The hardest part really is deciding to do it. Once the fun begins you often find things that you may have thought would bother you, actually don’t, and things you wondered how to do, come quite naturally.

The trick is to let yourself go and have a giggle about the whole process.

The top 5 things to remember to ensure you have a great experience are.;

1: Thinking too hard about how you should and shouldn’t react in certain scenarios. You won't know until they occur and in most peoples experience they are never nearly as confronting as they expect.

2: Taking it all too seriously rather than just relaxing, having fun and exploring

3: Over analyzing after the event. Don’t read too much into what happens. Just because he moans in pleasure does not mean he wants to run away and have her children

4: Making up too many rules before you start. It's supposed to be fun, not a school excursion. So be flexible and treat everything moment by moment

5: Treating the 3rd party like your new best friend. Golden rule #1 is when it's over, let it be over. No calling texting or any other individual contact