what is the best way to start a convo on a site like this???? i do want to have sex like most people on here but i would like to talk and meet first at somewhere like a pub. but i have sent a few messages and have got nothing back its kinda sad cause i thought these site would have worked but i find its just like eveyother one i go on i be nice but get no reply time after time how do the woman want me to start a convo by being rude being nice gets me nowhere so why not what are everyones suggestions of what and how i should do it??????????????