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Jul 22, 2012
brissiebloke13
hey just wondering is it just me or soes everyone never get replies to messages? It's just one of them annoying thing I guess but I don't even get thanks but no thanks responses. Am I right to think people just think its easier to not reply then to risk offending someone?
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feloniusfossil

Par for the course

Sometimes I don't reply straight away or sometimes ever

if I smell a rat, especially if it's a flirt.


Funny story, I had a flirt from a woman last night, who coincidentally

lives on the other side of the country, me being me i'm never in any mad

rush to answer correspondence. So a little while later another Flirt, same woman,

eventually I thought well I better reply, but found I had been blocked....lol


My aren't people impatient!....bullet dodged I'm thinking.


Ah women...gotta love em.



Cheers Felonius

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willow11

happy with my strikerate

I've had a reply to 89% of my messages - good strikerate and thanks to the women who replied
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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

Have a look at the "Can we be TOO blunt?" thread

...and then say to yourself, "Ehh, could be worse."
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50zcool

Replies, or not.

Felonius that is truly bizarre, blocked for NOT replying ! Wow

BB, women just get so much mail they would need a PA to answer them all, harden up, its just the way it is.

Don't take it personally.

Often a reply just encourages another response even if the reply was fuck off hairy legs !

So they don't.
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brissiebloke13

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don't get me wrong 50zcool I'm not taking it personally I'm just asking out of curiousity
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fletch19680

I hear you

I feel the same way. You send messages which you can only do as a paying member and to not have a response be it pos or neg is a pain in the butt. I would appreciate some response. If I can make the effort surely they can too. Is it too much to ask for?
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xFunlovingx   Woman 52yrs

Said this before...

I really think that RHP should try and get in box on a persons profile to let you know how many flirts and messages they reply to...a percentage rate. Then all you paying members can see if it is worth messaging/flirting that person or not!

.

When us females first join we do get inundated...but then it tapers off!  No excuse not to reply unless you have not read their profile at all and you don't match what they are looking for. I have heard of females on here that are only looking for other females and have plastered all over their profile NO GUYS and same with couples...but yet they still get many messages. So first I would check that you match what they are looking for. Good luck in your search.

Hugs...xFunlovingx

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tuscanred  

Woman 60yrs

I do my best

 

But some days you just look in your in box and sigh, that little sucker fills up all the time.

I do try to flirt back with a I am only window shopping and hope that’s enough.

Messages, I do reply to but sometimes that just engages a person and then they keep coming even when you say thank you but no.

If I have messages spare for that day I will respond to a flirt with a message.

but last one I sent

I said no thanks hon your not what I am looking for

reply: how about you just suck my cock and then I will fuck your arse hard.

yes I wrote back

Thank you for that very tempting offer but right now my piles are spilling out like a huge bunch of grapes. But I heard you dick is needle thin so maybe give it a go, as I may not feel it anyway. I would be happy to suck your cock, but my recent bout of leprosy has made it a bit difficult at the moment. I cant even whistle anymore.  Looking forward to meeting you.

The rest he sent I ignored.



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tuscanred  

Woman 60yrs

I need to proof read!

But some days you just look in your in box and sigh, that little sucker fills up all the time.

 

my IN box that is, ohh bugga thats even worse

my email in box!

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Hanna_ybbn   Woman 40yrs

To Answer your question....

When you get at minimum 10 emails a day all stating 'Wanna Fuck' you get a bit over the whole email thing.
Polite refusal often leads to a bad place.
RHP is not my priority in life.

Also, just throwing this in the mix;
From my personal experience, as someone who frequents the chatroom, I've gotten to know and build rapport with people there over time. Those who've taken a little time to get to know me and then send a message will always get a reply.

Because of what my profile states; I'm very selective about whom I communicate with - to be perfectly blunt.

I'm not here for a casual fuck yet find that the bulk of email rec'd is request for exactly that!

Rudeness usually begins with the opening message boys and girls  - think about it 

Hanna xx
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MissSarahCurious   Woman 34yrs

Are they online when you message them?

If you took a look at the little bit on their profile that says when they were last on, was it a long time ago?

Are you writing anything worth replying to? or just a 'hi how are you?'
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Grabby

Another tip

Is to go into your 'sent' messages to just check that it's even been read yet. As the others have said, girls get many unwarranted msgs on a daily basis here, from People that meet none of their own search criteria, should they even bother to reply when their own wishes have been already disregarded before the first meet? It tells them all they need to know . If more men thought of their first contact as the only chance they would get to engage the woman , a lot more mail would be responded to. The first is the MOST important, and I can't believe we still have to remind the boys of this :/
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Bratzilla   Woman 36yrs

Why no grammar? Why no punctuation? Why no spellcheck?

As for "If I can make the effort surely they can too?" I figured that when I was a paying member (which has covered most of my time here), I was as entitled to ignore people as they were entitled to message me. As a non-paying, forum-posting, clearly-not-interested-for-them-wot-can-read member, I feel fully justified in taking the "if you'd bothered to read it, you wouldn't have 'wasted' your message" stance. This probably covers 95% of non-responses, btw. The other 5% can best be described by this choice quote: "You messaged me? I'm so sorry, I fell asleep counting sheep." (note, for those too 'special' to translate that themselves: read one 'hi how r u", read them all)
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It's nothing to do with offense..

You just managed to message someone who's bone lazy.  It's best you never got a reply.

Infact I'd like to see "Regularly Can't be arsed" as one of the profile seklection options so these folk can out them selves.. ~grins~
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trax49

Vagablonde


Vagablonde quotes,
"I was as entitled to ignore people as they were entitled to message me"
Love that 
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jennylee1903   Woman 46yrs

Some times I'm a little tardy but I try to respond to all my flirts and messages.

Still, my profile says that I'm not looking for single men and yet most of my messages and flirts come from them. I politely decline and usually get a return message thanking me for being polite. I guess they just keep trying on the off chance that they might be the special one that makes me change my requirements. As long as they're not offensive about it I don't mind them trying but I really don't have any need of a single male.
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tuscanred  

Woman 60yrs

ohh my god love it

Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'
You just managed to message someone who's bone lazy.  It's best you never got a reply.

Infact I'd like to see "Regularly Can't be arsed" as one of the profile seklection options so these folk can out them selves.. ~grins~


What a good idea you sexy beast.

My template:

 

Sorry cant be fucked to reply to you, Reasons are working, cleaning, study, kids, walking dog, looking after partners needs, painting, going to coffee with the girls, paying bills, reading, volunteer work, writing my novel,cooking and then fucking my brains out every chance I get with guys that are my match on RHP. Photographing naked people or fucking people all day.

 

But thanks anyway you hot stud, please message me as much as you like dispite the fact we do not match up and no I do not want your cock in my arse today cause the bloody broome is up there as I sweep the floors and do the dishes at the same time.

 

God I get a cranky bitch in winter! its the BEAR in me

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xFunlovingx   Woman 52yrs

Bwahahahahahahahaha....

Quoting 'tuscanred'
Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'
You just managed to message someone who's bone lazy.  It's best you never got a reply.

Infact I'd like to see "Regularly Can't be arsed" as one of the profile seklection options so these folk can out them selves.. ~grins~


What a good idea you sexy beast.

My template:

 

Sorry cant be fucked to reply to you, Reasons are working, cleaning, study, kids, walking dog, looking after partners needs, painting, going to coffee with the girls, paying bills, reading, volunteer work, writing my novel,cooking and then fucking my brains out every chance I get with guys that are my match on RHP. Photographing naked people or fucking people all day.

 

But thanks anyway you hot stud, please message me as much as you like dispite the fact we do not match up and no I do not want your cock in my arse today cause the bloody broome is up there as I sweep the floors and do the dishes at the same time.

 

God I get a cranky bitch in winter! its the BEAR in me

No wonder you are cranky if you have all of bloody Broome up your arse! Classic typo!

Hugs...xFunlovingx

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brissiebloke13

thanks

Thanks for all the responses, tuscanred your a crack up haha :). But i can say my messages are more then just hi how are you? or wanna fuck? I do use a template message that I have written that introduces myself and is polite i feel and i only message people who are looking for me. I respect what people are looking for and don't really see it worth it wasting my messages if they aren't looking for me.
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tuscanred  

Woman 60yrs

yeah you got me fun luvin

As I pressed the send button a nooooooooooo escaped my lips

when I saw the spelling

but hey

 

I am sure there are some guys in Broome who want to stick something up my virgin arse!

 

 

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