Hi silvereagle,

I think the single guys have got it alot harder, then for say a single woman or a couple (most women 'in couples' are bi-curious like me) and my guy is straight, so he dosn't want to be in a 3some with another man (though I'd love a mmf DP!!) so I have to respect this and he will not partake in a 3some with me and another woman (but just watch!) as we are exclusive to each other! Alot of couple don't want single guys, for some reason or another, safety maybe?

There are some hard core swingers that will take on single men, just keep looking on their profile.

Hope I answered something for you here?

Most of all get some good pics of your 'strong' points (pardon the pun!) and your face, sit back and watch it happen...enjoy and have fun, most of all!

Sex is sex be it with the same sex person or the opposite sex, so you are not being exclusive to each other. If it was not sex with someone of the same sex that what on earth are all the gays and lesbians doing??

Pardon the pun...lol

I hear ya silver! Where does one go to meet that elusive and rare

breed you speak of??

Most that want a 3sum are seeking FMF... and wont even consider MMF.  Honestly it is because the guy in the relationship is the one to dominate and doesnt want another guy there for his wife/girlfriend/partner to enjoy... but he will enjoy the another women on the scene.

Most think that if a 'single' guy was around, that the female would enjoy the guy more... and that is not the case.. and its nothing abou the male being bi/curious or tolerant...

Thats what we have found.  Most single guys are not in it for any bi play ... but its more for the female to enjoy 2 males, just like the guys who like 2 females.

There are a lot of couples out there seeking single guys .. but its just really searching for them.

Everyone has their preferences. Fact is there are a lot of women and couples on this site that already have the man so they aren't interested in meeting a single guy. That's the simple reason. Obviously you are pretty new around here and you may not have noticed that 50%+ of the female profiles are already attached. Pretty sure that their man doesn't want them meeting other single males. There are a few out there though, gotta search pretty hard for them and they are inundated with messages so don't expect much. People aren't here to make friends although they do make some in the process. If that's what you are after you will find there are far better sites available for you where the ratio of single females compared to guys is a little better, and you are not competing as much with other single females and couples for them.

If you don't already know any of them let me know and I'll give you some names of them.

90% of the time they dont turn up!  And whats in it for the male half of the couple - yes he likes to watch but  would prefer a couple or a single woman that we can both enjoy.  Single men can also be very pushy! There are some decent experienced single guys out there and I think that is what couples are looking for.

Pusscat

Well, sex is sex is all shapes and forms desserts... I mean sexual intercourse between a man and woman, to make that more clearer (sorry to have hit a nerve!)

Why did you direct your post to me?? I was only pointing out that lotusnserpent69 said in their post that they were exclusive to each other, however she apparently plays with girls, so my point was that they are not being exclusive to each other, by the mere fact that she is playing with a girl. Therefore in my opinion what they are saying about exclusivity is not valid.

I'm perfectly clear on what sex is and why would anything hit a nerve with me??

It is no that we have anything against guys, it is just our reason for saying no is the same reason you want us to say yes. It is just PERSONAL CHOICE. No one can explain it. From our personal choice we want to both get enjoyment form the other particpants. As str8 male in the pair I dont get anything out of it with a male. Wish you luck though but personal choice of others will statistically reduce your chances, But good luck hunting mate and dont give up............... I was single once and chances were few but bloody good when the opportunity arose

harden up princess .....

it sounds like your trying to get a sympathy root ..( one thing the wife will not go for in this profile )

  if your serious about trying to meet singles of couples ..put a pic up ....you have to throw your hat in the ring if you wanna ride

I enjoy MMF and on those rare ocassions when I get an invite to a MMF......I ACTUALLT TURN UP......and ON TIME!

Unfortunately I am not 30 years of age, hung like a Donkey, six foot plus with Spartan like ab's......so I don't get many invites.  Bummer.  Come to think of it if you came across a profile like what I just described you would have to wonder why he would even need to be on a site like RHP.  Mmmm......I wonder lol.

they are good fun when they turn up there are a lot of tyre kickers out there and a lot of single guys that are just looking we love to get some mfm so you dont get it that hard there is action out there for you if you look

It isn't just single guys who don't turn up. Couples, females, everyone really. I know people who orgnaise parties on a regular basis and they have trouble with all of the above not turning up