darling you look like a lovely guy but the fact of the matter here is that this is a swinging site. It is usually used as way to enjoy a casual encounter. Sometimes you meet a single that you can have a freindship with, and that is great. but more often than not it is one night of unbridled lust never to be seen again. Occassionally, just like in our straight "normal" lives, someone will meet there soulmate. It is rare though. I suppose what i am saying is if you are after a relationship then maybe start elsewhere because the odds are not that good for relationships here. Just sexual anonymity most of the time.  Good luck xxxxxx

well maryian when did u make it a swinging site.i thought it was 4 any preferance.im on a few sites no matter where u go they r all the same.