he doesn't like it..
one of you is going home pissed :)
get someone you DONT have to train...
That now he thinks he has you he just cant be bothered. He is just using you. Dpont like foreplay *snort* Right! I bet he likes it well enough when it is you giving him head though.
Like, utterly ridiculous. The statement alone: "I don't like foreplay" doesn't even make sense. "Foreplay" is not just one thing - it's a thousand possible things! That's like saying "I don't like foreign food". That's the first red flag.
Second is the medieval attitude. He sounds like a guy from a Monty Python Meaning of Life sketch!
Absolutely don't settle. This is probably one of those instances where you CAN change your fella, because good foreplay, honestly... who can say no?! How did he get that attitude in the first place?
Shame him into it - if it's not that serious between you then tell him you're doing him and any future girls he's with a big favour. If it is serious, well, tell him it's the only way it's going to stay serious. Introduce new experiences bit by bit. Tell him what to do. Most guys actually love when girls tell them what they like, because it's like cheat notes to Being a Stud 101.
Sexual compatibility is one of the bedrocks of a good relationship, in my opinion. It can survive without it, but you better have some damn good other connections to fall back on!
Agony Uncle Drift
Oh Itiswhatitis...I laughed at your post ...definitely not at you but with you cause I could have written your spiel .
I totally empathise with you as I was in the same position once...NEVER AGAIN ...and my own experience (as other posters have already pointed out) he wont change...no matter what..cause he doesnt want to..sex is suppose to be about mutual pleasure..but not everyone thinks like that..a 5 minute poke does suit some as long as they get off...and it is all about them..no matter what enticing honry promises they sms you before the meetup.
The someone in my life took up with another lady from this site...they ended a little while ago...and the lady closed her profile down...she recently reopened her profile (good for her and yes I know her so no hard feelings there) but I did have a chuckle when she wrote the following on her revamped profile.
"People who are mature enough to know their sexual needs. People who like pleasing others as well as themselves"
Made me feel a whole lot better that it wasnt just me... as Morticiaaa ritely said...NEXT.
After the guy has come is probably not the best time to state your needs!
Best to lay it on the table before you start.
You might get a much better response.
Of course the guy shouldn't need to be told, but you could be a little bit proactive too.
Cheers Felonius........communicate people communicate
yep, Bob and a healthy supply of batteries!
While you seek out a replacement lover.
Lol, You watch him scream blue murder when he gets his marching orders..and the
realization sets in just a little to late.