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Women making the 1st move

May 29, 2008
xx_Ruby_xx   Woman 43yrs
Men, do you feel intimidated or secretly pleased when a woman makes the first move to: 1. Contact you 2. Initiate sex Kiss x
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The_Seeker   Man 37yrs

nope

More likely outwardly pleased... :)
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kristian8

1st move

I think I feel pleased to tell u the truth if a woman makes the first move,in this day and age its hard to tell what a woman is thinking.
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Verticalman

Pleased.

Well certainly not intimidated, nor secretly pleased. If a woman sees what she likes and asks for - all power to her. Very pleased :) doesn't have to be a secret. xxx V
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justforfun73   Man 38yrs

First move

Well i find it a real turn on last time a girl asked me for casual sex we eneded up married with 3 kids 14years later!!
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blue_fox   Man 36yrs

Women making the 1st move

I feel pleased. It shows the woman values you, and has the assertiveness to ask for what she wants. Kiss again.
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Discretejohn   Man 39yrs

Not so secretly pleased

It's a great turn-on when a female initiates contact. In fact my general response would be an obvious show my pleasure at such a move by a woman. More power to the women I say.
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Muppet_Slapper   Man 42yrs

1st move....

As both the initiator and receiver of first contact, and moves, I find it quite refreshing when a woman makes the first move..... About 1000 years ago, when I was but a teenager, it was considered almost unholy if a woman approached a man in a pub/club---thank God the times they have a-changed...... And as a still-current Northbridge bouncer it is often amusing to watch guys and girls doing the whole eye-contact....three-second-glances...the sometimes-hesitant, sometimes outright ballsy approaches.....the soaring highs and the shattering lows...... Naturally, rejection is of some concern but how are you gonna know your chances if you don't stick your neck out in the first place?? Happy travels all......... M_S
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Templair

Yes please make the first move

Love it when the woman makes the first move, I find it sexy
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GRAVNLEELEE65   Couple Man 38yrs Woman 46yrs

good for the ego

I made the first move on Grav....he didnt think i would go out with him. Hard to believe he was a little intimidated as he is so cheeky. Most of the time it is Grav who initiates sex. Grav loves me to take control in the bedroom. Only fair to mix things up a little. So i make sure i have a hot drink first...then slip under the covers....mmm.....nice way to wake up. Or i cuff him to the bed and just take it... haha. Leelee xxx
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BABOSS

Women making the 1st move mmmm well...

Pending on the situation if I like her or lust for her even then if I am neither it's always  good for the self-confidence and the ego as well!!!!LOL I don't mind if a woman make's the first move at all,I like a woman with a bit of fire and spirit and knows what she want's. Bring it ladies don't be shy!LOL Nothing wrong with sharing the magnetism. Nice one Kiss BABOSS
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perthman000

yes

1---love it 2-love it 3---23,789-luv it luv it :)
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curioustwo   Couple Man 51yrs Woman 44yrs

Making the first move

Quite frankly NO as in my experience if it is the female who makes the first move the resultant experience is very exciting. I suppose some guys may feel intimidated by it but my view is it is a compliment in that she is interested enough to show her intentions. Perhaps some of the issues that are faced not only by members of RHP but society in general would be solved if we allowed/or were more comfortable with women initiating things. Afterall we have been doing it for centuries and it still is a numbers game (i:e make ten approaches and perhaps get 1-2 strikes) Life would be much simpler if we were truly open and honest and let things flow rather than hang back or do we fear we fear rejection.
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haleakala

1st move

Pleased definately and if she can do it in an intimidating way then it's a bonus!
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andyrabbit   Man 39yrs

1st Move

Well Kiss 1.Secretly Pleased. 2 Love IT!
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rogue_

why would you feel intimidated ??

a sexually confident women is such a turn on!! I love to be seduced by women, a women that knows what she wants ........me
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panda__car   Man 42yrs

neither...

Amazed would be more my reaction! (and I'm only being partly facetious; on this site at least with the flood of messages & winks that females typically receive why would they even bother making any moves when it all gets delivered to their door?)
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PertHedonist

over the moon

especially when my mind reading abilities are on the fritz PD
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Alfie_unouwant2   Man 31yrs

women making the first move

Def pleased if it was coming from you!! ;)
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blackeyed   Man 35yrs

First Move

For me, a confident woman who knows what she wants is definately a turn on. Especially for initiating sex. It flatters and satisfies my ego, and usually the sex is better because I'm urged on to perform better so it will happen again. blackeyed
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Sugar_Blue   Woman 33yrs

Chicken!

I wish i had the balls but i dont, cant summon up the courage even if im 98% sure the guy is interested. However, Once the first move is out of the way and is a regular then i usually initiate the sex and be confident and take charge. Just that first move, Ok guys what do u do outwardly to try and let the chick know youre interested enough for her to make the first move? What are your signs?
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