Dogging: A Walk in the Park

I know there are a fair few exhibitionists on RHP and some very well organised communities one of them being the dogging community.   Dogging is ever increasing in popularity with all walks of life wanting a piece of the dogging pie.  What is dogging though?  For those who aren’t clued in, “dogging” is a British slang term for having sex in a public place. Usually the people involved have never met before.  Dogging can involve multiple participants and observers are encouraged. It can be argued the word dogging came from the idea of men “doggedly” spying on couples having sex outdoors in the early 1970s.  Others suggest it comes from the notion of people having sex similar to how dogs do in a public setting.  Whatever the meaning for those who have gone dogging what can usually be guaranteed is an exhilarating experience heightened by the idea of watching, being watched or even caught out.  Whether you’re a couple or a single wanting to try out this sexy and voyeuristic pastime there are a few rules and an etiquette that must be observed.  RHP has listed a few tips to make your next trip to the park, beach, car park (wherever!), a safe one full of fun times and sexy escapades.

- Be punctual. Meet up when you say you will
- If you are a couple discuss limitations with one another, a safe code word is helpful for sticky situations
- Use caution and common sense when contacting strangers
- Continue to use your RHP username to protect your identity (it will also add a little more mystery to the situation)
- Arrange to meet at spots away from unsuspecting passersby but not too far out for safety and/or convenience sake
- Don’t announce exact meet details publicly.  Ask people to contact you for further information
- Make yourself presentable and approachable
- Pack some lube to make things comfortable for your partner/s
- RHP encourages safe sex
- Keep your distance until invited
- Dogging is a legal grey area so proceed at your own risk (RHP takes no responsibility for your activities)
- Don’t block other doggers’ view/s
- Respect other people who are having fun.  Some of the sites are also used for gay men to meet up and they may have been using the location for a longer period
- Remember to clean up the general area after yourself.
- If you aren’t extremely successful on your first go don’t be discouraged there are plenty of other opportunities

Following these guidelines will help optimise your next (or first) dogging experience.  For first timers information on popular dogging locations around Australia can be obtained by posting on the RedHotPie forums about where to go.  Speak to other exhibitionists about their experiences and learn a thing or two most are friendly and happy to provide you with answers to any lingering questions.