Mate, you gotta try this. Get a giant sack. Lay it out somewhere you know women are often sited, then put a killer pair of Manolo Blahnik heels inside and just wait. Once a woman pounces on the heels, pull the sack up over her and Voila!
Seriously, women aren't like some North West Bream (I made that fish up I think...) that you can catch as long as I tell you where to cast your line out and which Japanese lure to buy. Some sneaky men may indeed have their similar methods but how about considering women not as a 'catch' but as a fellow human being who might actually want to do the catching herself?
Maybe you need to think about what you can do to yourself to make women want to land you in their sack? On RedHotPie at least, that starts by reading a woman's profile and working out what it is that she'd like. She doesn't need to know that you have a throbbing member that you'd like to stick in her. However, if you've been clever and picked up the snippets of information about her in a profile like the music she likes or the places she likes to hang out, you just might be able to get a foot in the door.