Bah! Turn off your morals and look at it as an added bonus. Every time there's a story on the news about 'housing affordability', 'increasing rents', 'difficulty finding rentals' or even cpi, you can discuss a rental increase.
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Although seriously, this assumes that she is 'giving' them sex, I'd prefer to think that she is not only copping free rent, but getting most of her sexual needs met too! She better enjoy it while she can, because life is only going to be a bitter disappointment from here on in.
This arrangement OP could be an amazing experience for all of you or a total disaster.It will mostly depend on what expectactions are placed on your young friend by you and your husband and how comfortable she feels.Because, basically you are the ones with most of the power in this situation.
If you both approach this with intelligence and sensitivity it could be a wonderful arrangement.I am sure you have thought of most of the potential pitfalls such as emotional attachment,sexual jealousy,economic inbalance.
I am assuming that your friend is no older than very early twenties but if she is emotionally mature and confident there is no reason why this couldn't work .
xHugs H
It teaches you always something, for me living with another culture
I am sharing my home with a 33 year old Nigerian Man, I had two in my home at one stage, one found a great job and moved away.
This one studies in Australia. No, no sex, I treat it as a business, he pays rent ,cookes his own meals and cleans his own room and bathroom, it helps me financialy and him to see what men can do without the help of women and see a different way of life, a very different one hahahah. Very big mental challenge one for him.
Many people ask me why I have no sex with him. I say, would you fuck your business???? I say no way, it would also change the dynamic on who is boss. And I am the boss of this home, my rules, sex would change this in an instant.
I like sharing with males, its great we get along very well, we both respect each others privacy.Ok the only downsite is I cant have sex in all rooms, I need to go to my bedroom when he is home, and so he too. Cheers Ellen
It could all end horribly but who could tell? Enjoy while you can. Our FWB never actually lived with us but we spent all our spare time together. The physical sie ended when she found the love of her life but she is still our very best friend.
We live in the now. Make the most of it while you can and try to prepare yourselves to part amicably when the time comes.
Had several offers from boarders.
One in particular offered me his services once a week in exchange for free rent when he fell on difficult financial times. He was so damn hot I was so tempted to take him up on the offer.
I could just see it going all pear shaped so declined. Besides my daughter and all her friends had major crushes on him.
My number one house share rule was never play with your boarders. So glad I kept to that.
Hope it all works out well and enjoy the ride while it lasts.
SFxx
Well surprise surprise
The Moral Police have been talking to the Fun Police and now they want to apply the Handbrake
Fuckem... bunch of self-righteous Tossers ..
Go for it have as much fun as you can and Gloat About it ....