Any other guys in here that want sex but dont get any in their marriage?...and still want to respect their partner.
Possible solutions would be greatly appreciated.
Yardley
Do you mean to look for something with a guy that won't compromise your marriage?
Yardley I'm not personally married, but my honest suggestion would be if you're not getting it in the marriage, then discuss it with your wife and work out what the issue is. If you want to go outside the marriage to get it, then she probably won't be around much longer, and you possibly won't have respected her by doing it.
Seriously, work on getting it going back in the marriage, even counselling if need be. There's got to be a very good reason, don't just take the short term easy option and cheat on her. I've heard heaps of examples where a couple have been dormant, figured it out, and they go off like a cracker factory. Others have never fixed it, just cheated, and they end up breaking up in a bad situation. Work with your wife, not against her.