Ask Bessie & Geoff

Gay relationship success rates

Hey, guys. Can you tell me whether the added difficulties encountered by gay couples increase the odds of them splitting up or whether it makes them work harder to stay together? It is not mere curiosity which prompt me to ask. My daughter is in a long term lesbian relationship. I'm bisexual myself...

Swinging Interest

What do u do when ur man only pays attention to you sexually if u swing?

Tips for online success

I have been a member for some time now. but have little response to my mail. not many females in my area. Is it really that dead out there..?? help

I Was Cheated On... What Now?

OK what do i do? My wife cheated on me about 10 years ago and now I find out she has been cheating again. We've been married for 18 years I have never cheated. We have 2 kids I love her but don't trust her at all. She does suffer from depretion and takes medication but it appears when she doesn't...

How Do I Increase My Pulling Power?

Hi there im new to RHP, want to meet some girls. I keep getting knocked back. What can i do to meet someone. I'm out for fun, but open to anything. Im average looking bloke with a good body. What can I do?

Ch Ch Ch Changes...

My partner never does anything he says. Ive tried for years to get him to change his bad habits but he always ends up back on the couch where he started and I end up nagging. I really don’t want to be a nag but I do want him to change for his own good and the sake of our relationship. How can I get...

Super spice!

Hi guys, what would you suggest as the one essential move when wanting to spice up a ten year marriage and flailing sex life? Dress up, tantric, toys, role play? What’s the numero uno?

Porn overload

I’ve been a fan of porn for a lot of years and to be honest I always thought it was a bit of harmless fun but these days in my own sex life, vanilla just doesn’t cover it… the crazier the stuff I watch the crazier I need to be in the bedroom before I can get really excited! Am I...

Fantasy reservations...

Hi Bessie and Geoff Q: I am a happily maried lady with a great husband and together we want to explore a fantasy I Have had for a number of years. That fantasy is to share myself with another woman and possible let my husband join in. He is quiet comfortable with this and is willing to stand on the...

Cum again...

Geoff and Bessie, with my girlfiend its always sexual fireworks ,she's a genuine firecracker but like all explosives theres a danger of it blowing up in my face. she's been trying to get me to swallow my own cum after i've ejaculated, something I've successfully avoided so far but she's getting more...