Sex Drive Issues - Two Tales

Question #1: My question is probably a common one. I have been in a new relationship for about a year and I love her dearly. We used to have great sex and quite often. Now she just doesn't want to do it any more. I have tried a few times and she says she just doesn't want to. I have asked her a lot of times as to what the problem is and she just gets angry and says she is sick of me asking...

Question#2: My wife and I have been married for 24 years and are very much in love! Unfortunately my wife has a very low sex drive, and always has! How can we improve this? We have not discussed this as a couple as I don't want to hurt her feelings. Whenever we get intimate we always end up making love, and the sex is great, but I always have to be the leader in sex. I often feel as though I am pushy? Any suggestions Sam?

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