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Aug 08, 2012
youngnmuscular
Girls be honest and tell me from your experience does cock size matter? I know most of ud say that its not the szie but how its used. Given that two guys can use it equally well but one is bigger than the other, whom would you prefer?
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Hellenheels  

Woman 40yrs

Unless it is ridiculously small...

No, I really don't think so at all.  If two men can use it equally well, I would be going for the guy I find most attractive, or that I have the most fun with.  Sometimes a very large one can be a pain in the arse (pun intended) as well as being so much more effort to give a headjob to etc.  Why are men so obsessed with the size of their willies?

 

 

My partner thinks that I chose one of my lovers because of the size of his appendage... nope, not even close.  First came visual attraction through his pic, then physical attraction through meeting and also emotional? attraction as he is a nice guy.  Thats my opinion anyway.

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0zboy   Man 53yrs

Obviously,,,,

Im not a girl, butttttt I rekon as long as its not too big or small its in the way the operator operates it.
IE If its on the hugeish side it may cause too much fricton and push the uterus too far up into the heart lung region.
On the flip side if its on the smallish side then it may not cause enough friction or even fail to touch both sides of the vaginal walls at the same time.
My theory with women and penis size is that the size is more of a mental/visual stimulation than a physical one, that, and or the vaginal cavity has been stretched wayy out of all proportion by age, babies and over sized dildos, you know those ones that can double as draught excluders for the bottoms of doors in the winter. :D
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emmajane172   Woman 41yrs

cock size

In your scenario, the bigger one is definitely better, but a lot of guys who are average or on the smaller side usually nake up for it with tongue nd fingers. Doesnt bother me that much as long as a guy can please doesn't matter how it is done
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PAPA_K_NANA   Couple Man 46yrs Woman 46yrs

size doesnt matter.. im sure?

last time i checked.. 2+2=4? and now im embarassed to say... i was here seeking the true answer to what mrs k always says to apease me.." its ok baby.. its how you use it that matters.. now GO AND FUCKING LEARN!!"
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Litonya   Woman 56yrs

it does and it doesnt

For me in my mind it doesnt. However because I am not the smallest and I have a big bud its not so great with a very small penis. It just doesnt reach deep enough in my vagina. Again a too big one hurts me. But the question is what can you do when you fall in love with a person and he has one or the other????? you just enjoy the person isnt it.  Cheers
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just_sin   Woman 46yrs

cock size

im going bigger   , to answer your question if they both perform the same, but having said that have had some amazing average sized ones that have just blown my mind.  oh and lets keep it different , if they were all the same it would be boring...... oh have had a small one.....about 4 inches  and he did nothing for me. nothing worse than lying there asking myself ...are we there yet
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Hesione

If I had to

choose,I would choose the one who is intelligent,funny and kind.It's not the dick,it's who is on the end of the dick.I don't want a dick with a dickx Hugs H
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heyspunk

hhhmmm...Nahp!!

It doesn't matter wat size as long as u no how to use it, Men with a wee man no how to make up for that with diff other things ;)
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You know how men are accused of thinking with their cocks?

Well for some reason I don't get, my Cock does my thinking for me when it comes to being really attracted to a woman.  I can think, "WOW, she's lovely".  An  my Cock will say "Nahh"..  I'm even more confused about it's ability to really really like someone I'm not that interested in.. 

On occasion, after arguing with it for a few weeks, I've managed to change it's mind about someone.  I was at one of these times, when the moon was still young, that this conversation occurred.

Camera pulls back, Gentle panting becomes normal breathing...
"Hun, the sex has been lovely over the last months".
"Thanks sweet. It's nice to be my self again".
"Oh hun, all that soft willy sex was still fun.  It's got nothing to do with how big you are (grins).  The best sex I've ever had was with a bloke with really tiny dick"..
"Ummm.."
"Hey hun, was that your Ego running out the door screaming?"..

Actually the last line is made up...  The stuff we blokes have to hear in the name of learning..
~sheesh~


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rnk420   Couple Man 25yrs Woman 22yrs

pretty sure it does

I think you misunderstood the question...

for the average woman I think:
anything under 4in length and 4in girth isn't going to be much fun even if the guy is a cocksmith.
anything over about 8-9in+ length and 6-7in+ girth would be a bit painful at full penetration, especially over a duration

obviously there are exceptions;
a larger woman or one with a deep / wide set vagina will obviously prefer a longer/thicker penis
vice versa
a smaller woman or one with tighter/smaller vagina/shorter pelvic floor(not sure if that's the right term) will prefer an average sized penis, much bigger will just hit the pelvic bone or something else unpleasant and can often make a girl sick

anything over 5in length and 4in girth, you are good to go. often find guys on the smaller side fuck like animals in some kind of lieu to make up for their subconscious size issue

from my research I would think the ideal penis size would be around 8in length and 6in girth - would accommodate most types of vaginas and be the most pleasurable to the average woman

just remember, the Kamasutra says its about matching yourself correctly
EQUAL

MEN
WOMEN


Hare
Deer


Bull
Mare


Horse
Elephant


 


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redjuno   Woman 42yrs

yes and no

mh... like a big one... but if the guy is nice ... does not matter.met the perfect guy... second date I discovered he was just too smalll!!! shit !!! but we have being together for two months and sex is great!!!so....
the men is not only his penis if a good lover caring and sexy and can put you in the right mood....yummy..
in the other hand , in one of my dates I went for the size... big nice one... foreplay ok, no great, then penetration and two minutes later was gone....NO GOOD
.after that he said he was going to sleep because he have to get up early...ok .. no prob.I really wanted him out of my bed ASAP.. fall sleep, and was woken up by the most horrible noise ever !!! the snoring was so freaking bad I coulnot sleep all night .
LESSON ... I rather have my small beautiful boyfriend penis, that I can have fully in my mouth and enjoy for hours and wake up  feeling refresh and happy... big smile in my face and a glow in my skin... I am getting horny now... OH YES THE TOPIC WAS ??  YES SIZE  yes and no... NOT REALLY ... not for me. play long keep it hard... thats more important...
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youngnmuscular

nice answer

nice answer hesione, but like i said given everything equal, both guys are charming, good looking and possess similar attributes. But one is average and the other guy is bigger than average. Whom would you choose? :)
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Waterbabes  

Couple Man 35yrs Woman 32yrs

To some girls yes, and to others no

and it often depends on the girl if you get my drift. Eg. If the other guy is massive, I'd choose the smaller of the two XXX
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2n2makes4  

Couple Man 41yrs Woman 36yrs

Vibrators and toys

I don't think that with the array of toys and vibrators out there that most women are picking a man based on the size of his penis i think they are looking for the physical connection and perhaps a mental one . A good pair of hands lips and tongue will bet a penis any day, truth hurts doesn't it !! Mr2n2
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youngnmuscular

nice answers

Good mixed response from everyone. Very informative....:) cheers everyone for dropping a line and expressing your view. Appreciate that. The question came to my mind when i read in an academic paper that most girls dont care about size. So thought about doing my own research here...:)
From my experience as a big guy (I know i'm big cause the threesomes or gang bangs I have been, I rarely saw someone as big as me or bigger.) My size doesn't make me a good lover. Its how I do it. Size is just a bonus. I reckon it just makes me feel good and confident about myself and entertain some girls with the view of it. But when it comes to sex I think body and mind work as one complete unit. Some guys can use it well, some guys cant.
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youngnmuscular

thanx for all the response

Good mixed response from everyone. Very informative....:) cheers everyone for dropping a line and expressing your view. Appreciate that. The question came to my mind when i read in an academic paper that most girls dont care about size. So thought about doing my own research here...:)

Don't misunderstand my question. I'm not trying to showoff or trying to say size matters and the bigger the better. I'm just trying to find out the truth from girls with experience of being with guys that are average/small and guys that are big and what they think about it. Thats all.

From my experience as a big guy (I know i'm big cause the threesomes or gang bangs I have been, I rarely saw someone as big as me or bigger.) my size doesn't make me a good lover. Its how I do it. Size is just a bonus. I reckon it just makes me feel good and confident about myself and entertain some girls with the view of it. But when it comes to sex I think body and mind work as one complete unit. Some guys can use it well, some guys cant.
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Hesione

size

It depends what sizes you are  comparing .Would I choose 7 inches over 4 inches yes,would I choose 10 inches over 7inches no.

However that is only if all other attributes are equal.....including kissing.that is more important to me than penis size.

 

x Hugs H

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youngnmuscular

lol

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Hellenheels  

Woman 40yrs

I completely agree with Hesione...

An average sized penis is just fine.  Anything ridiculously small is probably a little let down, and anything over the top can be difficult.

 

Someone else also mentioned a fine pair of hands or lips, yep, after all you can only do so much with your cock.

 

Did someone mention 4 inch girth??  Jesus, is it just me or is that a pretty fat cock?

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heywood_djablome

Girth

Depends on how the girth is measured. I believe it is supposed to be circumference, the distance around the cock back to the same spot, not the distance across (this is width).

Hope that helps those wondering on Girth.

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