Hi friendly, we are new to the site and are not brain dead so derrrrr, read a profile and it is obvious who wants what from a meet. Those that want to play straight away seem to make that quite clear. Those that want to meet to see if things click also say that..... seems strange to me that a meet is organised and a no show happens....seems to support your theory on a guy pretending to be a couple.

We also have been stood up by guys over the years.  We always meet for a drink first before any play and they know this.  What we do now is once we get a phone number from them and have organised a time/place to meet, we send them a text about lunch time of the day we are meeting for them to confirm.  If we don't hear back, we don't go.

This isn't a fool-proof plan as we did this with one guy and he confirmed.  We went to the pub we were meeting him, about 10 mins before the arranged time he messaged us to say he was in a car accident and would be running about 20 mins late.  My hubby & I got ourselves a meal and waited, and waited, and waited.  As we were just finishing our meal we saw him walk in and go behind some pokie machines.  While I was sending him a text asking if he was going to be much longer, my hubby walked around to where he was sitting and read the text over his shoulder as he received it.

If we get stood up after confirmation from the guy, we now look at it that my hubby and I went out for a nice meal and didn't have to worry about doing the dishes ;)

Well im not a couple, but i would like to say, that this problem is not new to couples. Unfortunately some people on here are not as real as they say. Well I'm not going to go on, i just wanted to say I feel your pain, an wish there were more real people out there like you guys an gals !!!! I guess we just have to find the right people!

Happy hunting!

We recently had a no show that irked us both. We are still furious about it.
We had emailed for a while, organised a time, and place.
We aren't from adelaide, but our profile states this, we are only too happy to travel away and make a weekend of it.
Booked the hotel, nice Rendezvous Allegra with spa room, and had emailed her all the information. Our numbers too.
On the day, no show, or the next.
So it really did upset us that we had driven for hours, paid for the room with assumption she would stay (had separate beds) to have NO communication whatsoever from her.
Furthers my belief that out of the umpteen profiles on the site, about 5% are actually genuine. And the majority of teh genuine ones are couples, and men.

Your not alone in having anger and frustration at people who seem to only want to receive pictures and are not who they say they are.

Notimeforposers

Hi...We have been stood up a few times but normaly before we leave which does not realy bother us as we do accept some people are nervous and are reluctant to take the next step...There does seem to be a lot of guys pretending to be couples but there is not much that can be done about it and you take the good with the bad...we have only met up with 1 person from this site and it was enjoyable and our first time so we have experienced the good and the bad...There is nothing wrong with people who only want to look but they should let it be known from the start and at least you do know were you stand with them...keep looking you will find the right couple it sometimes just takes time...it may even be us...

mmmmmmmm gets frustraiting eh

 

have just read everyone's complaint on no-show's - now I am a guy seeking couples but respect the guidlines of what couples are seeking and just move on - understandably ther are all sorts on these sites - pretty much of a given but I am a bit surprised that these so calles guys can fool so many so easily - maby a phone number first and speak to both before heading off somewhere for a no-show would be a frustration saver - best of luck to all of you wonderful couples and as always - indulge your fantasies - jonathan - xx

Never got to the satge of no-shows. But I did pay for a subscription and found various peope who'd expressed interest in an exchange of flirts then never had the courtesy of responding to emails I sent. So no more subscription for me.