Have I Opened Pandora's Box?

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Hi Samantha. My new lady is a widow that came from a strict sheltered background in an Asian country. I am only the second guy she has had sex with I believe her) after her late husband, who was considerably older than her, as I am.
I introduced her to a handsome young friend as a lover to let her gain some sexual experience. She agrees she loves sex and it empowers her to be made love to by two guys, one younger. I am a cougar she says.
Now she wants other experiences on RHP. With girls and couples. Always with me or her lover or as a group. It turns me on to see how desirable she is and how passionate she is with her lover, and me of course.
Have I done the right thing and is it normal? Do you know of other couples that do this.
Firstly, my hat's off to you for helping your wife to enjoy the most basic pleasures in life. There are probably many women out there who will never know how good sex can be for one reason or another, so you've done a great thing.

As for whether it's normal to let your lovely wife enjoy the pleasures of another man and possibly many other people? I think you'll find that there are many couples on RedHotPie doing exactly that and in so many different ways. The main thing is that you communicate exactly what you are happy or not happy with before you unleash the sex goddess fully.

You've already mentioned that you're turned on by seeing her desired by others and that her passions are not only for her young lover but also for you. I think that is key to ensuring that any further play with other people doesn't end negatively.

If you're completely sure of your own boundaries then perhaps you just need to set some basic rules such as making sure that your wife does not play on her own or make arrangements without telling you. Of course, if you don't mind rolling like that, then that's fine too. Cuckolding seems to be getting quite popular!

However, if you're not quite sure where your own limitations lie as yet and that you feel there probably will be a point where jealousy may enter the equation, then you just need to have a frank discussion with your wife. Let her know that you want to encourage her to experiment but everything she does is secondary to her relationship with you. If there is a point where you think your primary relationship is starting to suffer because of a third party, then you must both agree to stop.

Other than that, keep things relaxed and enjoy everything that RedHotPie can offer you.



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