many women these so called ‘ladies men’ approach to get the results they get. It may appear they have a girl in every port, but the truth is for many of them, they have simply done the maths and put themselves out there enough times to make this possible.

2) Rejection Paralysis:-
Another big problem I have found is people freezing after a little rejection and giving up. A master dater has learnt that rejection is not about them. It’s not personal. It’s simply the other person’s state of mind in that moment. If you want results, keep your focus on the prize ‘A great relationship’. Remember every ‘No’ takes you one step closer to that relationship, so literally Go For NO! Until you get the yes you want!


3) I’m too sexy for my shirt:-
Scientific studies have shown that when presented with a large number of potential mates to choose from, people become more picky. Choosing mates they have less chance of actually winning and ignoring those who might have ordinarily been a perfect match.
Online dating means you can peruse millions of people and judge them on little more than a single image.

So make sure you are not ruling out some of your best choices on the grounds of a single 2D pic. Remember a sexy, fun loving person needs to be met and interacted with in the flesh to be appreciated. So widen your search results, you may just be missing out on the love of your life.