yes we can reply to messages

we just cant send the first one

hope that helps

roxxy...welcome to the forums

that if your actively looking you should fork out for a membership.

If you can't afford a membership how are you going to afford to show a girl a good time with a modicum of class.

Cheers Nev

I think you will find that the members reply to you because they appreciate the value of the limited number of messages we are allowed...a lot of the guests are here for a 'free ride' and have less respect.  There are also 'guests' that are tyre kicking anyway.

Just make sure your initial messages are polite, interested and not overly smutty. 

I reply to most messages, unless they are disrespectful

Good luck!

As a female guest I get one free message each week...

and I ALWAYS  respond to everyone that messages me... I believe in Karma .. it pays to be nice :)

Sassy

Only thing being a guest we can't see PG with nudity  

Sassy, I didn't know that we got one free message to send a week...Off to try that right now...

Lol I have been here for years now and never knew that.

For the Judge and Jury also, I have been a verified guest and a paying member (for a period of time)..

Sometimes the Judge & Jury are a little harsh..

xxx

Thanks Deserts, done and dusted lol..

Sorry forum got a bit snappy re the guest thing....I paid for a membership on another site which I got f....kd over by a married man...no I didn't know he was married..  Not offending any married guys here or anywhere, just not what I am looking for.  You do think although if you pay on a paying site, pple are genuine, how stupid of me.  I have met more genuine people being a guest.

I don't have to pay for a membership to have fun...although have paid one time, once only and I am glad I did...I got to truly make a friend for life during this time.

I vote if you spend alot of time on this site, rhp could record minutes/hours somehow.  Guests could accumulate rhp points, like frequent flyers and then we get to send messages using these points...I think that's a great idea rhp!!!!!!

xxx

So moving right along, very interesting post....xxx

MESSAGES ,,,,,,,,some are good some are bad others just leave me wondering ,,,,,,,,, there are so many wonderful friendly people on RHP and as a guest member (yes  i feel I am a member) the forum gives us all a chance to post our view and vent our opinion....also its gr8 for the perve on the new profiles when they appear and to see how the regs change their pics

I always reply it is just being friendly

Andy XXXXX