Alternative Lifestyles

It's often said that a couple who decides to swing should always play together in a balanced way and have an equal desire and interest in the lifestyle. However, as anyone who has spent enough time in the world of swinging knows, sometimes things aren't always as clear cut as that. This isn't necessarily a detrimental thing though as long as both partners are completely honest about their feelings. It's certainly healthier to acknowledge that one partner has a bigger appetite for sex and/or swinging than to pretend there is no imbalance. A lot of people immediately feel awkward or uncomfortable at the thought of meeting a couple where one partner is more enthusiastic than the other about swinging which is only natural.

It seems that a handful of couples from the RedHotPie forums aren't having as good a time as they could be, largely due to the perceived superficiality of other couples and singles who see fit to deem them hot, or not. People being superficial? Really? Get outta here. All jokes aside, it really does seem that a lot of lovely couples are feeling disappointed, disillusioned and downright unattractive due to being rejected solely on looks. Furthermore, when you're rejected time and time again for the same reason, you can't help but feel that you've grown a second head you weren't aware of, or that our society is becoming more and more looks oriented.

Swinging and alternative sexual interactions (ie - non-vanilla, non-monogamous sex for recreation) is nothing particularly unusual these days. Did you catch the swinging reference in the Steve Carrel flick Date Night recently, for example? Yet, a pervasive theme for most swinging couples is the need for discretion. You only have to go through a handful of profiles on RedHotPie to note that the 'need to be discreet' is still the number one rule of thumb where meeting fellow swingers is concerned. Naturally, no one needs to broadcast their sexual peccadilloes to the world but how important is it for the average couple to keep things on the down-low?

We’re sadly having to say good-bye to summer once again but the colder months should pose no obstacle in you getting your kit off and getting your freak on. Yes, the idea of casting aside your warm, woolly coats and ugg boots may leave you feeling more than just a little cold but being a little imaginative with your house parties will surely get everyone raring to go.

It’s not unusual to hear about couples finding it hard to meet single girls for FMF fun but it may come as a surprise to discover that some couples are similarly having no luck in hooking up with single guys for threesomes or gang bangs. With a good number of eligible men on RedHotPie, it seems implausible that couples are being left high and dry: disillusioned that something so seemingly simple to organise falls through time and time again. We take a look at why this may be the case and look at how some of the many myths about single men may well be the reason why finding Mr Right isn’t so easy. We’ll also suggest ways to try and ensure the guy you chat up will front up.

Yes, we all know that swinging rules but here we’re talking about rules that many couples have for their swinging lifestyle. I’m sure every couple has to some extent set up some special rules when it comes to playing with other people, or has perhaps encountered people who asked you to agree to their Terms of Use before being allowed into the ir bedroom. So are rules a turn-off or do they come as a welcome relief to those who don’t want to play guessing games? Most likely it will depend on the nature of the rules and how strictly or loosely they are to be followed.

You’ve spent the best part of last year slaving away and now it’s time for a bit of rest and relaxation – or should that be sex and rejuvenation? When 59% of you told us that all you wanted for Christmas was a naughty weekend away, we couldn’t help but agree that a holiday spent exploring the sites is so much more fun when you’re also exploring each other. There are many holiday hot spots that will tickle you in all the right places but there are some that go that extra inch offering you pure pleasurable delights. Here’s RedHotPie’s pick of the best of the best.

Couples who have never tried swinging before may wonder how to actually go about it. Obviously, joining RedHotPie is the best start but what to do after then even? There seems to be two clear paths to be taken: Meeting other couples one-on-one or going to a swingers club or party. Which is the best introduction to swinging for a newbie couple? We'll take a look at the experiences of some couples, as well as the pros and cons for each pathway. Jane’s husband Rob brought up the subject of swinging after numerous sexy sessions talking about the possibility of introducing some extra people into the bedroom. Jane was filled with both trepidation and excitement at the thought, but eventually her curiosity got the better of her.

The enjoyment of being in the ‘lifestyle’ is manifold and most RedHotPie couples actively engaged in swinging will no doubt agree that it is a most welcome aspect to their relationship. However, I am sure that many couples have also wondered how to maintain balance in their lives so as to ensure being involved in the lifestyle does not have to come at the expense of losing other equally important parts of our lives. Conversely, how can a busy couple ensure that they can get their share of the action and not get left behind in the ‘too busy’ bin of RHP?

Winter has come around once again which forces us to consider if setting foot outside the cosy confines of the home is a good thing or not. Staying in is oh-so-nice but who wants to spend the next two or three months hibernating and watching your social life consist of catching up with the girls from Sex and the City over and over again? Well thanks to RHP and our great patented blueprint for fun, you can bring the sexy social scene right into your own home. Hooray! Erotic (or swingers) parties need not be something restricted to club owners or the hard-core. A naughty home party need only be an intimate affair for a select number of people and it can be in any form you wish (well, within reason!).

You’ve heard it, you’ve read it, hell - you’re living it. Thirty is the new twenty, forty is the new thirty, fifty is the new forty, and so on and so on. You see we humans are aging ever more gracefully and our rigs are holding up to the strains of modern life with increasing efficiency with the release of every new skin cream and vitamin supplement. We’re living longer and we’re living better but how is that effecting us on a sexual level? Well when you think back, society has always relegated sex and sexuality to the realm of society’s young folk. Our sexual iconography has always worshipped at the young, tight altars of firm flesh but in today’s ‘get some’ world everyone is coming to the party sans inhibitions!

It’s a crazy time we’re living in friends, and in such uncertain straights we must be ever vigilant; we must be, at any stage, ready to fight for our right… our right to party! Now, we’re thrilled to report on the launch of The Australian Sex Party, another great initiative from the good people at EROS. Kicking off the party at Melbourne Sexpo with great aplomb and some serious skin, the Australian Sex peeps laid out a charter for reform that will protect our bedrooms for years to come. Wanting to know more, RedHotPie sat down with Fiona Patten, one of the main players in the party. In an extremely informative chat, Fiona described the party’s background and the role she sees their playing in Australian politics.

Oh it’s real people, come Saturday October 4, Queensland will rocking the adult fun like never before. Whether you’re in Brisbane or down on the Gold Coast, you’re in for the night of your life. In the capital, our good friends at Couples International are throwing their “Back to School” bash. After their recent council approval, making them the first and only fully recognized swingers club, CI will be treating their guests to a night of wild debauchery to say thank you for the support over the last couple of years. It’s going to be wild, it’s going to be hot and it’s going to be unforgettable. If you’re looking to party on the Gold Coast, Inner-circle, Australia’s hottest lifestyle collective will be hosting Glamorous, a smoldering inferno of beautiful party people intent on achieving physical nirvana with a little help from their friends. Not only will this highly prestigious gathering take sexy to new heights, it’s completely free! That’s right, no entry charge what so ever, h

Over 50 of Brisbane’s sexiest couples came out to play on Saturday night, 2nd of August when Brisbane Inner Circle rolled out the red carpet to their ‘Wintimate’ party in a VIP location. With the dress code as “super sexy”, the classy crowd kicked the night off with cocktails and canapés and quickly moved onto flirting and frolicking mode. With the sexual energy induced, the crowd moved onto the hot after party at Couples International Club. Rumours have surfaced that some then had their own after, after party in a luxury apartment location where things got very naked and naughty. For all the hot party action around Australia for you sexy RedHotPie members click here.

With her all-American good looks, her conservative childhood and an insatiable desire for education and music, Bobbi Starr is one well-rounded young lady. With a Bachelors degree in Music Performance and a year of pre-med under her belt, the accolades she is proud to boast about today is her Fans of Adult Media and Entertainment (F.A.M.E) nominations for Favourite Anal Starlet and Favourite Oral Starlet. This saucy minx is not your average porn star, drawn to the world of adult entertainment by her constant craving for sex, creativity and new experiences, Ms Starr loves to be bound and gagged while the cameras are rolling and enjoys playing the oboe and studying to become a gynecologist in her down time.