having been with an (ex) wife for many years who didnt enjoy oral sex....(yes i know that's just simply WEIRD)

ive currently been enjoying rediscovering this art...and yes...it is definately is an art

contrary to popular belief....(and pls correct me if i' m wrong ladies) but the licky licky thing you see on all the porno's

simply doesnt cut it....sure, it feels good have a wet hot tongue down there licking and dipping

but ultimate its not going to get you THERE.

thru trial and error (and a tongue that has almost dropped off from fatigue)

i think ive finally mastering pussy eating 101...and that simple lesson is treat that pussy like its your own cock

they may sound weird...cause obviously they are quite different...but seriously think about what gets you off

building up that sense of anticipation as someone kisses your lips and works their way down your neck to your chest...

their hands, lips and tongue exploring every inch of your body...

SLOWLY working their way down to your inner thighs...

bites mixed in with butterfly kisses...playing and teasing

tongues exploring all the outer curves...but not her clit..not yet

actually spend some time seducing that beautiful and (prolly by now) dripping wet pussy

make her ache...make her whimper and plea for the touch of your tongue

ignore the way her hips push down, opening her pussy towards you

linger....like its one of the finest wines in the world

and then finally....dip into her deeply

and trail up to her clit to that spot...

(that moment just brought a smile to MY face)

slowly lick and tease with your tongue...

explore every little detail

and then seal your mouth around the whole area

literally like an open mouth kiss....

and begin gently sucking on her clit...pulling it up into your mouth

almost massaging it with suction....

and consistent suck her until she cum on the outside...which wont be long

slide up her and kiss her so she tastes herself

while you slide all the way inside her...filling her completely in one stroke (cause she is so damn wet)

and fuck her deeply til she cums on the inside.

hmmm...there is simply nothing, NOTHING, in the world that is better !

so i would welcome feedback...i suspect everyone is a lil different

but what really works?

im thinking suckling rather than licking is the key....comments?