A larger woman with a greaat smile and attitude is much better than a centrefold model who shows no interest. I have been with some larger women and we had great sex, mostly because they really enjoy it.

A friend of mine worked as a receptionist at the Daily Planet. At least that’s what she told her Mum. She said that men go for all sorts... not necessarily those who are like their missus. She said big girls were very popular! My friend the receptionist used to go in for all the skinny diets but stopped once she could see the futility of it all. The men didn’t particularly care for skinny girls only so long as their boobs were big!

if I were to go to a brothel, I’d pay the extra dollar and go somewhere reputable regardless of where it was. I like both large and small women, but it comes down to the individual, how they carry themselves and how they act. Back in school days I would be more inclined to hide it, but you soon realise it doesn’t matter. paul

bring on the fat chicks i say. mwahh Rockstar

well I guess it depends on what you call big ... are we talking the rolls completely hide the belt on here jeans ... perhaps not. Rubenesque definately and anything in between. But my issue is that alot of girls get tired to easily during sex. Would you tell your mates ... some of em .. others are to juvinile and think that pamela anderson is the "perfect women"

Actuallyjust had a look at your profile ... and you carry it well .

Hey Kissable, great topic.  As a larger woman it is interesting to read the responses from the guys.  I remember reading on a swingers site in Tassie that "larger women" seem to find the swinging lifestyle appealing and when I discussed this with a friend of mine who is a lesbian, she reckons some of the horniest women she has ever been with have been larger women. You can be large and healthy and "stay the distance".  Been known to enjoy an all nighter or three. Thanks kissable for raising this topic and I agree witht eh person that said you carry it well.  Your profile is very sexy. Cheers

thanks everyone for yr honest opinions and of course for the compliments!! LOL im happy with the way i look.....not deliriously happy....but happy none the less (if anyone needs a stomach flab transplant let me know lol). personally i reckon a real skinny chick looks like a walking corpse. give me some meat any day. lol KL

Personally, I have found larger women are far more comfortable within themselves about their sexuality.  The majority of my memorable times have been with larger women. I also find them more willing to experiment and be pleasured. Definately my favourites.  As to brothels, I reckon you should always travel elsewhere, you never know who may be watching. My mates wife spotted him coming out of a local brothel one day, on her way home from work...what an idiot!!!!  It was literally down the road from home, on the main road. Talk about dumbass!!

my partener works as a receptionst at club 859 in glenhuntly .she says that mostly older men 60and up want the young size 8/10 the 30/60yr olds mostly stay with  her size 12/20 the 18/30yr olds will plck from the complete range size.my partner was asize10 ahighly sexed when we got together 17yrs ago i am now 50 she 42 sex was fast and furious over the last 5 yrs she has gone to a size 16 sex now still as excciting but more to fanitsy and fetish .she is no worse preformer carrying the extra weight,l have stayed at90kg and very well toned for my age .she is very opened minded towards sex this is why i have a site on rhp because she belives that because l make her feel so good she is prepared to share me even though l have not had any serious ladys reply ,she also knows that if i feel the lady lchoose to party with she could also being bi curious with out her coincese stoping her enjoying the trip because she feels her body is maybe diff

Hi kissablelipps As a curvy larger woman, I really appreciate you talkng about this (and although I am not interested sexually in women I love your profile and your pictures). You are a sensual gorgeous goddess. I would love to think size does not matter but it does, particularly to the younger crowd. I get a lot of attention when I am out as I am confident, sexy and make eye contact with men. But internet dating/blind dates can be difficult when they meet you. I love my lovers but I think some men should be more adventurous with their expectations... I have never had any compliants.

hmmmm, seems that there are a lot of receptionists in brothels, didnt think there was that much typing and administrative tasks to do... Now, to the questions.... 1. I would go to a brothel ( and am happy to admit that I have before), and the possibility of being recognised is not one of the factors as to where I would go. 2. It would be great to see "real" shaped women at the so called "gentlemens clubs" 3. Larger or skinny, the key to my preference is attitude. Lets face it, we are taling about customer service (and satisfaction) so for me, a smiling face and the ability to make a sentence is more important than a "perfect" barbie doll body. 4. who cares what others think, you gotta be yourself.

i do not think it should mater if they a bit over weight as long as they can keep up with a high sex drive and still fit

i don`t see women as gold diggers holly wood done most of you said sounds good but money blow away in the wind just like i could have well paying job go get marred and and next day lose all have in one hit but sad is i don`t work i live a pension so im not a hard ass i see things that are real most people think i had been treat`d harshly because i don`t work i some times dress like im well off  when they ask im honest about it now do you see the point 

just regarding the post above mine - if a guy hasn't got a job, that's fine by me, as long as he's doing something constructive with his time during the day, other than the obvious.  I can't stand the way people judge others by what they do for work - most people these days are slaves to their time, i.e., working in jobs they don't enjoy just to pay their credit card off, car, mortgage, personal loans, the list goes on.......if a man spends his time working out, doing voluntary work, or something where he's helping other and actually enjoying what he does with his time, that means a hell of a lot more to me than his money!

I haven't been to a brothel and don't think I ever will... but... I love skinny girls.. not anorexic though lol... just have no attraction to larger women what so ever

I would just like to compliment sayitlikeitis on her refreshing attitude towards a persons occupation or employment status. She is absolutely right that a lot of people are slaves to their credit cards, mortgages and car loans. Think about how many times you have seen the bumper sticker saying 'I owe, I owe its off to work I go'. Having a big ugly debt gorrilla on your back is no fun and no way to live. Personally I never wish to have a credit card again , and after viewing the Four Corners show on the US mortgage debacle I for one am going to be very careful when it comes to getting a home loan. Money should work for us, not us work for it and the money lenders. As for kissables question, it really comes down to the warmth and attitude of the person, particularly their smile which determines sexiness. Toyota

Hi all Some intersting comments. Firstly, I agree that a person is not defined by what they do, but when you go to a party, you can bet that is the first question everybody will ask (what do you do?). Our society seems to be obsessed with a quantity approch rather than a quality approach. The opposite seems to be the case with larger girls where skinny equals sexy. What do I think? Well, I do love a woman with some flesh, but what I have noticed about the bigger women I have met is the confidence they have had, and the fact that they have known what they want. Take note girls, that is really sexy. Who wants a girl that looks like a bicycle with lipstick. As for going to brothels, it is not something I have done, but I have the highest respect for working girls. There are many disabled people in our society that would live a far more lonely life without them.

It's good to see a thread whose longevity owes more to the topic than to the inability of men to see they are replying to an advert posted by a 21-year-old two years ago... :) From my limited experience (personal and anecdotal) a certain amount of distance between your safety zone and your brothel of choice is generally seen to be a good thing. Unless, of course, it's over the back fence, in which case a saw, a couple of hinges, a sliding lock, some screws and easy access to vasefuls of cut flowers will stand one in much better stead... As for "larger" women, for me, that's a little more prickly. I LOVE voluptuous women. Anyone thinner than what I would call "slender" or perhaps "willowy" is someone who I would probably say is too thin. (Although if I were pushed I'd say my use of words like slender and willowy is generous - for me, maybe not for others...) Stripping and table dancing is an arena I'd like to see curvier women in, compared to the stereotype dancers one might generally imagine. As for working girls, well, I LOVE voluptuous women. Why wouldn't I prefer to have curvier working girls? In my limited experience of working girls, I can honestly say that the larger women have always been the ones who seem most comfortable with their bodies, more confident in what they enjoy, more amenable to being pleased by their clients. That being said, along with my own personal preferences, I would pretty much guarantee I'd pick a larger working girl over a skinny one. I'm proud to run apart from the herd in my preferences for women. I moved from Sydney to Melbourne a while back and I can honestly say that I find the women of Melbourne to be far more beautiful than the women of Sydney. It has everything to do with their confidence, the way they seem to see themselves, the way they walk - it isn't in what they wear but entirely in how they wear it. Petite or plump, voluptuous siren or slender vixen, Table Eight or Fountain Gate, women in Melbourne seem to carry themselves like their the sexiest creatures on the planet. Just my observation, but it makes living in a strange new city inifinitely more enjoyable!

glad to see there are plenty of guys who enjoy us bigger girls. Wish i could find some closer to home