Ok I just want to throw this out there
What draws the attention of a woman or couple to
1/ click on a profile to view it
2/ engage with either a flirt or message
I have clicked on quite a few profile's of late ( and no I'm not a stalker) to find that most of the guy's on the friends lists have there shirts off and flexing so hard they may need a dipper
Is this really what people are looking for as I would like to know incase I need to rip the gear off and oil up to increase my chance's of people wanting to meet me .
PS be kind in your replies as I hate the word ugly
til ya make it,is the motto of many here....but some fake profile photos amuse me greatly.I have a particular favourite..it is actually a photo of a young British comedian ,naked except for a posing pouch and lots of oil enhancing his extreme chubbiness...
I am fascinated to know what happens when he meets women,I wonder if he wears a mask.
Just be yourself,like me, today I am channelling my inner zebra.
and er..perhaps rather than your photo , you might want to consider changing your profile name ,while it might reflect your state of being, it is sooo not original or intriguing...just my opinion.
The most attractive thing to me is a nice smile that reaches the eyes in a nice picture to draw me to their profile. When I say a nice picture, what I mean is something that doesn't have a lot of clutter or dirty dishes in the background. I know that may sound a little shallow, but I find that people who take a little pride in how they look a lot more attractive to approach and their profile picture reflects that. As for the profile, just something that says their approachable and open to just chatting, otherwise if they're after more than that it's just a waste of both of our time. So the profile does need to reflect that, if we were to strike up conversation, I wouldn't be wasting his time by not wanting anything more than a little chat and maybe a frolick in here (the forums). A sense of humour gets me without fail every time.
Put offs: a tage line that says "horny and in need of attention now"
Coodie and Freya....many thanks
thats the best laugh I've had all day!
I needed that!
We need more frivolity round these parts.
Hi! alittlehorny99:) Thanks for your Question in the Topic..
Hi! Hun.. I checked out your Profile just to make sure it wasn't just what your ID Conveyed..Unfortunately not ..It only compounded it..This is My Opinion only
1 You've shot your chances in the foot even before you Begin with your ID that word Horny ..You mentioned it again i n your Mood ..You could have said Flirty , anything but that .it would have tempered the view Women are getting of you ..
2.It's obvious you're a very active Male in your Interests..Your Mates Love it but you're not wanting sex with your Mates unless it's under Kinky stuff he!he! ....You need to show more of your sensual side Let a Woman know you'll share in an Intimate way not just fucking ..she's the Prop Cum Bucket..because that's how you come across..
3To Top it Off! Man I think you ticked every frigin empty box Going for your Interests and your Fettishes..Well that's where you go ouch!! because you shot yourself in the Foot Big Time..
You can fix it up a Bit if you want..
1 You have a nice Pic ..it shows you're open friendly smiling ..Good 1 Hun :)
2.Remove Horny.. Add a little more of what type of Women you seek so they can Relate to you..
3.For Goodness sake just stick to a Precise shorter List of your Sexual Interests /Fettishes ..You'll be able to chat with People who are Interested in you at the time you start chatting 1-1 then mention what you like or would like to try ..
In reply to your Question I enjoy a Ripped artistic Pic of a Guy but they also need to compose an Informative Profile about themselves showing Intelligence , Warped SOH ..just a Nice Guy I'd like to know more let the devil within him out to play..If the Guy doesn't have a six Pack I'm not going to kick him to the Kerb at all ..But I do suggest 1 they have a Pic.. 2 Make it something Pos; not show beer bellies as was Mentioned..
That's My Input Hun take it Improve on your Profile or not it's your Choice ..Cheers Lu :)
We like an attractive photo that tells a bit of a personal story,
maybe at the beach, or outdoors, or in a spa. Not only naked body parts and
nothing else, a cock or pussy shot just tells us that you one of 3,5 billion
people; not very individual.
The first impression I get of a guy on this site is normally their name. I have given the profile of many guys a miss purely because of what they have called themselves. It seems a lot of guys have tickets on themselves and I don't know why, but the hotter they make themselves out to be by their name, the worse they seem to be in their photo or in person. If your name suggests your a d#$khead, you may well be. It's funny but if the guy has a humourous or even a normal sounding name, I will normally give them second look.
Kye (Female of couple)
You say the most attractive thing to you is a nice smile.
Ouch, I look like a grouch in my profile pic.
I'm changing it (or adding to it) with a photo of my Nice Smile.