Fellatio, also called fellation,[1] is oral sex performed upon the penis. It may be performed to induce orgasm and ejaculation of semen, or it can be used as foreplay prior to vaginal or anal forms of intercourse.
Fellatio is commonly referred to as a blowjob.[2] Fellatio is also sometimes referred to as "giving head" or "going down," although these terms can also both be used for cunnilingus.[3] Other terms include "sucking dick", "sucking cock", or "sucking off".
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So as far as I am concerned all the woman I have been with have give me FANTASTIC blowjobs. It is like cunilngus (licking a pussy) you have to be aware of what the other person likes and keep doing it. Once you hit the pleasure point nothing keep going!! I think more men are rubbish at cunnilngus than woman at fellatio.
ciao
Hermes
It all comes down to five things...
Real enthusiasm
No inhibitions
No gag reflexes
No teeth
One finger in my bum
Hugs
Stalky
Courses are run once a month at Club Rub. :p
True not all guys are into the old finger on the sphinkter trick! Also, not all guys have sensitive nipples, but playing with sensitive nipples while performing a BJ is also a reasonable approach.
BTW... One of her fingers in my bum while she is blowing you ~ is that ok, Rough? :p
Mr F here. Some people are just gifted at doing things like going down.....no matter whether its on a male or female. I've had some absolute knee tremblers and I've also had some that just plain sucked (couldn't resist that pun).
Its all about learning what your recipient likes and then catering specifically for it.
You must enjoy it to excel at it or you're better doing something else.
There's nothing better than being someone's guinea pig that wants to learn =)
Stay beautiful!
G'day ElleDee!
This is one generalization that I believe I can get away with....
as previously mentioned, if the blowER is passionate about the
subject at mouth, employs a combination of gentle enthusiasm
soft sucking, tantalizing tongue roll, palate control, time mgt
& genuine sensuality
then its.....
Some years ago after my wife and I went our separate ways and I got back on the dating treadmill, I was pleasently surprised at the number of women who in the heat of passion would perform oral sex on me. I really can't think of any that didn't go down on me, and I say surprised because my ex wasn't that keen and only performed when she lost a bet on some contentious issue or argument, which for me the winning prize was always a BJ. (If you ask I"ll tell you what her requested prize was).
I don't recall ever having a "bad one" at all, as all blow jobs are fantastic. However quite often the difference between a BJ and a fantastic BJ is the degree of passion and enjoyment the person puts into it, in addition as to whetherthe person likes cum on their face or in their mouth. Probably by far the best BJ exponent was a lady who sucked my cock with such lusty fervour and passion and then hungrily devoured the juices that I shot my load in record time accompanied by a very intense orgasm. A BJ from her was a life altering experience.
I still think of her and reflect back on her prowess in that department, darn well wished I'd married her (not just because of her BJ expertise either).
Anyhow in more recent times I have been complimented in my oral skills by both male and females, and I think it is the fact that I enjoy performing oral and pleasing my partner and the passion that I display is as important as technique.
And as a final answer to the last part of the original question: "is there a course out there?" Of course there is, and I am more than happy to give lessons, free of charge naturally. LOL!
Happy sucking everybody.
Interesting post, I have heard alot of guys say some women have no idea about giving a bj..
I, personally feel it is a natural and urging experience to do to my partner and love it... You have to like it or love it to do it good....
Was giving a bj to a fukbuddy once and he liked it and told me to keep going, next minute he fainted lol....spose I was good...lol...was crazy at the time but scary also...
I have never had any complaints, only enthusiastics.. I personally love giving head, it's like kissing...adore it.
Mexican Wave to BJ's oh yeah...
xx
BJ,
I want to come visit you!
In essense, enthusiasm is the key and communication, be it via "you like that?" or pleasurable groans when you do something yummy is the key, like ass play, everyone is different.
I'd argue a bad blow job is one where the giver hasn't modified behaviour to suit the recipient. It is an art, everyone is different and practice makes perfect.
For the record, I love my balls sucked, cock stocked as its sucked, tongue licking under the head, rimming and prostate massage. Finish that with looking into her eyes and you see the look of pure lust and desire and I am a done monkey!
"A blow job from an ugly person and standing on a cliff have one thing in common. Don't look down!"
lol..... Sydneyboy.. I wasnt ecpecting much response.. but at the very least I thought Jane would get a laugh out of the comment.... hehe.
Gaz