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Jan 27, 2011
exploringfunnow   Couple Man 56yrs Woman 51yrs
We have been asked to partake in a surprise visit...the hubby asked us if we would be prepared to surprise his wife. Apparently she has a fantasy to be tied up on a bed, and played with by a couple she has never met, talked with etc....I must admit I was titilated by the thought at first, but now, when remembering some stories folk have told me about their experiences I am wondering if anyone else would find this suspicious, or am I (Mrs) getting far too paranoid?? All advise appreciated.
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CoastFunLovers   Couple Man 51yrs Woman 50yrs

Interesting

Wouldn't go near that request with a ten foot pole here, sounds very suspicious CFL
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luvitruf   Couple Man 39yrs Woman 42yrs

don't know

I have to admit that this is also one of Mrs Ruffs fantasies, so it COULD be legit.
I would possibly go there, IF it also turns you on, BUT and this is a major BUT - stay clothed until you know that she realises there is someone else in the room, as you MAY need to bail quick.
Oh yeah, and be prepared for the "No Show" in the first place, so if you do decide to go do it, have a back up plan, just inb case things don't pan out !
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RJcouple   Couple Man 26yrs Woman 25yrs

Very strange

We got the same message, We stayed well clear of it just didn't sound right to us would be moe comfortable meating them both first and going from there.

R & J

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tyandeb   Couple Man 54yrs Woman 52yrs

no go there friend

Guys - you know us - don't do it.

legally if anything went wrong it will be a legal minefield for the handcuffing alone.

false imprisonment, assault, the list goes on.

You know we have something better for you.

T & D

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tw0plustw0   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 41yrs

Do you really need to go there

Guys,

We have been in the scene long enough to sense when things just don't appear kosher. This one could prove awkward at best and down right disasterous/dangerous at worst. Our feeling is stay away - this scenario has flies all over it. Ask yourself - Do you really need to go there ????

T & R

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exploringfunnow   Couple Man 56yrs Woman 51yrs

mmm thanks everyone

We appreciate your experience and advice. We will give it a wide berth. And thank you we will def take you all up on your offers T & R your profile photo is SUCH a tease...delicious! T & D Grays Lane is calling.....Kisses and hugs D & T
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Inspired83

Let go of inhibitions

Quit with the legal shit and just go with it.. Why has age turned everyone off! i thought the older u get the more adventurous u become!, u will not be charged with false imprisonment or assault.. the action was commenced by the females partner and as such you are only partied to an after the fact event that u were under the good will belief of being an honest situation. Just live it up and go get some fun!!
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AdventureTime   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

hmmm

sounds fun and erotic

whats the problem??

nothing better than role playing

if shes fine with it, and hes happy, your interested...go for it.

we have talked about lining up this scenario too...

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tyandeb   Couple Man 54yrs Woman 52yrs

why take on extra risk

Quoting 'Inspired83'
Quit with the legal shit and just go with it.. Why has age turned everyone off! i thought the older u get the more adventurous u become!, u will not be charged with false imprisonment or assault.. the action was commenced by the females partner and as such you are only partied to an after the fact event that u were under the good will belief of being an honest situation. Just live it up and go get some fun!!


If she was aware and OK with if I have no problems.

The problem is if she is not aware. Commencing after her partner gave permission is no defence. He cannot give permission for her and his permissin to be there in this situation does not provide you with a right to her.

If she is unaware, is confronted, especially in her home by strangers and then tied up without consent, Trust me - that is prima facia asault, false imprisonment and trespass and there have been cases similar where those who thought they were 'having a bit of fun' have had to answer some ver serious legal questions and failed to have a proper defence.

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Trukarma   Man 43yrs

a kin

sounds a bit like rape to me
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AdventureTime   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

hahahah

omg i cant believe anyone can make a sexy request into legal crap ....

if your that parinoid..maybe you better forget playing all together..

Common sence should be used in ANY situation of course, but why make up alot of stuff before you even start?

maybe leave that one for people who enjoy role playing, not quoteing laws...zzzzz

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GuyLondon34   Man 38yrs

Good rule of thumb

If its looks dodgy and smells dodgy then it is dodgy.  You should never enter into play without the prior consent of all involved.  Its just wrong otherwise.
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FannynJack   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 46yrs

Interesting

Sounds like fun.....! I think you'd feel the vibe as soon as you walked into the room.  Fanny xxx
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trent7412

Kakadu

'you'll never, never know, if you never, never go...' and 'if it feels right, run with it; if it don't then don't" are the thoughts that come to my mind.

P.S. Just wear masks! \m/
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cougargirl76

Be careful

I have had this happen to me and it turned out it wasnt what the woman wanted at all, just what the husband wanted and thought his wife would get into it.  She was really happy and excited when she thought it was just him and her when I was actually doing things to her, but when he went to her head, and I was still down low she was bucking like crazy and I put a stop to it.
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asian1stimer   Man 27yrs

Happened to me!

A guy asked me would I suprise his wife with him. She was in the shower and he picked me up and brought me to his house. I got naked and waited on the couch for her to come out, she was a bit shocked at first but really enjoyed it once we got into things! Its a real turn on.
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Ice_Fire   Couple Man 39yrs Woman 35yrs

Sounds exciting but agree tred carefully

we know a couple who did a similar thing, organized the whole thing with hubby never met her or spoke to her. her hubby told her she was going to have a surprise this particular night and that she should be ready. When our friends arrived, she asked if they were her surprise? They said yes of course and once things got going my understanding is that they all had a great time.

HOWEVER the wife did know SOMETHING and was very into it so it all ended well. I would be very careful with this one if the wife has no idea but at the end of the day go with the frame of mind that it is on offer only and if she is not going for it then call it a day and leave. She may well be all for it and there wont be an issue but if you meet her and have any doubts then get out and don't go through with it then there is no issue
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DonnaBrett   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 44yrs

Hmmm

He says it is her fantasy...so obviously she knows (you would hope?) Maybe there does need to be some phone contact between the girls prior if you are not quite sure. She doesn't have to know who you are. Probably is legit.  We did a kind of similar thing once. I  arranged with a  guy Donna didn't know to give her a mystery fuck. She was blindfolded, we went to his office, he did her without ever speaking, I filmed & photographed it....then we left without her ever seeing him until she watched the video later. Very erotic experience. As Adventuretime said....role playing can be fun!

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