If a guy sent it... it isn't loaded with lots of double meanings intended for you to mull on it for hours trying to work out the depths of meaning. I use "take care" all the time... buit I guess most particularly at the end of a phone discussion to my mum!.. that is, to the people I love and care about!

Women think far too much, trying to interpret spoken words. Jeese, its no wonder so many husbands sit and watch tele, switch off their hearing aides and say "yes dear".

Which reminds me.. why did the blonde wear condoms on her ears? So she didnt get hearing aides. Meah... yeah.. probably not the funniest blonde joke. Sorry.

Stalky

i use take care all the time

iv never seen it as any sort of ending

i just want that person to be careful...as in take care

the way i see it is if they dont take care...then iv lost them

roxy xxx

Take care in my books would mean ' be well but be gone from my life'.

I don't think you read anything other than the true intent in the message.

Take care

Have a good week

Thanks for a great night

That was fukin' hot! (hehe)

....they are all just phrases that men use to show their gratitude.  In my opinion anyway.

What you perhaps wanted was confirmation that he still wants to stay in touch with you.  

Be patient...he may just need time to clear his mind and process the awesome few days you had together.

All is not lost xxminxx!

Jx

Have to agree with stalky.  Generalising of course but most of us guys dont think how something we say will be interpreted before we say it so depending what  the rest of the message said he probably just means what he says " take care".   

If he is the average type of guy he was more likely to be just thinking at the time was how good your boobs looked and judging by your profile pic what a nice ass u have.

Give it a bit of time and maybe call or have a chat online with him and then make a judgement.  Remember you had a fun weekend so he probably did too.  

Scott

Well I got a "can't wait to see you again real soon"...

Now it has been 2 days and no call or sms....And we only had a lovely 3 hr lunch and a walk around town talking getting to know each other.

So I haven't a clue what men think...lol

Hope he keeps in contact hun and knows how to be a friend.

huggies

sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Minx,

I'll share a piece of my private world with you but you MUST promise to just keep it between you and I....don't tell anyone else okay ?

I have been known to use the phrase "take care" to test the waters, to see how the guy responds.  I guess it can be a little manipulative of me.  I may just want to see if he bites or not.  If he responds with , "hope to see you soon" then I know he at least (kind of) likes me.  If he responds with "you too" then I know it was probably a fuck and leave situation with no further contact.

If a guy says "take care" to me then I will respond depending on what I thought about him.  If I'm not that interested in him I'd respond with a simple " xxx"  and that's it or a "thanks". That way the balls back in his court.

IF I like the guy I may respond with "thanx HOT ARSE... it was lots of fun...come fuck me again soon" !  I'd then follow up with a saucy photo in a day or two with a "thinking of you" message.  (I can be a little blunt at times !)

mmmm....I think I've just given away half of my Play Book ! 

Good luck,  we all play games. 

Miss Saturn

See .. now that is exactly why men and women can find it hard to communicate. With all those layers of meaning you are applying to things.. if a guy thought for a minute you were going to apply all that baggage onto every word he says.. us dudes would not have acquired the learned gift of speach. Seriously! I dont think I'll ever be able to talk to a woman again. I'm shattered! I mean, I open my mouth and words just fall out... if I have to keep guessing how many layers of meaning you will appply to them and then make sure you only interpret the one I mean.. well.. being the paranoid bugga that I am, I wouldn't be able to say a word! Life and love DOES NOT HAVE TO BE THAT DIFFICULT!... hehe.. I am because I am... there is no need to have a reason why.

Hugs

Stalky

Chick stress less, I would say.

My hubby (Mr H) uses the phrase "Take Care" all the time, generally followed by an "I Love You". Its all how you interpret it and it is 50/50 each way in your case. I dont believe Take Care is a be all end all stick it up ya bum kinda comment. I always interpret it to mean that the person wants me to take care in order for them to be able to see me again. Kind of a self preservation.

Now if he said somthing like "Catchya" or "Seeya", then I would find that to be a goodbye forever.

Fingers crossed for ya hun.

Cheers

Halo

I use it all the time,take care is a heart felt, ( I love you be carefull) my two daughters hear it from me all the time. my freinds, hear it usually followed by a big hug. (take care is just the opposite to never again) it actually means ,i want to see you again and love you so dont do anything stupid. or even my life would be empty without you, so take care.  I hope you talk to your guy soon hes probably fretting.     take care love, as life is pressious. ,