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Jun 22, 2012
here4fun71   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 42yrs
Right you have chatted ,met up for a coffee and all is great everyone is keen to play so you meet up for a drink or 2 first then head back to a room and then is the scary time is who makes the first move or what s the best way to get things going just wondering what other people have done and does every one get as nervous about it as us all is good once everything is going but just wondering what others do
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50zcool

How about,

A quick round of spin the bottle ?
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Swoosh

How do a "normal"couple start things off???
It's no different.

Just do it!
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Futurenomads   Couple Man 57yrs Woman 51yrs

Tick our Box

Just another couple same age us and been together since they were 20.

No Bi stuff,

 

Only playing with each others and our own partners.

Dinner at a nice resturent, a 4 star plus apartment booked so we all know its play time.

 

After Dinner a game of strip poker, Boys vs Girls, Swap partners with stripping, but its a 4 way

card way game.

Never are two just just watchin.

 

Then ummmmmm all naked......suggestions ...some fun and hit the queen / king bed with two couples

 

ummm.....Who would like to swap partners while having sex with our own partners , if we had not allready played daisey chains and swapped. 

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luvsilver   Couple Man 41yrs Woman 43yrs

Starting the playing off

We went out for dinner with a really nice couple from here (you know who you are after reading this-lol). Had a nice meal,got on very well with them and we both found them very attractive and fun to be with.After dinner we dropped them at their hotel while we went and refuelled the car giving them and us a chance to see if we wanted to take things further.Got a text about 5 minutes later telling us to come back for a drink.We were working out the best way to get the ball rolling so to speak but that was never needed.As we walked in their room we were greeted by her on the bed naked with him naked going down on her.

Left us no choice but to join in really!!

Mr Luvsilver

 

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inspirit   Woman 49yrs

Geeze

l can't even get past coffee before they are in my clutch's... actually l don't even do coffee.

Book an apertment, i'l meet you there at 7:00 and you're cooking..I'

Love foreplay


Tell's oneself to start behaving like a respectable oldie.
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there's heaps of sexy card games or Dare type games out there....

then there's massages, porn,  If the girls are into each other, they can start of sexy dancing then rope the guys in.  One couple can take the lead with their own partners and the other two can join as they want to.

 

 

 

 

Imagination is the limit....

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eagertongue4u   Man 53yrs

Learn massage

Shiatsu massage with clothes on gets them feeling comfortable with your touch and then you can move onto Swedish massage with some scented oils where clothes are off.

Helps them to relax and gives them an excuse to get naked while also allowing casual brushing of the sexy bits to start the feelings happening and the play going.

ET xox

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funtime1205   Couple Man 33yrs Woman 31yrs

advise

Cool, easy
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abs351   Man 33yrs

go with the flow

Here4fun71; go with the flow, isnt that we we did years ago.....lol
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here4fun71   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 42yrs

true

And we have had a lot of good times since that first night we just met for a chat and a drink that developed into a lot of fun that night and a lot more since and a lot more to cum
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here4fun71   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 42yrs

more fun ways to start things off

anyone have any more ideas even some quirky ones
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Waterbabes   Couple Man 35yrs Woman 32yrs

I just take my clothes off!!

simple really, but works everytime
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we_want_to   Couple Man 42yrs Woman 41yrs

Lets jump in the spa

If everyone is keen nothing helps break the ice and get past that awkward "shall we all take our clothes off" moment better that a bottle of Champagne and the suggestion of "why don't we jump in the warm spa".  A few wandering hands under water and the fun just seems to flow. By the time it becomes obvious that dry land, or a snorkle, is required all the awkwardness seems to have melted away.
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scorpios64

love her work

Quoting 'Waterbabes'
simple really, but works everytime

Fucken Hilarious!!! Love Waterbabes work !!lmao
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2bullslooking   Couple Man 39yrs Woman 34yrs

Take the lead

Im with you Waterbabes ;)

I hate awkward moments- you know what you want and what you all came along to do- why pretend that your playing hard to get (most of the time you meet on sites like RHP where everyone is posting nude shots anyway!)....

I make it my job to get naked before anyone else has a chance to "think" about it- and things go real sweetly from there! My advice is be assertive, even if you dont think it is what you would naturally do - play a different role- you might surprise yourself !

~ Vxo

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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

Knock her on the head and drag her into the cave by her hair.

(Sorry, Cavey, but you never spoke up.)
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Otori   Couple Man 30yrs Woman 30yrs

Easy

Just say "so, how 'bout it?" Works every time :P
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realcouple4u   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 52yrs

Starting off

If the girls are Bi , quite often they start and the guys join in , presto , but in saying that just do what feels comfortable , soon you will naked and who cares how it started
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lickandsuck123   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 51yrs

Starting the play

Ha Ha cool

I like it spin the bottle;  it worked at school so hot great idea careful if it stops at a boy

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kiwifunsters   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 49yrs

Starting is easy when you all understand what you are there for.

We've found it pretty straightforward. Our first time out, we all just started to take off our outside clothes and since we were all grown ups, just kept going. I was naked first. I think it took about 2 minuts from the time we entered their hotel room. We had a real connection with the other couple, so it just felt totally natural.

 

Next time out, it was a lot slower. We sat around chatting for ages, then slowly ended up stripping each other.

 

Third time out, we met for a drink then went back to the hotel. I was sitting with the lady from the other couple and when I turned around, my wife and the other guy were stark naked and in a 69 on the floor. I guess they hit it off!

I caught up pretty quickly after that...

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