Hello im jensta!  I have been looking for a genuine girl, to play with my hot sexy man and me it is soooo hard to find!   My experience with couple profiles is alot of guys using couples profile but play alone, which has now made me think twice! which is not good for all u genuine couples who want a sexy adventure! Im at the stage now where i think will it ever happen???   U would think on here! A sex site, it wouldnt be this hard!    Lifes too short to wait too long!!! 

Hi fanatasy three,

It is hard to find someone to play by themselfs on here and there are some couples who are just men impersonating couples but you will find one you just have to be paitient. I have found two single ladies on here and a couple which i chat to online as well, so chin up and just hang in there you will find them soon enough.

But i will admit I to felt that way as well not very long ago but all of a sudden it just happened and kept happening.

 

So both of you chin up and just keep looking also the chat rooms are a great place to meet ppl as well.

 

Allie & Damien

Hi "fantasythree"!

I have empathy for your dilemma! Finding a play partner who is also willing to become the pointy end of a triangle or, as the French say, " menage au trois" isn't the easiest escapade on any site.

My personal thing is that I try to communicate with the female of a prospective proposal. It has been my experience (as I note from another posting) that men will happily proposition a bi-sexual female, writing that they are attempting to find the "right", willing female for (usually) their unexperienced partner and asking whether I would be happy to be present and join in if "he" was present in the room.
It's quite interesting that even the wording usually gives the "game" away.
Time and again I have found that inexperienced females ( in a menage au trois) have had little, if no bi sexual experience/experimentation.
I politely write back but will ask that the prospective female msg me with any questions/issues that she actually has. Funny, we females express ourselves in quite a different manner.

Finally, I have had "luck" on this site and have met genuine people. My suggestion is be selective, ask appropriate probing questions and ask to make (at least) telephone contact with your prospective female playmate.
All been equal, it does work out!
P.s: women 40+ are more in tune with their sexuality and will/have experienced bi sexuality. Aging is great, hang-ups seem to disappear.....

Hi fantasy threee

yes i found that the the woman tends not to b available if a couple approach me to play. I am new but have had a little bi experience. use to have a partner who went with me but he has moved on elsewhere. Havent been on my own anywere as yet.

it seems a lot of people are all talk and not much follow thru, which gets frustrating but some people like to just perve...it's as close to voyerism they will get....which is a shame.

We've got the same problem, my partner and i are finding it so immensely difficult to find a girl for me to play with who isnt just a cock tease or a lunatic. The ones that do want to hook up mysteriously can never webcam and mysteriously only have a small set of standard photos that any clown could copy paste of myspace. (hint: they have penises.)
it's almost 4am, and my partner and i have been here for hours looking for a female willing to play. I have been in long term relationships with girls before, aside normal fears like serial killers and great white sharks, we're pretty open to meeting and hanging out, seeing what happens.
we're only new to this in the sense that I only just realised how open (and willing) my partner is to me having casual female playmates, but i feel that our honesty in proclaiming our noob-ness is working against us. More experienced females tend to ignore, thinking we're just another newbie cocktease headfuck couple who wants nothing more than a quick internet masturbation; young chicks talk to us expecting us to cam and tell our life stories only to be told they dont even want to meet up for a drink(and mentions this like, 45 mins after wasted pickup lines and compliments), the rest arent in Victoria or are males.
I thought this site was supposed to help me get some freaking vag.....

they all seem to back out last minute or think u arent genuine

We too have had the same problem.  Either with single girls (who turn out to be guys with fake profiles) or can't and won't verify themselves or a combination of both.  We're still looking but not holding much hope.

It seems there are a lot of us in the same boat here!!

We have tried another site, paid for memberships, passed on msn's and emailed pics etc, only to have girls suddenly disappear. We always give out the female's msn, so the girls can chat together first. ....we offer to cam, etc to prove we are genuine and have done once before and the girl loved it, then when it came to arranging a meet up, BAM, she was gone and never heard from again.

It's given us little faith in finding a girl to play with and to be honest, we're both pretty much over all the crap, lies, bullshit, fakes and pretenders!!

we are also struggling to find a woman...

We have found the best option for a single girl is meet them not online but out there in real life. Suggestion we have found that works, go out have a fun night a look n see if she is there but also ask

if any of you are looking for a single female i would love to help you out, im genuine and wont let you down ;)

I think couples profiles should focus more on the man than the lady!