I got a wink from a man who had the word 'nursing' in his profile name. I thought to myself "that's odd, I get a man referencing his profession if he's a tradie, or a truckie or a fireman etc, but I'm surprised he would reference being a nurse" . So I was curious, and popped in to check out his profile. And whoa ... discovered a whole_new_world!!!
Men suckling and nursing on a woman's breast. Women developing routines to induce lactation so they can offer suckling men milk. And moooooore.
I was equally perplexed, horrified, intrigued ... and here's the rub ... titillated! Yes, there's my confession - reading some ANR journals and blogs I found myself tingling in all sorts of lovely places.
Apparently adult breastfeeding leads to deep, loving, nurturing intimacy between couples. I like deep, loving intimacy, so that's a drawcard. And I love my boobs - they connect to my femininity and my heart. I love men loving boobs. I love men. So you can maybe see - and I can maybe see - why ANR had a little bit of appeal when I was reading about it. Maybe? Gawd ... I don't know what to think!
Forum friends, what do YOU think?
A guy Op'd this same topic.
He was summarily ripped limb from limb by the ladies.
How times change, or is it because a fem has OP'd
While breast feeding, we discovered how erotic it was to have Mr P suck Mrs P's breast whilst having sex in the cowgirl position. This was such a big turn on for both of us and took our sex to a new level.
We think go for it, it is fun and exciting :)
On many occassion I have cradled a man in a breast feeding position while they suckle on a breast, but lactation is not for me.
It has been put forward to me in the past, going through the rituals of inducing lactation through both oral and mechanical means on a regular basis and going through all that again just doesnt do it for me. I breastfed my kids and wouldnt have had an issue if the x wanted to taste or suckle at that time, but now, many years past, I dont want to induce it to indulge in a fetish.
I personally dont enjoy that over engorged feeling or just full breasts, remember it more annoying than any eroticisim.
So for me I am happy for them to suck as much as they want, but to take it further to lactation thats just not for me. The women who enjoy it on an adult level for their partner, I admire you. It certainly does take things to a different level.
Breast feeding does not go hand in hand with sexuality in any way shape or form. Not in my ,mind! I can imagine that it would fullfill a need in some men but do I really want my sexual partner to think of me as Mummy? Nope.
I did breastfeed my babies yes. All three of them...and I dont want to think of nurturing my babies in the same way as anything sexual at all. The idea of deliberately producing milk for my man just does not do it for me. It is not the suckling part I have issues with...it is the producing of milk for him.
Maybe some people just need to grow up a little.....after all there comes a time in every baby birds life that they get kicked out of the nest...deal with it!
would this be any more unacceptable than other sexual proclivities? I have no desire to lactate again but if that is what floats ya lil' boat,why not try.I think BH you would have to find a man that you had a strong connection with and to maintain your milk supply you would have to breast feed him on a regular basis or express milk ,and wear nursing pads...I feel exhausted just writing all this.Sounds erotic in principle but not so much in the actual practice,me thinks
would this be any more unacceptable than other sexual proclivities?
And Ive read with great interest all the comments
but for me...its a nah .....................(not that Ive ever had children) and perhaps I may feel different if I was lactating and in a loving relationship....
I do enough hand holding, back patting and ego stroking for the men in my life ( and thats just my work colleagues)
So I draw the line at the whole nursing thing...endless back scratching of his back whilst watching his TV programme is about as far as I go on this one...
No thankyou...but lactating brings negative contations to mind (and those who know me know what they are) so this one is just one I could enjoy, howevere I have met people who do enjoy it.
Just like any other fetish there are people who wil say yes and others who will say no.