Dating

How many times has it happened? You’ve donned your best threads and hit the town with that new hottie. You’ve navigated your way through the fumbling first date banter, negotiated the post date relocation to your house and finally, you’ve suggested you move things to the ‘other room’.

“I’ll treat you like a princess and f%$k you like a whore”. Yep. This oh-so eloquent one-liner appears to be the favourite ice breaker for a guy on here. I guess it doesn’t beat around the bush but it sure didn’t impress one female recipient who decided it warranted being reported to us. So off I investigated. As expected, this guy’s approach earned him a good number of virtual slaps in the face but surprisingly a handful of ladies were somewhat receptive to his unique (for want of a better word) charm which I found most perplexing. Maybe a bit of in-your-face sleaze is a welcomed reprieve from a boring day at the office?

The enjoyment of being in the ‘lifestyle’ is manifold and most RedHotPie couples actively engaged in swinging will no doubt agree that it is a most welcome aspect to their relationship. However, I am sure that many couples have also wondered how to maintain balance in their lives so as to ensure being involved in the lifestyle does not have to come at the expense of losing other equally important parts of our lives. Conversely, how can a busy couple ensure that they can get their share of the action and not get left behind in the ‘too busy’ bin of RHP?

A threesome consisting of two sexy girls and one very lucky guy is the ultimate fantasy for a good number of couples on RedHotPie. For some, it is the only form of fun they are looking for. Unfortunately for many, what could be the most common couple fantasy is possibly the most difficult to realise. We look at why this is the case, as well as why couples want that coveted single girl. We’ll also suggest ways to make that fantasy a reality based on the real-life experiences of RHP couples who have successfully enjoyed FFM threesomes.

We all know that RedHotPie is a great way for adventurous couples to meet other like-minded people for fun, and it’s been fantastic for the RHP Team to read about the amazing experiences many couples have had over the years. However, we do appreciate that not all couples have had as much luck as others, and indeed some have been left feeling defeated and disillusioned about the ‘scene’ that so many describe as amazing. People are then rightly or wrongly labelled as time wasters and before long, everyone ends up in a lose-lose situation which could have been avoided by taking some basic precautions. In this article, we look at those basics which are all centred around the same concept: You can only have your time wasted if you let it!

Bah Humbug! Sure that phrase was patented by the folks at Christmas Co but we’re going to licence it here for a moment. What an exclusive little club Valentines Day feels like when you’re on the outer right?!? Well this year, if you’re flying solo we wanted to give you a few tips on how to best navigate Valentines and come out with a few positives. No need to reel from bar to bar bouncing of one smooching couple to the next. This year, we’re gonna take the power back!<

Yes, yes, we know it’s a Yank holiday but we figure it’s best to look at the good things they give the world as opposed to the bad - the Jonas Brothers, line-dancing, global economic recession and such. I mean take away the children and the candy coated apples, actually keep the apple candy things… so you’ve got the candy and an excuse to dress up in some outrageous outfits, letting ever dirty, sexy, awesome whim come to fruition; and as Australia slowly embraces our own bastardized version of the holiday, more and more scintillating Halloween bashes are springing up each and every year.

Well it would appear a little jaunt to St Tropez has become firmly wedged in U2 frontman, Bono’s throat recently after some highly suspect photos surfaced showing the 48 year old rocker getting quite cosy with 19 year old holiday makers Andrea Feick and Hannah Emerson. Now these are some seriously attractive young girls, and this guy is a rock star of the highest order, sure… but 30 years? When does the gap become too great? Does it ever become to great? The late Anna Nicole-Smith may have suggested that it does not… well dear Anna, bless your soul… we think maybe it does.

Dating has changed people; no longer does a handful of roses and a little chivalry guarantee anything beyond date one. With the every expanding medium through which humans can communicate, navigating your way through a first date and onto a second has never been trickier. That problem is compounded when coming from the world of cyber-space...

Well to say Joan Sauers new book contains some explosive revelations about Australian women and their habits between the sheets would be an understatement and then some. Based on the findings of an extensive online poll, Sauer’s new book Sex Lives of Australian Women is a compelling read; a book you simply cannot put down. The statistics are amazing, the insights surprising and the commonality that runs through us all, comforting. RedHotPie took some time with author Joan Sauers to ask her a few questions about the book, the answers contained within and state of modern romance and sexuality.

As we now completely rule the online realm we’ve decided to get out there and party in the real world, that’s why you will now find a new RHP on the ground page on the site. We figured that we’d get out there and document our road trips, comps and general , RedHot fun before bring the proof home for your enjoyment; you can bet we have as much fun making it as you will watching it!

The Big Three Yes Dating has leapt to the front of Australia’s online dating scene with some hard work and more love than a Hallmark factory on Christmas Day! Now we’ve sought out Australia’s premium players on the ground to give you some of the greatest dating experiences available. Between our good friends at Fast match, Get Hitched and Arendezvous we’ve got all your dating needs covered out there in the real world. From dating workshops to networking nights to romantic getaways, the big three have ya covered…

Well to say Joan Sauers new book contains some explosive revelations about Australian women and their habits between the sheets would be an understatement and then some. Based on the findings of an extensive online poll, Sauer’s new book Sex Lives of Australian Women is a compelling read; a book you simply cannot put down. The statistics are amazing, the insights surprising and the commonality that runs through us all, comforting.

Does your workplace smell of sexual tension come office party time? Who doesn’t like an excuse to get merry anytime of the year? The cooler weather is here, so it's time to celebrate Christmas in July! Thankfully ever since a pack of Leprechaun lovers convinced an Aussie publican to hold a Yulefest party in the Blue Mountain snow fields of July 1980 we now have an excuse to get merry with the eggnog and attempt to initiate the Illicit Office Party Hookup (IOPH) under the mistletoe.

It’s a fast world we live in; damn fast. Never has there been an age such as this, and never have humans had to adapt so quickly to their surroundings. How are we growing, how are we coping and how are we relating? On what levels are we connecting with each other in a time where a smile has been replaced by emoticons and handshakes by text messaging? Well there is a fair argument to say that men and women have never been further apart and as the ancient art of speak seems to become more and more fractured with each new blogging site, the act of engaging a potential partner in real life grows harder by the day. So it’s time for some old school communication pointers, the big five for each sex. What women want to hear and just as importantly, what men want to hear...