Ask Samantha: Profile Clinic

Not Too Choosy??

I haven't got my girl yet. Please help me out to get at least one... I'm not choosy.

Hello Sam, I was reading what you wrote about how us guys have to work hard on the spelling and grammer in our profiles, it just a shame that the girls don't put in any effort, but then with us out numbering them 10:1 they don't really have to. But my question is this, I'm dyslexic and have a great...

How do I get an actual date?

I have been a member for at least two years now and have had no luck in dating or even meeting up for a drink with a girl
I'm at my wits end with trying to impress the girlies and I'm lucky to even get an email
Then once we start talking and i get to asking for a drink they seem hesitant and never...

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hi samatha trying to send all messages to would be sex partners however having no luck all my messages have had no response what do i have to do could you please help me on this one thanks

Eye Catching Title!

Hey Sam,
I was just wondering if the message title/subject line is helpful in snagging a potential reply from a member?
Any advice appreciated.

Is honesty the best policy?

What sort of ad is more appealing to a female? One where I say I want to f%$* everything in sight, which is the truth, or say how I want to take things slow, am caring and that sex doesn’t really matter?

Connecting with girls online

What does it take to meet people online? Is it because the competition is fierce? I consider myself a pretty cool guy but can’t land the deal in here. What am I missing? I want to know if I should really put the word out in selling myself. Don’t want to sound naff but I have better odds at the bar...

Bring out the Gimp

Please explain to us what is ’Vanilla Sex’ ?

You’ve come to the right place

Hi Sam - big question.... Is the average bloke wasting his time on dating sites? The ratio of men to women is around 6 to 1. (This is not only a feature of RHP, but all sites.) I’ve been single 3 years and exploring for 18 months, have enjoyed meeting a couple of ladies, but generally speaking...

Working that Profile

Hi Samantha I’ve been in the online dating scene for 6 months now and I have yet to meet a successful match. Many girls seem to show interest but when the time comes to try and hook up, it never works out. Could you please tell me what’s wrong? I mean is there anything I should do to my profile or...